Jiangsu Taizhou wedding custom

First of all, the man's parents invited the media to propose marriage, and after obtaining the woman's consent, they posted "Ding Gong". After the woman agreed to show respect, the man asked the fortune teller to get married, and then the matchmaker "got back together" and signed a contract.

Step 2 hire

After the engagement, the man will give gifts to his parents-in-law every year during the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival, with no less than four at a time. When signing a contract, the man should give someone a big gift, which is called "leading the sheep to carry wine": before getting married, the matchmaker should "talk it over" and set a "bride price" and a wedding date. The bride price depends on the family situation of men and women and is decided by both parties.

Step 3: Wedding

Weddings are regarded as the event of a lifetime. There are several procedures, such as issuing a sedan chair, sealing the door, getting on the sedan chair, collecting the sedan chair, paying homage to the bride, sitting in wealth, making trouble in a new house and returning to the door. On the wedding day, lanterns are decorated, firecrackers are set off, music is played, ancestors are worshipped, gods are worshipped, banquets are held, guests are rewarded, and the media are thanked. It is very lively.

The wedding will be held in two days.

Unlike other places, weddings are held in one day. In Taizhou, Jiangsu, weddings are usually held for two days. On the first day, the dowry is delivered to the man's home or new house. It is called Maoqiao in Jiangsu Province, and there are many details to pay attention to.

First, at the beginning of making the bed, all the bedding should be replaced with new ones; Second, clean the house; Third, put red flowers and coins, and cover the mirror with red paper to represent happiness.

The real marriage started the next day, that is, the man came to the woman's house with his pick-up team. When you pick up the bride, you will ask a lot of the man, and there are many hurdles to pass, otherwise it will be difficult to take the woman away. The groomsman and bridesmaid were in a dilemma, so the groom couldn't say anything bad and became angry from embarrassment.

5. Pay attention to the guests' feelings

When you get married in Taizhou, Jiangsu, you should not only pay attention to whether the bride and groom behave appropriately, but also pay attention to many customs. Of course, the needs of guests are also of concern to many people. At the wedding, the bride must invite her relatives and friends. The more the representative, the more festive it is, and so is the groom.

People usually choose to hold a wedding in a hotel. Under the witness of many people, both men and women made a promise of love, put a ring on each other and got everyone's blessing. After that, the couple need to change clothes, enter the banquet and propose a toast to the guests. The bride and groom need to propose a toast to every guest at every table and thank them for coming.