Can asexual marriage stand the test? The tragedy caused by Searching for Children in Ink Bed is thought-provoking.

"I don't understand. If I hurt Root, who will hurt me?" In the movie Inkstone, old Yu Lian stood in front of a huge inkstone and often asked questions alone.

The inkstone reveals the oppression of feudal system on human nature, and also profoundly reveals the influence of asexual marriage on the relationship between husband and wife.

This film is adapted from Li Pingyi's short story "The Giant Ink Stone" to explore the role of sex in the relationship between husband and wife.

Because of the profound revelation and good warning significance of asexual marriage, Ink Bed was later bought by Hollywood and became the first domestic film bought by Hollywood after the founding of the People's Republic of China.

Inkstone tells the tragedy of three innocent men and women brought by a asexual marriage in a staggered way of time and space.

In a small town in the south of the Yangtze River, Master Wu has been unable to get his wife pregnant because of physical obstacles. In order to inherit the family business, he had to come up with a bad idea: begging his wife to "borrow children" from later generations.

After the "borrowing" failed, Master Wu, full of jealousy and remorse, cruelly ordered Agan to be stuffed into the inkstone bed in order not to expose things.

Later, Master Wu, who was bent on seeking children, died young under the erosion of soup and medicine. Childless Yu Lian had to guard the gloomy inkstone bed with Forrest Gump's bones alone and spend the rest of his life paying for the tragedy caused by a asexual marriage.

And master Wu, a beautiful and well-informed aristocratic son, and a handsome, gentle and well-educated aristocratic son.

After they met in the drizzling Jiangnan town, they looked at each other for 10 thousand years, and Master Wu soon took her home.

After marriage, they cited the example of Qi Mei. You respect me and I love you. They are a happy couple that everyone envies.

Besides teaching, Master Wu spends the rest of his time around Yu Lian. He taught Yu Lian to dance, stroked her eyebrows, took all kinds of beautiful photos of her, and took good care of Yu Lian everywhere.

The Wu family has a big inkstone bed, which is very cool in summer. Master Wu's favorite thing is to lie on it and tell Yu Lian all kinds of anecdotes.

Master Wu often said to Yu Lian:

Listen to the master, Yu Lian will shyly ask:

Whenever this happens, the young master's eyes will flash a trace of melancholy and guilt. He is not a dragon and can't resist the cold of the inkstone bed.

Master Wu, who liked inkstone since childhood, has an unspeakable regret in his heart: he can't be a real man.

He is perfect in people's eyes. Since marriage, Yu Lian has never been able to enjoy the pleasure of sex.

Every time I feel deep, I look at the burning desire in my eyes. Father Wu will look guilty and extremely depressed and say, "Forget it, let's go to sleep." .

In the face of her husband's physical defects, Yu Lian seems indifferent, but after all, she is young and in the flower season. How can she not long for happy relationships-especially those established by men and women?

In order to cure young master's illness, Yu Lian collected all kinds of folk remedies and burned incense and worshipped Bodhisattva every day.

But the young master's illness is an old disease caused by the yin cold of the inkstone bed, and a few pairs of soup can be eradicated.

The yin cold of inkstone took away Master Wu's right to be a man and made him unable to become a real woman again. This is the greatest misery and disaster in Master Wu's life.

Asexual marriage brought regret to master Wu and him. Although it seems calm on the surface, in fact, their hearts are no longer calm.

In marriage, there are many congenital defects that can be made up by acquired efforts, such as knowledge, ability, various behavior habits and so on. Only the defects brought by asexual marriage, no one can make up for.

Asexual marriage will not only affect the intimacy of husband and wife, but also lay a hidden danger for the relationship between husband and wife.

Asexual marriage brought Yu Lian and his young master not only physical pain, but also psychological pressure.

