Personality test: judging your deep personality

Personality test: judging your deep personality

Do you know what your deep personality is like? Do you want to know your deep personality? The following is the personality test I recommend to you: judging your deep personality, hoping to bring you help.

Suppose you have a bottle of magic potion that can predict the future in front of you. If you drink the whole bottle, you will know everything about your life. What will you do with this bottle of medicine?

A, I'm a little interested, but I don't drink this bottle of medicine.

B, drink the whole bottle of medicine in one breath.

C, you'll know the importance of tomorrow after drinking enough.

D, only by drinking can we know the importance of things in the coming year.

E, keep it first, and then use it when necessary.

Answer analysis:

Choose a, you are quite confident in your own thinking and beliefs, and even if you encounter obstacles, you will try your best to solve them in your own way. You have a strong sense of morality and religious enthusiasm, and you will be tireless in your work or daily life and stick to your post. You may be a devout Christian.

Choose B, you have extraordinary courage, curiosity and adventurous spirit. But you often pay too much attention to the result of things, while ignoring the process and painstaking efforts. So you usually don't work hard on things that you can't win or grasp, because you don't want to waste your energy. You often like fortune telling, hoping to have some reference pointers to let you know which direction you want to go in the future. Basically, although you believe that where there is a will, there is a way, you also believe that fate and luck are the key to success.

Choose c, you are a careful person, and you are quite responsible for yourself, which also allows others to trust you with the task. You don't like to aim too high and set high goals at once, but you like to set short-range goals first and move forward step by step until you are close to your dreams.

Choose D, you have a great desire for the future, and often dream that you can seize the opportunity of success and realize your wishes. I also hope to have a noble person to help you.

Choose e, you are a very rational person and pay attention to rationality in everything. I like to get to the bottom of it and study the truth, sometimes I don't know how to change it. However, you always take safety first as the highest principle, so there will be no unreasonable requirements. You also attach great importance to your knowledge and thinking ability, and are not easily influenced by other people's opinions.

Extended reading:

Personality? The greatest influence of parents on their children

The biggest influence of parents on their children is personality.

I have always believed that personality determines fate, and skills, IQ and knowledge are behind. It is not necessary and impossible for us to transform oranges into apples, but whether children are introverted or extroverted, they can cultivate self-confidence, optimism and perseverance in the face of setbacks. Let children feel the unconditional love of their parents and have a sense of security, which is the starting point of self-confidence.

I like a book called Unconditional Parenting very much. The book says:? Personality includes his conduct and intrinsic value. What is important is that when children grow up, they can find their own existence value without being seen by others. ?

Optimism is very important. You can see hope where others can't see opportunities, and you won't give up easily in the face of setbacks. Friends who are interested in the study of this conclusion are recommended to read "Optimization of Acquisition: How to Change Your Mind and Your Life" and "How Children Become Successful". They believe that children's will, curiosity and conduct are crucial to their lives, far higher than other factors.

The influence of personality is often in silence. I once saw a German mother with a 23-year-old child. The child fell down while walking and cried on the ground. Mother stood still, smiling and encouraging her to stand up. The child struggled to get up and shook forward with a smile. I have seen many other parents running in a panic under similar circumstances, hugging, coaxing and coaxing, but the children began to cry. Character is formed in these little things.

Encouraging children is an important part of influencing personality. If children's efforts are praised, they will think that whether they can do it well is in their own hands. On the contrary, praising children's intelligence means telling them that success is out of their control.

In addition, don't compare your children with other children easily. In comparative praise, children may only care about their relative position, rather than aiming at mastering a certain ability. This leads to a bigger problem, that is, the role of rewards. Educating children sometimes becomes the ultimate test of parents, and rewards become a common way for schools and families in the East and the West. It seems like a shortcut, but it will have unexpected consequences. Rewards usually shift children's attention to study and work to prizes, such as getting full marks to buy an iPad. There is no reward for seeking short-term or even immediate satisfaction. Let children learn to set goals for themselves and experience the inner happiness of overcoming challenges.

