What do you mean, "the eldest son is hard to recruit"?

If the first is a son, he is rarely blessed, and may be accompanied by illness and disaster. There is also a saying that the first child is a daughter. There is also a saying that the first child born is not well educated and needs patient education, but the child is ugly, so it is difficult to call the eldest son. There is also a folk saying that children are difficult to raise, such as the first wife.

Joy chen: On Life: Ma Yuanxing entered life with three punishments and six harms. If the wind flies, the mind is smart, the will is firm and headstrong, the clothes are brilliant, the weak and frustrated, the chivalrous intestines struggle for power and profit, the loneliness and self-confidence are too heavy, and the wind and waves are too heavy. Take a break and adapt to the industry: industrialist, politician, strategist, intermediary, educator, industry and mining, etc. Wood avoids good or bad luck: 19, 29, 36, 66, 79, etc. In the early stage, the parents were all six brothers and sisters, and Hugh Enci and China became smart and brave gradually. China was loyal to his credit, so it was difficult to recruit the first brothers and couples to join the craft camp or join the army early, and the initial limit was average. Forty-two, three defenses are broken, and the poem gradually goes: Lu Yi divorced his parents, brothers and six relatives, although the punishment was heavier in the evening.