Journal of love and emotion

Love is a flashy and short-lived dream. When I wake up, all the love and hate will pass, leaving a mottled and desolate heart. The following is a diary of my feelings about love collected for everyone. Welcome to reading.

If you love me, how can you wait until you are forty?

On September 26th, at the 50th Golden Bell Awards Ceremony, Ruby Lin made a stunning appearance in a openwork crystal dress. The jaw that was smashed a few days ago was skillfully treated without any flaws. This is the goddess: when she should be radiant, she will never be eclipsed. Although she lost her title after watching it at the next award ceremony, her self-written and self-performed Summer of 16 won the Golden Bell Award for best drama, best director and best supporting actress in one fell swoop, becoming a veritable big winner.

When she attacked the city in the battlefield of her career, her lifelong events attracted more and more attention. As a "golden leftover woman" in the entertainment circle, any trouble in feelings can always attract public attention. The old love affair with Jimmy Lin, which has been mentioned so far, still brings tears to everyone. Later, I admired talented people and talked to the famous director Tang Jili about "forgetting the past few years", but it ended in vain.

In Qiong Yao's plays, every love seems to end in a dull way. No sky is falling, no enemies. Dramatic life must meet a woman who is used to sensibility to have a strong chemical reaction, and Ruby Lin is obviously more rational. Therefore, she won't make a big fuss about the old love. Whether she was asked by the media or the public was curious, she either calmly took it or smiled and avoided it. This time, the "40-year Covenant" with Alec Su once again pushed her to the forefront because of the arrival of the deadline.

As an important member of the once-popular Little Tiger, Alec Su, who rarely had an affair, has long been a successful bachelor in career transformation, well maintained, young and charming. He has worked with Ruby Lin, also from Taiwan Province, in several films. In "Heavy Rain", due to the perfect partner of the golden couple, countless fans earnestly hope that they can also love each other for life in reality.

30-year-old Alec Su didn't know whether it was held hostage by public opinion or a whim. He agrees with Ruby Lin that if he can't find the other half before the age of 40, they will get married. However, with the coming of the Year of Ruby Lin, facing the enthusiastic expectations of the media and the public, Alec Su recently accepted an interview, saying that the agreement he reached with Ruby Lin was just a joke. They had known each other for nearly 30 years, and their feelings had already been close to family ties.

There is a kind of sadness called "we are all serious, but that person is not serious!" " "I wonder how Ruby Lin will feel after hearing Alec Su's words? With her usual self-cultivation, even if someone asks her, she may reply faintly, "OK, thank you for your concern. This was really a joke at the time. "If not, what can I do? Will loss and trouble be obvious? That's not allowed by her dignity, his face and their respective public images. Therefore, facing such embarrassment may be the best solution.

In fact, such an example of "engagement" is not uncommon in entertainment circles. For example, Ren Quan and Li Bingbing, Chen Long and Ma Yili, Leslie Cheung and Anita Mui all made such agreements, but in the end they were still alone, belonged to each other, or were unmarried, but all died. In the "failed engagement", Shu Qi and Zhang zhen are the most touching. Shu Qi and Zhang zhen were once regarded as "star couples with the most couples" by netizens. They have played lovers several times in more than ten years, which can be described as perfect match.

In 2005, Hou Hsiao-hsien invited Shu Qi and Zhang zhen to co-star in "The Best Time", and they kissed each other in the film, which made the media suspect that they were "confusing the real with the fake". In 2007, in The Mouth of Heaven, which was produced by John Woo, Shu Qi had a close contact with Zhang zhen again, which also showed an unusual affection. Although they have always been friends, scandals about them are rampant.

At the Cannes Film Festival in 2009, under the cover of a joke, Shu Qi agreed with Zhang zhen of the same age: "If I am 35 years old and you are not married, I will marry you." But Shu Qi waited until he was 35 years old, but there was no lover to marry him. 20 13, Zhang zhen is married, but the bride is his unknown assistant. Shu Qi accepted the couple's bouquet at the wedding scene, seemingly happy, but in fact she was mixed with joy and sorrow, and cried bitterly. 20 15 at the press conference in Nie Yinniang, she said that Zhang zhen said, "You have married someone else." Her heart was sour and her bones were in her throat, which was not enough for outsiders.

