The family wants to stay in the original place, and the family is poor and has gone abroad. Who said that?

Shi Naian. The whole sentence is "the mother is weak and the business is strong, and the father is strong." The family wants to stay in their hometown, be poor and run away from home. "This sentence comes from Shi Naian. This sentence means that if you have a strong family background in your hometown, going to a big city to work hard will waste your advantage. They should stay in their hometown and rely on their father and brother's background. If the family conditions are average and there is no background, it is necessary to move to other places, which means there is a way out.