Is it a good thing that men are enterprising?

Most women will put men's "dedication to work" in an important position when choosing a spouse. Even when a man has few advantages, "enterprise" has become the only reason to consider this man. What is "enterprising"? To put it bluntly, you have a strong ability to make money and have the expectation of making big money in the future. Don't tell me that a man's ambition is to realize self-worth and have a high-quality life for his family; After my promotion, I don't care whether I get rich or not. I only care about serving the people. This is so fake, so fake. Well, women just admit that they want to find a rich man. Even if they have no money today, they will make a lot of money in the future, okay? However, I must point out that "love is a hot dance" and "ambition" does not necessarily represent advantages, but sometimes it can be shortcomings or even nightmares! Don't believe it? Let me give you an analysis: ambitious men ~ ~ ~ First, they look glamorous and uncomfortable. Is it really a good thing that luxury cars and luxury houses keep socializing? When you find an ambitious man, he finally achieves the position of the chairman's wife, not to mention that you are old or not, he is usually hard to meet. No matter how good the car is, no matter how good the cosmetics, the most expensive luxury goods and the sexiest underwear are, it is difficult to find a true bosom friend. Only those wives who are also "successful and enterprising" can compete with each other or win, and feel that their shopping expenses for one afternoon can be the wages of others for several years, which is somewhat proud. In the future, you will envy couples riding tandem bicycles, men carrying women, eating spicy food in food stalls and being humble to each other. You will envy the quiet and comfortable leisure life with little money and the loving couple who get up at four in the morning to make breakfast. Indifference is the sharpest knife in the world. Second, every step of your career has a price of blood and sweat, and even you have to pay the price yourself. Money is not so easy to earn, and officials are not so easy to promote. When they earn money and get promoted, they are not what they used to be. They will sacrifice a lot and pay a lot: they will pay bribes, intrigue, try their best to crowd out others, try their best to win over their opponents, and even exchange their women for some benefits ... Well, are you lonely with a man with a strong career? Is he still him? Where is the happiness you want? How much time does he have with you? How much is left of his kindness? You should take care of his career wholeheartedly, either you don't understand or support him, or you are lazy ... when you do everything, he will suddenly find that you are not interested in your spare time. If you can't succeed in becoming a disgusting yellow-faced woman, you will probably be regarded as a slut by him. Third, your position is in jeopardy. Women always say "enterprising" when they talk about their mate selection conditions, right? Don't forget, a man with a strong career will be liked by others if you like him. The more successful he is, the more likable he is! You can't be younger than others His men and women in his entertainment will always be in their twenties and thirties-that is, the age when you fall in love with his enterprising spirit. But now you have no advantage except one more piece of paper. Of course, the child may give you more bargaining chips and more money, but only if he dies suddenly without a will, and you have to pray that you can get along with him for a hundred years. Fourth, enterprising people have serious defects. In China, very successful men are generally unremarkable, and quite unremarkable. Those who succeed in their careers are losers in most fields. We can hardly see tall and handsome male cadres and businessmen in China, but they can be seen everywhere in the United States. For example, Reagan is an actor, and Schwarzenegger can't be a governor without being an actor. Have you ever seen an actor who is a governor in China? Zhao Benshan, Pan Changjiang and Ge You are so awesome and handsome. How many people can make a splash? Suddenly I thought of Xiaogang Feng, so I stopped talking and couldn't speak. In addition, I have to mention how much energy, physical strength and even sexual ability I have spent in wine, mahjong and nightclubs, among leaders at all levels of industry and commerce, taxation, public security, fire protection, urban management and provinces and cities. This is a difficult mystery, but it is not difficult to solve. Fifth, women's ambition is strong, and their happiness will also decrease.