Seeing that the daughter-in-law who had been married for nearly a year had been silent, Master Wu began to express his dissatisfaction more and more. He issued an ultimatum to his son:

Master Wu's words made the already guilty young master more anxious. In desperation, he came up with a bad plan: let his servant Agan take his place and have a child with Yulian.

When he told Yu Lian what he thought, Yu Lian was in great pain. How will she meet people in the future? This is not only the young master's degradation of himself, but also an insult to her, and she flatly refused.

In order to let the young master inherit the family business smoothly, Yu Lian put forward the suggestion of adopting a child, but the young master repeatedly shook his head and said:

Master told Yu Lian that he didn't care who the child was, as long as it was blood from Yu Lian, he would take it as his own.

He repeatedly assured Yulian that only three people knew about it, and when it was over, he would immediately let Ah Gen leave without embarrassing her.

Because of a asexual marriage, Yu Lian and his young master embarked on the absurd road of "borrowing children".

Since ancient times, marriage has never been just a matter for two people. At any time, married couples should bear their own responsibilities and obligations, especially the heavy responsibility of bearing children and carrying on the family line.

Yu Lian and the young master simply think that it doesn't matter whether there is sex in marriage, as long as they really love each other, but they forget their own times.

In the feudal society of "father first", it is an unavoidable responsibility for anyone to carry on the family line.

No matter whether Yu Lian and the young master have sexual relations in their marriage, they must strictly abide by the patriarchal clan system and patriarchal clan system in feudal society, otherwise they will be rejected by their society.

Wu Zhu undoubtedly pushed his son to the abyss of perdition with the patriarchal clan system of "unable to carry on the family line and inherit the family business".

In contact with Agan again and again, the reason in Yu Lian's heart was gradually overcome by lust. Agan made her a real woman, and she also tasted the happiness of being a woman. She no longer resists, and she no longer hates Agan.

Once some things are tried, it is difficult to get rid of the temptation. Yu Lian told herself not to be infatuated with Forrest Gump, but at the same time she couldn't control her body. Her body is like living in a wild animal, which makes her constantly struggle with lust and reason.

In the end, I loved the young master in my heart, but I kept thinking about Yu Lian in my body. Driven by desire, I secretly carried the young master behind my back and crossed the line with the young master again and again.

Looking at the changes in Yu Lian, the young master regretted it. Although he had to push his wife to Argentina, it didn't mean that he had zero tolerance for the frequent deviance between them.

When Yu Lian went to Algan again and again, the young master felt pain and humiliation. His feelings and dignity were hit, and he became jealous and began to abandon Yu Lian.

For Yu Lian's carefully cooked soup, he often refused to drink it because it was unclean, and forced her to cook it again and again.

The young master who regretted his original decision became melancholy because of the changes in Yu Lian. He stopped talking to Yu Lian and stood gloomily at the window all day, full of worries.

The relationship between Yu Lian, who has been playing the piano and singing, and the young master has become sensitive and fragile because of "borrowing children" in the face of asexual marriage.

Although the young master is gentle in appearance, his character is not weak. Since Yu Lian has never been pregnant, his relationship with Agan has become more and more subtle. In a rage, he drove Agan out of the house.

Before Ah Gen left, Yu Lian, who couldn't control his desire, caught him again, and they lay on the inkstone bed.

When they were having sex, the young master broke into the house with people, Yu Lian was locked upstairs, and Forrest Gump was put into the inkstone by a living piston.

After the "borrowing children" storm, the young master and Yu Lian can never go back.

The young master, who almost lost his wife and soldiers, could not bear the heavy emotional blow and his body and mind were getting haggard. He died young just after he was 30.

The asexual marriage between Yu Lian and the young master failed to stand the test of reality in the end. The storm of "borrowing children" caused by a asexual marriage has mercilessly evolved into the tragedy of three people;

Agan was stuffed into the inkstone bed, and later became a dense white bone. Therefore, the young master was very ill and eventually died young. Because of his indulgence, Yu Lian kept the inkstone all his life.