Compared with women, men don't like duplicity. They are often more likely to attack after targeting, so they are very loyal to the ethnic group they choose. If a man likes or even loves a woman deeply, but does not pursue her horse, but predicts the marriage agreement into the unpredictable future, it is enough to show that he does not love, at least not so much! Otherwise, how will he endure the long yearning, how to worry about other competitors, how to predict the change of time, and how to change the hand of fate in the world! When these gains and losses are not in his consideration, then this woman has actually been circled by him.

At this moment, why did he say such a thing so emotionally? Or in order to consolidate their public image, they have to meet the expectations of the public and make a commitment with a logical conclusion; Or he is kind-hearted and wants to give her an ethereal hope, which is better than the desolation that no one can pick; Or it's really just a joke. In the bizarre entertainment circle, without the ability to make gimmicks and gags, how can we remain invincible for a long time? Therefore, our male host just casually said, but the female host is likely to believe it until "all Qian Fan knows" and their waiting is "heartbreaking"

It is also said that the reason why male stars make such "promises" is also to indirectly show the opposite public that their relationship with the female host is extraordinary. This is just another display of the ashes-like friendship they have formed over the years. They call it "you have a big reward, but your lover is not full", so this joke is made.

For example, Ren Quan and Li Bingbing have a long friendship of 20 years. They are both classmates of Shanghai Theatre Academy and fellow villagers from Black Land. Years of caring friendship have enabled them to support each other in their careers and help each other in business. Ren Quan once said, "If no one has decided in the future, let's make do together." Just like the meeting between Alec Su and Ruby Lin ten years ago and 40 years ago, it seems to prove their unbreakable friendship for 30 years.

However, when it is false, it is true, and when it is false, inaction is everywhere. How many people express their true desires in the name of jokes, and how many people explicitly reject each other in the name of jokes. Therefore, joking is sometimes a grand ambiguity and a naked cruelty. The former leaves room and space for itself, while the latter presents a self-evident truth.

At that time, Shu Qi said, "If I am 35 years old and you are not married, I will marry you." How much courage does it take? She is willing to seize this rare opportunity even though she knows that this temptation is only evidence of humiliating herself afterwards. As for Alec Su's romantic contract ten years ago, it is not clear whether Ruby Lin is joking or caring.

Therefore, "Lang has feelings and concubines are interested" is the perfect meeting of mountains and rivers and mutual appreciation. This is no longer a false friend, but the most beautiful thing in the world.

If you love me, please hold my hand immediately, don't think about the past and don't send the future, so as to represent our naked sincerity.

This is the best long-distance relationship I have ever seen.

In a blink of an eye, it has been more than ten years since I graduated from high school. The reserved program of every class reunion is to take stock of high school couples, and now there are only a few couples left.

When I was in college, everyone was very young, and I had a lot of leisure time and youth that I couldn't let go of. I am very enthusiastic about the reunion of high school classmates. I basically guarantee once a year, and the number is relatively complete. Everyone gets together, just like old friends reunited after a long separation, greeting each other and partying together.

Slowly, the number of classmates' parties is getting less and less. After graduation, everyone is busy making a living, and it is getting harder and harder to be together.

At a recent party, only a few female students took their children to attend, which looked more like a family gathering of girlfriends. Looking at the girls who were once lush and now mothers, everyone was filled with emotion. After a big meal, everyone still enjoys the enduring topic of small talk. Those young lovers in those days, who has passed the test of long-distance love and overcome all difficulties to make it a positive result?

We are saddened to find that there were more than a dozen couples in those days, but now they are all well, and only two have entered the marriage hall.

One pair is a combination of top professionals. The other pair is the love of urban gold couples.

Next, I want to tell the story of the golden couple Dajun and Mingxi's long-distance love for more than ten years.