In today's increasingly affluent and comfortable society, it is impossible for the only child of the middle class to hone his character by creating a difficult environment. The edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold? This is a distant legend. But sports is an excellent activity, which can not only exercise children's health, but also sharpen their character, learn how to cooperate with others and how to solve conflicts.

I often see children's joy after winning on the court, sadness after losing, grievances after conflicts with others, laughter and tears are so strong. Exercise at this time is the best metaphor for life. Go all out, lose, get up and continue; I'm glad I won, but don't feel too good. Sports shorten life into an understandable scene in an ingenious way, which actually gives children an opportunity to experience and gain insight into life.

Don't deprive children of the opportunity to try and make mistakes.

Personality health is the most important. For me, the next one is skill, which is far more important than knowledge. Among all skills, learning ability is the most important, which is the most sustainable competitiveness in our life.

Franklin said: tell me, I may forget; Teach me, and I may remember; Let me participate, and I will learn. It means that if you just tell me, I will forget, and I will really learn by myself. Oriental parents are eager to impose their conclusions on their children, which seems to be a shortcut, but in fact they deprive their children of the opportunity to learn through trial and error.

Experience can't be replaced by conclusions, let alone many parents'? Conclusion? It may not be right. Sometimes, children need to make their own mistakes, and in the process of trial and error, they need to establish common sense and judgment about the world.

When my children were young, they played with English children in London, and the children scrambled to put sand in their mouths. British mother said, once you let them eat it in your mouth, you will know that it tastes bad next time and you will get rid of it. Children go to Montessori kindergarten before they are two years old. All the tableware here is porcelain instead of plastic. The teacher said that once it is broken, you can learn to be careful from the consequences.

Say a few more words about this problem. No more than three generations? Is a highly relevant topic. This is not just a problem in China. Americans have the same proverb for three generations, starting from scratch.

It stands to reason that rich children have the most advantages, have money and connections, and go to the best schools. This decline should not happen for generations, but it is not the case in reality. The reason is that people everywhere provide convenient shortcuts, and most of them are deprived of the process of trial and error, lack of understanding of common sense, and thus gradually lose their basic judgment of the world.

Reading is very important.

Learning ability is a big topic. According to my experience, reading is very important. A quarter of the people in the English-speaking world are functionally illiterate. Although literate, it is difficult to read, which is also considered to be one of the important reasons for the polarization between the rich and the poor.

It is not difficult to understand the important truth of reading. Personal experience is very important, but the scope of personal contact with people and things is limited. Reading provides us with an opportunity to talk to the smartest minds in the history of human thinking. Most of us are ordinary people, and our minds, horizons and values are basically shaped by the surrounding environment. Reading good books is one of the rare escape routes when the environment is not ideal.

On the issue of how to teach children to read, there has been a long-standing debate in American education in the past twenty years, which is called the reading war. One school advocates the holistic language method, allowing children to guess in the context of listening, speaking, reading and writing; A school advocates natural spelling so that children can read by spelling syllables.

Therefore, the US Congress entrusts the National Institute of Child Health and Development to inspect the scientific research achievements over the years and provide reading education reports. In a highly politicized atmosphere, experts put forward a suggestion that no one will offend, and most of them are common sense. For example, parents should talk to their children more often, read books together every day, read stories aloud, read more rhythmic books, systematically introduce the relationship between letters and sounds, constantly introduce and familiarize themselves with new vocabulary, teach children how to use a word in phrases, sentences and stories, teach children to think about what to read and go to the library together.

At a certain age, children will ask a million whys, and a question will be asked a series of whys. At this moment, the window of his curiosity opened. Every question is an excellent opportunity for children to learn. I think parents should be patient and answer in a way that they can understand. If they can't answer, go to the encyclopedia and answer again. If your child wants to learn, you have no patience to teach; And children don't want to learn, don't want to irrigate, get twice the result with half the effort. The older the child is, you can slowly encourage yourself to find the answer.

Don't pin your dreams on children.

One of the responsibilities of parents is to help their children discover their talents and potential, rather than imposing their wishful dreams on their children.

