My life is up to me, not others.

? The sentence that impressed me the most in the movie Nezha last year was "My destiny depends on my destiny", which showed that George W. Nezha bravely pursued his destiny. People's prejudices are like mountains. Magic pills have been criticized since they were born. He tried to mingle with everyone, but he was always greeted with hostility and ridicule. Those children threw eggs and vegetables at him, or Nezha's eyes were full of innocence! So then he started making trouble. Since everyone thought of himself as a monster, he did what monsters do. It was not until the great family made him feel warm and his only friend made him red-eyed, that Nezha burst into the power of awakening and shouted "My life depends on me"!

? People who live in society have to be influenced by others. If you want to go to graduate school, some people say that you must go to graduate school if you can't find a good job. At the age of 30, you are still single. Some people will guess that there is nothing wrong with you? Out of the system, some people will say that you have an iron rice bowl and your brain is broken ... It seems that our life is full of other people's voices! And the world is more harsh on girls!

? Rachel Hollis is the author of Wake Up, Girl, a best-selling author, a TV celebrity, a popular speaker, the founder and CEO of American geek media company, and was selected as one of the "Top 30 Entrepreneurs under 30" by Inc. magazine. In the book, she used her own personal experience to expose the lies on the road of life and how she overcame these obstacles and gained a new life. She called on women to wake up and believe in themselves. Only they can finally decide what kind of person you will become and how happy you will be!

Wake up, girl is an inspirational book for women's growth. It faces reality and exposes the nature of many seemingly natural lies. Every girl has a beautiful soul after shedding her wrinkled shell. Vertical books encourage women to dare to break lies and pursue their dreams! Many stories of the author in the book remind me of myself. I grew up in the countryside, where boys are preferred to girls. I was taught that girls should be obedient and do housework, but it backfired. I am naughty and like climbing trees. I would rather do farm work than housework. So I was not a good girl in everyone's eyes since I was a child! My mother has always taught me that whoever you see will go home after school, and her mother doesn't have to take care of everything! In the eyes of mothers, girls and boys are different. It's normal for boys to be naughty. Girls should be obedient and do housework well! Until now, I have become a mother and daughter, and my mother will always educate me like this! Now I just laugh it off and won't argue with her! I don't understand, why should we define girls from an early age? Daughter, now more than 2 years old, boys like balls, cars and guns, but they are not very interested in dolls! Why do girls have to like dolls?

? When I was a child, my father said that I had no musical cells, so I never dared to sing before college. It was not until the university and dormitory collectively performed the program that my roommate began to encourage me to sing and patiently guide me. Later, I like singing. I often go to ktv with my friends. I like singing! So now my daughter is singing blindly with a microphone, so I encourage her to sing more, although I don't know what she is singing!

? After reading the book "Wake Up, Girl", I immediately solved many doubts. I've been living a lie for so many years. I think I can think independently and choose independently. In fact, all my actions are influenced by others, which often puzzles me. What is the real self like? The author of this book made me suddenly enlightened. My life should be in my own hands, and other people's opinions can only be used as a reference! May every girl find the key to her own destiny and start a beautiful life!