What is it that some old people always like to pretend to be sick in front of their children? What should the child do?

There are not a hundred such old people! My mother is such a person that my children can't do anything about her. This extremely selfish old man is coming to the end of his life. She is particularly afraid of death. She is afraid of death (she is poor and her children can't help her). The old man has no mind to think of his children, only for himself, and his children really can't help her. People who don't experience it personally don't know, let alone understand, the heartache, helplessness, helplessness, wordlessness and pain suffered by their mothers when they were young! The grievances, tears, pain, and the idea of dying first rise in my heart every day, but fall helplessly, gritting my teeth and persisting! The vicious mother raised soft-hearted and kind children, and their children were unlucky; A kind and great mother brought up a vicious child, and her mother was unlucky. This is God's arrangement for the world. Children should persist as long as they are alive, send the old man away, fulfill their due responsibilities and obligations, be a person worthy of their own conscience and give birth to me. Give yourself a good luck! Don't care too much about dying people, and don't get angry! Fate is impermanent. People live without such pain and suffer such torture. Life is to be experienced. The process of drinking bitter wine first and then sweet wine is better than drinking sweet wine first and then bitter wine! Bless the questioner! Every family has a hard experience, and we want to open our hearts and relax. No matter what kind of parents we have, we should be grateful!

Many old people began to pretend to be sick, which means that I raised you, and now it's time to enjoy life. I'm sick. I can't do anything. I'll do it myself.

Children should never get used to meeting such an old man. Either you go to work far away from home, and if you are at home, you will do everything you can to force them to stand on their own feet.

Otherwise, think about it. They live to be 100 years old. Suppose they are 50 years old now. Then, if the children take over the support now and make them worry about food and clothing, you must support them until they die.

Therefore, such an old man is not good. They can be lazy, strange and can be described by e.

In fact, they don't have any love. Their affection is a calculation. The main purpose of raising a child is to wait until the child is old before stealing. In fact, when they raise children, they don't want to pay at all. Their children are definitely the least short of money and least inferior among classmates and friends.

I hate such parents the most. They are bad elders.

My parents are the kind of people who don't say anything uncomfortable. My mother died of cerebral hemorrhage the year before last. Later, I heard from my neighbors that a few days before my mother became ill, when I was running in the morning, I told my neighbors that she had a headache these days. My brother-in-law just gave birth to his second child and is still in confinement. She waits on her daughter-in-law. My brother is on a business trip and my father is very busy. She didn't say anything. It was after ten o'clock in the morning. She asked my brother-in-law what to eat for lunch. After talking, I probably went to the bathroom. Brother-in-law called the teacher when he saw that his mother had not come back. The teacher said no one answered. At the guard's office, my brother-in-law intends to go to the toilet and put on thick clothes to get it. What about her confinement? As soon as I went to the toilet, I found that my mother didn't know when she fainted. In the morning, she vomited a lot of food in her mouth, which scared my daughter-in-law to call me. Later, she also went to the hospital 120 and had a craniotomy. Later, in a vegetative state, she left for more than half a year. When she was sick, she suffered all kinds of crimes, but she still didn't keep her mother. Later, she heard from her neighbors that my mother's illness was a sign. If she had said it, it wouldn't have been so serious if she had found it early and treated it early, so I think now my parents are all sick by themselves and rarely pretend to be sick, at least my parents are. On the contrary, I hope they can say it as soon as possible when they feel sick. Of course, I have seen old people pretending to be sick, but rarely.

Most old people can give up everything for their children and do what they want, as long as the children are good. However, some old people are mentally ill, unkind and always do everything. When their children need to be cuddled when they are young, they say they are tired when they are spoiled, but they are more annoying and sticky. They were greeted by punching and kicking, and they were disgusted and disgusted with their children from an early age. They also have to bear part of the responsibility to raise, and they don't want to pay the total demand to get it back! I gave birth to a child when I was young, but I still don't like it. When I am old, I still want to leave my children with me to take care of them. I don't want them to leave! The characteristic of this kind of old people is that this family depends on me alone. Without me, this family would have collapsed! I never do anything for my family and ask for something in return. I always feel superior to anyone, and I don't care how much money my children earn. I have to revolve around me anyway. I am unhappy. The whole family can't think of anything better. I am the oldest, no matter right or wrong, I have to listen to me. This is filial piety, and vice versa!

