What does fortune telling mean when a child grows up and can't control him?

Why do children become more disobedient as they get older? What kind of parents can't control their children?

We always hear that other people's children are excellent and obedient, but why are their children so bad? Even if it is not good, it is disobedient. Many parents say they have a headache and a bad heart.

When we know this phenomenon, we are actually surrounded by these disobedient children.

In other words, there are many such families, which has become a pathological phenomenon. If you want to change, you must understand why there is such a phenomenon, and then change it.

Words and deeds differ, set an example.

Some parents tell their children not to do this or that, and then yell at them and pretend to hit them, which can scare them very much. If children don't follow their parents' instructions at first, they will still do it, because parents are the only objects they worship when they were young, so naturally parents will give priority to them.

However, some parents have made a mistake, that is, when they don't do it, they do it in front of their children. For example, they don't let their children play with their mobile phones, but they are all playing with their mobile phones when they do their homework. For example, it is not ambiguous to ask children not to eat spicy food, but to add a spoonful of peppers themselves.

I don't know. I gave myself a big discount. How do children listen to you?

Overindulge a child.

When children are very young, we usually give priority to protection and accommodation, because now that life is good, whose children are not treasures? Therefore, in some families, children are not only spoiled by their parents, but also by grandparents, grandparents, uncles and aunts. Having a baby means inviting the princess and the prince home.

If you spoil your child too much, the result is that your child is too self-righteous. You have no majesty or threat in front of him, just as what you said is wrong, and what the teacher said is the imperial edict. If this happens, how can the child listen to you?

Just tell the child that this can't be done, and don't tell the child why it can't be done.

In fact, this practice is a typical embodiment of letting children know what they know. If this is the case, then you ask your child not to do this. The child only knows that this is wrong, but you don't tell them why it can't be like this, and the child doesn't know why. There will still be many similar things in the future.

Then at this time, we will feel that the child has not listened to us, that the child is so stubborn, that we are discouraged and that the child is hurt. Obviously, mother didn't say she couldn't do it. Why should we educate and criticize him?

Dear parents, do you feel why your children are disobedient?

In fact, it is difficult to educate children well, but it is also very good. We should look for reasons from ourselves first, which is the correct way of open education. First, we should avoid incorrect education, and then guide it.

How to understand that children are always disobedient? Welcome to tell us your understanding. Let's make our children excellent together.