Can people who really understand metaphysics tell when a person has a wife?

When to marry depends on fate. Fate is given by the right time, the right place and God, and sharing is gained through hard work the day after tomorrow. First of all, you should have confidence. No matter how ugly and poor you are, be confident. Maybe the girl you like likes you. Don't think that you can catch up with all the girls just because you are rich or handsome. Moral girls will appreciate your connotation more, so when you get along, show your self-cultivation and demeanor. Don't be arrogant, and don't show off your advantages and capital everywhere. This will give people a frivolous feeling. Don't brag. Girls are not fools. They can see your good points. Girls like boys with depth very much. Having culture and connotation does not mean that you should give up your personality. On the contrary, boys with personality will fascinate girls now, but you should master the performance of this personality and don't draw a tiger to make trouble. The most important thing is to be generous. Even if you have no money, don't be so stingy in front of the girl you like. I don't mean to show off luxury, but don't haggle over every ounce. Of course, many girls still like rich boys, but I have never looked down on such kitsch girls. Give more gifts to girls and do more things for them. A girl with a conscience will feel indebted to you and won't have the heart to refuse your date, so that she can get along. Of course, the premise of giving gifts is that girls have a good impression on you. The purpose of pursuing girls is to make them fall in love with themselves, so you should pursue them boldly. Everything is difficult at the beginning, and action can have results!