Where does deep affection come from?

Said by: In Jin Yong's Record of Pleasure, Enjoyment and Hatred, Chen Jialuo Yu Pei's inscription was given by Gan Long, which revealed the realm he especially admired all his life.

Original text:

Gan Long said with a smile, "You always have too high a vision, and you are a person who has not taken it seriously so far. This treasure jade will be given to the right person in the future as a token of love. " Jade is crystal clear, emitting a faint soft light in the moonlight. Chen Jialuo thanked, took it, and the tentacles were warm. It turned out to be an extremely precious and moist jade.

On the jade, there are four lines of fine seal engraving embedded with gold thread: "Love is too deep to live, and strength is humiliating. Modest gentleman, gentle as jade. " Gan Long said with a smile, "If I hadn't known you were an open-minded person, I wouldn't have given you this jade, let alone given it to the right person." Although these four inscriptions look unlucky, they contain truth.

Explanation:

A person is too smart, too smart, and will harm himself. Too persistent and persistent feelings will not last long. People who are too prominent are bound to be humiliated. A gentleman should be gentle and calm as jade, reserved and determined, not unassuming, but self-revealing.

Extended data

"Love doesn't last long, strength leads to humiliation, modesty leads to tenderness, and softness leads to jade". This is the inscription on a piece of Baoyu given to Chen Jialuo by Qianlong in The Story of the Sword. Jade is crystal clear, emitting a faint soft light in the moonlight. Chen Jialuo picked it up, and its tentacles were warm. It turned out to be an extremely precious and moist jade.

On the jade, there are four lines of fine seal engraving embedded with gold thread: "Love is too deep to live, and strength is humiliating. Modest gentleman, gentle as jade. " -The Book of the Sword. These words contain the truth of life. After reading them, Chen really has a kind of satisfaction, which is hard to suppress.

A relationship, often in the deepest place, can't last long. You know, everything will gradually decline when it reaches its limit. A man can be strong enough to make the world submit, but he will not be respected for it. As a modest gentleman, we should always reflect on ourselves with the warmth and brilliance of jade tentacles, be tolerant of others with a gentleman's way, and behave calmly and moderately, giving people the feeling of being bathed in the spring breeze.

References:

Baidu Encyclopedia-If you love deeply, you will be hurt.