What is a good life and what is a bad life?

Every time I encounter something I am not sure about, I will look for numerology to judge the trend. This is a normal psychological comfort and plot. Good and bad, in fact, it is difficult to judge, in fact, we should cherish the good, even if it is not good, it is not bad in all senses. Usually, there are beautiful scenery hidden behind the bumps, just like waiting to go up the mountain, and we rarely experience the twists and turns on the road, let alone the heroic and emotional feelings when we reach the top of the mountain. The following are "experienced people" from Tianya. Foreword It is a fact that orientals like fortune telling. You can ask friends and relatives who have never counted their lives, whether they are constellations, purple, palms, etc. , or western constellations, blood types, playing cards, etc. People who have calculated it should be able to feel that there is a certain accuracy. If you are a self-taught student with strong interest in this, you will know that it is really accurate! Personally, I have completely given up learning this "knowledge" now, not because of "inaccurate calculation", but because of "accurate calculation", some common blind spots of thinking logic that I found in the process. The first question: Is my child's life good? A: At the beginning of fortune telling, it is difficult to answer this general question, because it takes a lot of time to analyze: wife, wealth, children, husband; Rich, powerful and expensive; Health, accidents, etc. It's really tiring! Strange to say, few people are satisfied with their "life". After thinking about it, it turns out that everyone has a different definition of a better life and what everyone wants to pursue is different. What is a good life? What is a bad life? It is much easier to understand this key point: what meets expectations is a good life, and the farther away from expectations, the worse it feels. Since then, I have always asked: What kind of life development do you want? What do you want? I will see if there is anything in my life according to my own needs, so I can relax a lot. Here is a serious question: What kind of "fate" is good? I once asked the parents of a newborn: "Your child is rich and expensive. He has a car all his life and doesn't need to walk by himself. What do you say? " The couple said in unison, "Very good!" I went on to say, "He is polio and has been in a wheelchair all his life." I asked again, "children are rich, expensive and healthy, but you should train hard." What do you think? " The couple thought for a moment and said, "It should be good!" I went on to say, "Everything after his wealth has nothing to do with you." I asked again, "Money is expensive and healthy. How about filial piety from an early age?" The couple bowed their heads and discussed for a while and said, "Good, but …" Before they finished, I replied, "He will die unexpectedly at the age of forty-five". The husband and wife were silent for a long time and said, "We don't want to tell fortune. I just want him to be healthy and happy, and nothing else. " I said, "Please, you still can't handle yourself!" . Many people think that I am making up stories and throwing cold water on people. In fact, if you open the newspaper or look around, you will know that life is like this! People's pain is not obsessed with dreams but can't be realized! Everyone should think about what life needs! The second question: Where are the nobles? This is an interesting question: 1. The person who asked this question must have encountered difficulties or bottlenecks and could not get rid of them, so I hope someone can help or support him. 2. What kind of people are the so-called "noble people"? It is the person who is beneficial to himself at this point in time, such as promoting himself to a good position or getting a good job. Someone borrowed money when he was short of money, and someone helped him when he was in trouble. This is probably the noble person in the eyes of ordinary people. Having said that, I want to ask a serious question: "Then who is the enemy?" Someone said, "What does this have to do with nobility?" I said, "Why did you come to the noble people? Because you met the' bad guys' first and met with difficulties, didn't you? If you can't tell these two kinds of people apart, it will be miserable. You will treat good people as enemies and bad people as nobles. What do you mean, "get on the boat and invite the wolf into the room"? Isn't it just that some bad guys pretend to be nobles and deceive people? Who didn't think he met a noble person at that time, so isn't it important to distinguish between these two kinds of people? " This is the first level. For example: "A primary school student's family is very poor, and the head teacher looks down on him. One day, he quarreled with his classmates, and the class guidance favored the classmate with a good family and slapped him, which also verbally stimulated his poor family. " I would like to ask: "For these two students, is the head teacher a noble or an enemy?" If the poor child is determined to "hold his head high and hold his chest high" from now on, and vows never to "protect his shortcomings", then treat everything fairly and help the poor child. If rich children believe that they are not afraid of anything as long as they have money, they will pull strings and enter through the back door. Some people strive for the top because of a slap and a stimulating word, while others give up on themselves. Some people are confident because of praise, while others are proud. So the second level is: "What is a noble person and what is an enemy?" In fact, no matter what people think, it is redundant, because people can't see the cause and effect of fate. In fact, enemies and nobles correspond to each other. Every "event" in a fate has a preceding "cause" to cause this "fruit", but the most important thing is how to produce a "good" cause from this fruit, otherwise it will never end. If you can: let life really grow, be positive and aboveboard, you will meet beautiful things and noble people. Let yourself become greedy and comfortable, get something for nothing, have extreme ideas and decadent behavior, that is, you will encounter bad things and enemies.