Like having a relative. When engaged, my mother-in-law said yes sweetly. After two days of marriage, she said that she could do nothing, and her arm hurt so much that she couldn't even lift the needle. This relative, because she has no mother, is naive and regards her mother-in-law as her mother. Although she left home cleanly, there was no bride price and no wedding ... I still think filial piety is appropriate. She did all the housework and everyone's meals as soon as she got married. Except for washing your face, the rest is your daughter-in-law's business. Because she has no mother's family and is married far away, there is nothing for her family to visit. But when my mother-in-law's house comes, all the expenses of buying food will be told to my daughter-in-law. You can wait on her, you can pay. I can't earn it and I can't do it yet. But the next year, her mother-in-law told her that I couldn't come into your confinement because I would get worse. But the clothes were piled up for a long time, and the daughter-in-law threw them away when she was born. It is said behind her back that her son married a woman who can't live! ……

Because there is no mother, it is the first king of children.

Because I didn't understand, and no one taught me, the milk rushed too hard, and the child turned his eyes. In October of winter, her daughter-in-law ran barefoot in her pajamas to find someone. When she saved the child, her husband and she both cried, and her mother-in-law said nothing. No one who raised the child had an accident. Her neighbor said: Your daughter-in-law has no mother. If you are in charge, it won't happen. You just can't do it. But then I went to my daughter-in-law's house and took a photo every day. Maybe the child choked on milk that time, or took the child out and caught a cold. From the seventh day of that month, the child cried every day. Because she left home clean, her son and daughter-in-law had to borrow money and visited all the hospitals there, but they were not cured. The son and daughter-in-law thought she was a mother-in-law, so they asked her what she could do. Her mother-in-law told them: I don't care if I have mom or dad, it's none of my business. Don't look at a boy, I'm not rare! More than half a year passed quickly, and then my daughter-in-law gave up treatment and went home, but God never shuts one door but he opens another. Because the child is six months old and it is summer, my daughter-in-law met an acquaintance at her mother's house and said that the child began to have abdominal distension in the second month and sometimes cried. That man knows some medical skills more or less, and told her to buy some compound pancreatin powder and take two yuan medicine for fifty cents! ……

Her mother-in-law still didn't do anything Five years passed quickly. Just when her uncle wanted a second child, the old man went to wait on her eldest daughter-in-law. The two families are not far away. My mother-in-law said to take good care of my eldest daughter-in-law in front of me and a group of people who met her uncle and sister-in-law. I depend on her to support me when I am old. Others didn't mean it. Her eldest daughter-in-law was also there. I asked her at that time, why are you doing this? In front of a group of people, my mother-in-law actually said: Who told you that you have no parents and bully you? You have nowhere to go. Her husband was there. After the daughter-in-law and her husband left, her husband told her not to take care of her mother so much in the future. Why do you still eat us both? You have suffered in these five or six years! This led to the divorce of my relatives! Later, her elder sister-in-law asked for a second child, and her mother-in-law helped her elder sister-in-law look after the children. Until school, she told this old daughter-in-law that I still have two children. I am old, not for you, nor for you. Don't be angry! You have nowhere to go!

Twenty years have passed in an instant, and the old lady really can't move. She gave her property to her eldest son and her savings to her daughter! Now the eldest son has humiliated her all day, and the daughter says she has a daughter-in-law, which means a girl is supporting the elderly. At this time, the old lady remembered her old daughter-in-law and said, just count her good temper and never show her face, and want to move to her house! Ladies and gentlemen, how should this old wife face such a thing? What if it is your daughter? Therefore, not all daughters-in-law are bad, not all old people are good, and troubles cannot be covered. The world is big, and there is no wonder. Not one person is happy, but the whole world is harmonious. Those who say that the subject is not sensible and has no conscience to their parents, what should you do about it! There are always accidents, and the old man's fault lies in: there are parents in the world!

Ha ha! My mother is like this sometimes, so I take her to the most crowded hospital for a comprehensive examination. If you don't finish the day, you will wait in line for inspection, no meals and no exams. Only twice is enough. Later, she said in front of me that she was not feeling well, and I would say that she should go to the provincial hospital for examination, but not anywhere else. The inspection is not thorough, my mother will be fine as soon as she listens, hehe! My mother just loves playing mahjong. Sometimes after playing mahjong, the cervical vertebra is uncomfortable and you say that you are very ill. Let's take the lead in checking, hehe! Since I took her to the provincial hospital twice, I will never say anything about the examination for no reason again. Remember, when you meet such an old man, first, don't be afraid to spend money (now the old man has medical insurance, so it won't cost much), second, don't be afraid of trouble, and third, don't sympathize with her experience, and check everything to the end. She said that you are tired, so you can't do it without examination. You have to take her for a general examination, especially the gastroscope and two rows of hearts. This is not filial piety, because the community has a simple physical examination every year. If there is a serious illness, then our children must take care of their parents, but if there is no illness, it is best to do so. As long as they say that they are not feeling well, they should be examined in all aspects, hehe! I promise twice is enough. My mother did it twice. Now, as long as she says she wants to examine me and go to the provincial hospital, she will be fine soon.