In fact, Dajun and Mingxi knew each other as early as junior high school. Both of them are music majors and often go to the piano room to play erhu together.

Yes! Go to the piano room, not play the piano, but play the erhu. At that time, the musical instruments of music majors in experimental middle schools were basically erhu.

We are all puzzled about this. Why do you all like playing erhu so much? When erhu is mentioned, people will always think of A Bing, a blind man, playing "Two Springs Reflecting the Moon" sadly.

At this time, Dajun and Mingxi will be very helpless and say, no way, our professional teacher plays the erhu best.

By the third day, everyone is studying hard, and they can't wait to hang their heads and study at night, in order to sharpen their heads and be admitted to the best key high school in the city. Nature has no leisure to fall in love.

During the senior high school entrance examination, Dajun and Mingxi failed to get into the best high school in the market. Both of them went to the most unpopular music, Meitegao.

As soon as I entered high school, I passed the tense stage of preparing for the senior three, and everyone relaxed. Many students have been in love.

As early as junior high school, Dajun had a good impression on Mingxi, but he was too nervous to study and didn't care about falling in love.

At the beginning of military training, Dajun launched a crazy pursuit of Mingxi in turn.

My savage girlfriend became popular in China in 2002.

At that time, Mingxi was really beautiful, with bright eyes and white teeth, a cicada's head flying with a moth's eyebrow, and her skin was much more beautiful than that of Gianna Jun. Although she is straightforward and has a little personality, she is gentle and lovely. Dajun has more affection for Mingxi than Che Taixian in the movie! The most important thing is that he is one hundred times bigger and more handsome than Che Taixian.

They are like conjoined babies every day, inseparable. Of course, more often, Dajun is like a "little handsome guy" around Lafayette, bowing his head to please Mingxi.

Many times, male students don't like it. Dajun was born with a hen-pecked wife and protested strongly. You are a 17-foot person, but you are afraid that she is a little girl.

From time to time, the great gentleman should hold his head high and hold his chest high, and say in his powerful and magnetic voice, who said I was afraid of her? Is my hobby bad? As I said on the internet, smart men will spoil their women to the point where other men can't accept her smelly temper. This is my strategy. Do you think it's weird?

In this way, Dajun is still happy to spoil his Ming queen as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade.

Of course, sometimes we fight. Both Mingxi and Dajun are witty and spontaneous. But Mingxi was stubborn and refused to lower his proud head. Every time the Great King makes concessions, his trump card is to sing "You and I agreed that when quarreling, we should stop immediately ..." He always has a way to coax Mingxi to clarify.

In the third year of high school, the music class was dissolved, and Dajun and Mingxi were assigned to two art classes.

In this way, the two began the earliest and shortest long-distance love.

At that time, Dajun would come to our class to talk to Mingxi and make her happy during almost every class break.

In order to be admitted to the same university as Mingxi, when taking the music major exam, Dajun chose almost the same school as Mingxi. He is simply Mingxi's assistant.

In the face of everyone's doubts, Dajun embraced Mingxi with satisfaction and said, I don't have any big dreams, I just want to stay with my Ming queen all the time.

However, because of God's teasing, Mingxi didn't expect the professional admission notice of his favorite university, but the army accompanying the exam got the admission notice and won the first place in Ningxia University.

That scene was like the black soil that accompanied Baiyun to practice running and was accidentally called the Olympic torchbearer.

Mingxi's pride shattered all over the floor. She cried silently, crying and chanting. I worked so hard that my grades were among the best at ordinary times and I did well in the exam. Why did you win the first place? Great, you have seen the scenery, enjoy it! In the future, when you are successful in official career, you will abandon me ... "

Dajun looked at Mingxi and cried, and his heart was broken. He tried his best to comfort Mingxi. My dear queen, please don't cry. Isn't it the first place in Ningxia University? I don't care, I only care about you. I will never leave you. Is this stupid notice blocking your eyes? I'll tear it up now, so you won't be sad ... wherever you go, I'll accompany you. Dajun is always a follower of the Queen.