Compassion and understanding are very important for children. Children are often frustrated because they can't accurately express their feelings, and their little hearts are also a stormy world. Parents should first try to understand their children, then seek to be understood by them, and then make sense. The first step is to always let the child know that his parents have understood his depression, sadness and depression. Confirming this step is the basis to avoid the chicken talking to the duck. Then confirm what the child's needs are, and the last step begins to make sense.

Parents have the responsibility to find out which ones are suitable for one-on-one teaching and which ones are suitable for a group of children to learn together. Whether it is right or wrong varies from person to person. Teach students in accordance with their aptitude and have a good English translator. Although a little wordy, I think the meaning is more clear: if your child can't learn the way you teach, you must teach him the way he can learn. In other words, if your child can't learn in the way you teach him, you need to teach him in the way he can learn.

To open a child's heart, we should start with the questions he is interested in and talk about the topics that adults are interested in slowly, not the other way around. For example, talking about children he likes or strongly dislikes, children often talk endlessly; Putting the behaviors of children he likes and dislikes into his favorite stories and making him laugh will open the door to dialogue.

The future of children is a big topic, which needs parents' help to think about. The best choice is where three circles intersect and overlap. Let him fill in the first lap? My favorite? , the second lap is full? What am I good at? , the third lap is full? Social opportunities? . This is far from simple as it seems, and it needs long-term thinking and changes with time. Children have many choices in life. Unfortunately, in today's society, most people don't know what they like or what they are good at, but they are all chasing social hotspots. Therefore, the streets are full of unhappy people.

Change the way we interact with schools.

Modern education is the product of industrial civilization, which is characterized by batch cultivation of standard products in production lines. The main goal is to eliminate illiteracy, improve literacy rate and provide skilled workers for production lines. Literariness is the ability to recognize, understand and communicate language and other symbolic systems, such as mathematics and science. It is not always conducive to solving problems or cultivating creativity and other non-batch problems.

The East and the West face the same challenges. If single parents confront the whole system and ask schools and teachers to change traditional practices, the chances of winning are not high. Unless you are Zheng, let your child go home to school and teach by himself, but at that price, he will be deprived of the opportunity to communicate with other children.

Under the assumption that parents can't choose confrontation system, the best strategy is to focus on the areas that schools are not good at: character building, problem solving and independent thinking. Let the school belong to the school, the parents belong to the parents, revolve around the baton of the school, and spend all the extra-curricular time on how to let the children win in the classroom. I think it's the lowest return on investment. I hope my children can spend 20% of their time solving 80% of their studies, and the remaining 80% of their spare time can play football, swim, play chess, be in a daze and do what they like.

In this way, the test for parents is to resist the teacher's pressure, not to pass it on to the child's mind, and the child may feel this pressure very sensitively. When teachers put pressure on parents because their children's grades are not good enough, it is unwise for parents to go home and discipline their children. Actually, when you can't stand the pressure, think about it. After many years, who cares about your grades in primary and junior high schools?

At an appropriate age, taking a child to travel not only increases his fun, but also unexpectedly finds that the child's character becomes more calm during the trip. In natural history museums, science museums and science museums, children always linger. For young children, it is far more intuitive than art galleries and history museums.

As long as there is an opportunity, I stay with my children every night, reading and telling stories in bed, which is endless fun. We read Tang poetry and Wang Changling together. He liked it very much and said it was delicious. Read Li Yu's poems together and tell the story of Li Yu from emperor to prisoner. The child cried and said that he felt sorry for the poet. After turning off the lights, he put his feet on my stomach and then made up stories about his classmates and teachers.

There is a metaphor in Ji Bolun's poem The Prophet. He said that parents are bows and children are arrows on the bow. This means we can't control the direction of his future flight. We can only give him love, not thoughts, because he has his own thoughts. ?

I think the post-70s generation may be the generation that needs to be filial to their parents and accompany them to get old, but the first generation can't expect our children to be around when they are old. These happy daily encounters may be the softest memories in the future.

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