Since my mother was 47 years old, whenever she was slightly ill, she would sleep in bed and pretend to be ill. The old man was too sick to live tomorrow, so we had to take her to the hospital overnight, but when she went to the doctor, it was just an ordinary little cold, which led my father and I to drag her all the way for three or four kilometers by scooter overnight! I went to this hospital today and then to that hospital tomorrow. Her old man ate all the medicine boxes and bottles thrown away at home. Later, my father said a few words, so she took the religious old lady in the village directly to the church. A heavy rain was almost washed away by the flood, so my father flew into a rage and ended my mother's Christian career!

Later, my sister and I got married, and then my father died, leaving my mother to live alone at home. In the winter when my mother was 77 years old, my nephew took her to live together. The whole person became younger and younger, with only a few white hairs on her head. Now her old man has easily lived to be 90 years old, but her health is surprisingly good. From the appearance, the whole person is only about 70 years old.

As soon as my father-in-law arrived at my house, he said that it was uncomfortable here and there. He especially wants us to take him to the hospital for a physical examination.

As we all know, the body of the elderly is just like a machine, which has aged, and there will be some chronic diseases, backache and leg pain.

My father-in-law has diabetes, so he doesn't avoid eating. His eyes were blurred, so he said he couldn't see. Let's take him to the hospital to see his eyes.

If we don't take him to see it, he will eat with his eyes closed.

I cooked for my father-in-law and took all my chopsticks. As a daughter-in-law, I think I did a good job.

But in the eyes of my father-in-law, I accepted it with a clear conscience.

He will still say that this is uncomfortable and that is uncomfortable. It was not until I went to the hospital for a checkup that my father-in-law opened his eyes to eat.

But after a while, he will still say that this is uncomfortable and that is uncomfortable. I really can't help it.

The more you like to pretend to be sick, the more you can raise a dutiful son. Marrying such a son is doomed to be wronged for life. My mother is a tragedy. When she was young, she was hated. When she is old, her mother-in-law will stay and let her serve. My father is the kind of love rat who wants to satisfy his mother indiscriminately. My mother is a slave who mourns his misfortune and angers him. I'm fed up with their so-called filial piety, indulging the elderly in unreasonable troubles, and there is no bottom line or principle, so I never take it. I used to cook for the old lady at noon when I was at school, and I didn't talk much. I won't eat this like my parents, will I? Have some of that? Do you want more? I put all the dishes in front of him, and whether I like it or not, I walked away after eating. For this reason, she always complains that she doesn't have enough to eat in front of my father. My dad asked me why I didn't feed her. I said the food is on the table. If she didn't eat, who is to blame? The old lady even said that I didn't see anything to eat on the table. I thought that was all. My acting skills were exaggerated when I pretended to be blind. I don't even like to say that I can see the subtitles when I sit on the sofa three meters away and watch TV. The clock on the wall can also see the hands, but I can't see the food in front of me, hehe. From then on, my father didn't trust me to cook for the old lady, so I was free and my mother was poor. She waits on the old lady like a maid every day, and she doesn't make any money. The most typical thing is that once the old lady said that her eyes hurt and she couldn't see clearly. She went to the hospital and my mother led her. When I went to the hospital, the doctor said it would be fine to have a minor operation, so my mother foolishly paid the money. She was also afraid that her brother and sister would feel bad about the money, so she didn't say hello and paid for the operation herself. As a result, the old lady said that my mother was blind and now she can't see at all. Then the whole family complained about my mother. In this way, I didn't delay the old lady watching TV. Every time she likes to watch advertisements selling medicine, she will get sick if she sells any medicine. My dad will buy it and put it aside. I don't know how my parents have persisted in these twenty or thirty years. It may be supported by filial piety.

My personal experience shows that the reason why old people pretend to be sick is very simple, that is, they want to live happily and don't want to work aboveboard! Can you ask a patient to work because he is ill? I felt really sick at first, and I was considerate everywhere in my life. The result is to find something for yourself. I asked my husband: What happened to your father? He complains all day and goes to the hospital when he is ill. It's not hard to cure diseases and save lives! Husband said: he is sick, there is something wrong with him! Therefore, there are really old people pretending to be sick. Not all old people care about their children! They only know the son he raised, and the son should repay them. As for whether the son has the ability to make him live a good life, it doesn't matter whether the son needs help or not. Otherwise, how did "raising children to prevent old age" come from?

Old buddy, old buddy! When people are old, they want their children's attention, love and respect, and they want their children around! So do something funny! Children should understand!