I'm 30 years old, and my mother has the final say in everything. I'm married and have children, but my mother wants her to be in charge when I get married.

My mother is more vicious than your mother. She has a strong desire for control. I am 30 years old, too. She always tries to turn me into a mother-in-law boy. This kind of behavior and idea is too vicious. As long as I can remember, she has abused me in all kinds of words. When I was a child, she beat me, believing that sticks made me a dutiful son. But in the end, I only have endless resentment. If you want to kidnap me with morality, it will be all kinds of abuse. Now I have a serious psychological barrier and worship her. I even hate people with her personality, and then she pretends to be pathetic in front of me. At this time today, she always thought it was my fault. I have never experienced it, and you will never know my pain. I'm 30 years old, and she still has to go into my room and rummage through my things. I am not a person in her eyes and have no dignity. She will also hit me with all kinds of words, anyway, hit me, her subconscious. I am in great pain. She forced me out of depression, fear, fear and anxiety, and then she was complacent, because I lost the joy of life, so I could show her value. I really don't understand. I am a 30-year-old man, so I can't cook by myself. It's wicked of her to force me to listen to her in this way. The most vicious thing is that there is no shortage of money for eating. Makes me feel guilty, and then she lifts herself to a great level, and then uses it to criticize me every day, right or wrong? Parents who don't understand education and insist on forcing their children to think are the most vicious.