After Wu's father died young, childless Yu Lian guarded Nuoda's old house and its gloomy inkstone bed, regretting his lonely life.

She often thinks that she is sorry for the young master and Agan, and her carefully cooked soup finally killed the young master. Her indulgence in front of sex made the young master cram Forrest Gump into the inkstone bed in a rage.

Yu Lian stubbornly believes that:

But sometimes she can't figure it out. If she killed the young master and Forrest Gump herself, who caused her to live in this ancient tomb-like Wu's old house and endure the crime all her life?

Master? Forrest Gump Alone? Or feudal clan system and paternalism?

These seem to be, but they don't.

The relationship between Yu Lian and the young master was originally perfect and harmonious, and the young master loved her very much. Just to inherit the family business, the young master lent her as a fertility tool.

"Borrowing a child" failed. After the young master couldn't stand the fact that he was green, he felt that his majesty and dignity were threatened, so he became dark and irritable and finally killed Forrest Gump.

If she had a healthy and normal marriage with her young master, there would not have been that absurd "borrowing children" storm.

Nor will she and Forrest Gump indulge in the pleasure of sex after their first taste of it.

Forrest Gump was innocent. After he was used as a fertility tool by the young master, he forgot his identity after enjoying the pleasure of sex, and failed to stand the test of reality, which led to the tragedy.

Although the oppression brought by feudal patriarchal clan system and patriarchal clan system has an unshirkable responsibility for the tragedy of the three of them, it does not seem to be the main cause of the tragedy. Although Master Wu said that "if you can't carry on the family line, you can't inherit the family property", he didn't know that there was a asexual marriage between Master Wu and him.

If Yu Lian can look at this tragedy from an outsider's perspective, she will find that the real cause of her tragedy with young master and Forrest Gump is her asexual marriage with young master.

Because asexual marriage is against human nature, a good relationship between husband and wife should not only love each other, but also have a continuous normal sex life to ensure long-term happiness.

Many times, the misfortune of marriage is not caused by infidelity, poverty, personality disagreement and other reasons, but asexual marriage is the biggest killer of husband and wife relationship.

A woman troubled by marriage once said:

In Yu Lian's later years, a bosom friend appeared beside her, an antique dealer who looked after her inkstone bed.

The old man is well-informed in doing business all over the world. Like the young master of that year, he brought her information and stories from all over the world. Looking at him, Yu Lian remembered the young master, and her heart, which had been dead for a long time, gradually came alive in the comings and goings of the old man.

From the initial resistance, to the later acceptance, and then to the later nostalgia, old Yu Lian gradually fell in love with the man who brought her happiness.

She knew that the old man was interested in her inkstone bed, but she was not in a hurry to sell it, and she didn't want to sell it, because once it was sold, the secret hidden in the inkstone bed would be exposed, and her relationship with the old man would be over.

As long as the inkstone bed is always there, the old man will come, so that in the lonely old house, she will have someone to talk to and a listener.

Accompanied by an antique dealer, Yu Lian slowly opened her heart. She finally realized that whether she pursues spiritual love or physical desire, these are understandable, because this is the meaning of life.

Every life has the right to bloom, and every flower has a reason to bloom.

It's just that her asexual marriage with the young master has not stood the test in reality.

Yu Lian, who saw through everything, finally reached a settlement with reality under the comfort of the old man, and finally put himself down.

She finally understood that no one can easily test human nature, and asexual marriage will never stand the test of reality, because no one can stand firm in the face of absolute temptation.

The movie Mo Chuang tells the audience with the tragedy of three people that those seemingly noble or helpless asexual marriages are not only the suppression of human nature, but also the bondage and kidnapping of human nature.

For marriage, sex is not a scourge, it is the lubricant of marriage. If love is a call from the front, sex is the driving force from the rear.

A good marriage in the world needs love and sex.

If two people love each other deeply, the best result is to enjoy the absolute happiness of sex.