Seeing that Dajun really tore up the notice by hand, Mingxi was scared and snatched it away. She wiped her tears and said, You are crazy. How many people dream of this notice? You have to tear it up. I forbid you to tear it!

In fact, I feel very sad at the thought of leaving you soon ... At that moment, the proud and charming Mingxi was as gentle as Xiaohua Mall, and I felt sorry for her.

Dajun grabbed Mingxi and gently touched her head, saying that separation is temporary. We will get married as soon as we graduate and will never be separated for the rest of our lives.

From then on, they began a long-distance relationship for four years.

Like other long-distance lovers, the way to maintain a relationship is telephone, video and QQ chat.

In order to consolidate their feelings, Dajun and Mingxi agreed to travel to xi on May 1 and1every year.

Poor students don't have much money, so they take the green leather train, Mingxi takes the bus from Qingdao, and the army starts from Yinchuan. At that time, the difference between the two trains they took was twenty minutes.

Every time you wait for Mingxi with great excitement, these twenty minutes are simply wonderful for him. At the thought of meeting his beloved girl soon, Dajun got excited and sang Mingxi's favorite song "You are my beloved girl", and people around him didn't care at all.

In this way, the single cycle continued until Mingxi got off the bus and ran to herself. At that time, like Yi Ping and Shu Huan in the rain, they flew to each other and kissed at the parting station. At that moment, I hope that time will stop and stay in a happy moment forever.

In 2008, Mingxi graduated from Dajun one year ahead of schedule. After much deliberation, she decided to find a job in Yinchuan and spend a year with the army.

That year, the two were like young couples reunited after a long separation, cherishing the hard-won time together. Dajun was surprised to find that Mingxi was much gentler.

At the end of 2008, I met Dajun and Mingxi in the shopping mall in my hometown. To tell you the truth, I can't recognize Mingxi until I have met the Great King. Her change really surprised me! A pure black silky hair hangs down to the waist, delicate pink makeup and slim pink coat make Mingxi's face full of spring breath. She gently took your arm, smiled and looked forward to it. Sometimes they look at each other tenderly, and sometimes they whisper to each other.

Looking at this pair of wall people in front of me, I suddenly want to fall in love

I have always believed in being single, and I had two special urges to fall in love. On one occasion, on the eve of the college entrance examination, Mingxi cried because she didn't get the notice from her favorite university, and the gentleman comforted her in every way, even when she was about to tear up the notice.

Another time, at present, the two are full of love, and you are jealous of others.

In September 2009, Mingxi got the opportunity to go to Hong Kong for a high-paying job. After graduating from Dajun University, he was forcibly sent back to his hometown in Shandong by his parents, who hoped that he could be a music teacher in a small county.

Mingxi had already flown to Hong Kong to work. She wants to earn more money while she is young and improve her family's economic conditions.

The army passed the teacher qualification examination under the coercion and inducement of parents, and will soon become an excellent people's teacher.

At this time, Mingxi made a condition, either to go to Hong Kong to accompany her or to break up.

Hearing Mingxi break up, the great monarch's heart is broken. At that moment, he discovered that Mingxi was his oxygen, and he could not do without her.

Tae-jun showed his cards to his parents very firmly. I can't live without enlightened hope. I must go to Hong Kong to find her.

In order to work in a company with Mingxi, before going to Hong Kong, Dajun found a job as a waiter in a hot pot city in a small county, and wanted to accumulate some work experience so that he could go to Hong Kong and work with Mingxi in Fly with Me.

In this way, high flyers, the charming music department of a famous university, became a runner in the hot pot city, tired like a dog every day, and smelled of hot pot that could not be dispersed for a long time.

Relatives and friends are very puzzled about this. Is it worth it to let a relaxed, comfortable, decent and stable teacher not do it and tire himself like this every day?

Every time you smile, as long as you can stay with Mingxi for a lifetime, it's worth it!

Half a year passed quickly. When Dajun didn't come to Hong Kong to find himself, Mingxi broke up again.

The army hung up the phone, packed their bags, and flew to Hong Kong with 3,000 yuan earned from working in Hotpot City in their pockets.

In Hong Kong, the proud army still starts from the bottom waiters. Although he works hard every day, he is happy.

Every time I see him in a circle of friends, all kinds of fancy show love, and their sweet figures are all over the country, even in the United States. Every photo of Dajun Dole's big mouth reached behind his ear, and Mingxi, who snuggled up to him, was as happy as falling into a honey pot, just like the lush girl who was spoiled by love more than ten years ago.

Yes! For women, sweet love is the most effective skin care product in the world.

In 20 13, Dajun, who was promoted and given a salary increase and was proud of the spring breeze, prepared a very surprising marriage proposal ceremony for Mingxi under the witness of his colleagues.

Just like the vulgar bridge in the idol drama, the handsome guy in a suit and tie holds a big bunch of roses in his hand and kneels on one knee, and Mingxi cries with joy. Fourteen years later, they finally came together through hardships.

Last weekend in Zhuhai, I was lucky enough to meet Dajun and Mingxi again. I haven't seen you for years. Dajun lost a lot of weight and Mingxi gained a lot of weight, but he was still beautiful.

That kind of beauty can't be cared for by any expensive cosmetics, and it is the great magic of love.

Dajun is as heartless as he was in middle school. He smiled and asked me if I had changed. I've lost more than 20 kilograms, and the meat is on my Mingxi.

Mingxi Chen jiao said, go, you have ulterior motives and feed me so fat.

The army smiled. Children look better when they are fat. Now that you are grown up, you should eat more.

Seeing that they are still as affectionate as they were ten years ago, my envious saliva is about to gush out.

"Good envy you two, more than ten years, just fell in love with the young couple. Hurry and teach me some secrets of love preservation. " I said enviously.

Mingxi is a little embarrassed to say that in fact, we often quarrel, and the way to solve our contradictions is to quarrel.

It is inevitable that two people quarrel together, and quarreling, scolding and fighting is true love! I said, are there any other secrets? Many people say that long-distance relationships are particularly painful, difficult to survive, and the success rate is particularly low.

The gentleman said with a serious face that long-distance love really tests the feelings of two people. They are tired of being together every day, and they can't understand the kind of long-distance love that "the clothes are getting wider and wider, and they don't regret it." Be lovesick. In fact, I think couples should be apart for a while to experience long-distance love, because they never know whether they are in love or not until they are apart. That's why "parting is better than getting married"! Don't say that long-distance relationships are hard to succeed. In fact, it is often because you don't love enough. Because I don't love enough, I use long-distance love as an excuse to break up.

Mingxi added shyly, I think travel is the secret of keeping long-distance relationships fresh. Since we went to college, we have traveled more than half of China and also visited the United States. Usually, as soon as we feel that life is dull and our passion is about to run out, we will pack our bags and travel.

Traveling is really amazing, looking at the footprints and figures of two people, walking through one city after another and crossing one strange street after another. That kind of feeling is wonderful, as if two people have experienced a lot together, and they have been integrated and can no longer be separated. If plain and trivial life is like boiled water, then travel is the best antidote.

Looking at Mingxi and talking about Kan Kan, Dajun said with satisfaction that my biggest dream now is that Mingxi can give me a daughter, so that my life will be perfect. I will spend my whole life with my two big babies, and I want nothing more.

I laughed. Don't you have any musical dreams? You have a good appearance and excellent singing skills. Why don't you join the Voice of China?

The great gentleman went over and said, I have no musical dreams. My biggest dream is to stay with Mingxi all the time. I can't join the Voice of China. If Queen Ming becomes popular and busy every day, who will take care of her?

Mingxi told me gently that his singing is really nice, and I like listening to him best. In fact, he won prizes in many singing competitions in Hong Kong.

I saw some kind of light in Mingxi's eyes, and I knew that the bright eyes in her eyes were her heartfelt love for Dajun.

Only true love can make a woman so radiant when talking about her man.

Seeing that Dajun and Mingxi have been happy for more than ten years, I think this is probably the best long-distance relationship I have ever seen.