When did you begin to believe in the phrase "you must get something in life, and you don't have to force it in life"?

In 2008, I just worked for a few years and liked to buy lottery tickets after work. I want to win a prize every day, but I didn't buy a two-color ball. I bought a small lottery ticket 3D and won the prize of 1000 yuan. One day after work, I went to a shop that often bought lottery tickets. After studying for a day, I feel that a number 2 will be generated that day. I made up a set of numbers according to the number 2 and told my boss to call 20 times. Why do you make so many phone calls? This is a waste of money. The boss typed the ticket and handed it to me. I see, it's not right. I remember whether it was 622 or 626. Anyway, it's a combination of 62. The boss said nothing, so he called you again. The boss left 20 times the number of the 622 group and gave me a new one. I thought at that time, how much money the boss can earn in a day, and today I lost. I'm sure I'll win the lottery. Guess what, the prize number opened that night was the wrong group of the boss. I gave the 20 thousand yuan my boss gave me directly to others, or I took the kind that I didn't thank. I didn't sleep at that time, and later I felt that I didn't have that kind of life. I have never had it in my life, and I don't want to be forced.

After reading a story from a foreign country, I think he explained "there is a need in life, but there is no need in life" very well. Let me show you his words in the first person, hoping to dispel your doubts.

Actually, I believe in fate and cause and effect now. My husband and mother-in-law sometimes tease me that you are in college, and you still believe in these things when you have a high degree? Do I have a high degree? Look at those senior officials. Who doesn't believe it? Which degree is low? Is there a proverb in Degang Guo: Don't persuade others to be kind without suffering from others!

Studying fate? What can I say about these things? Let it be. Knowing too much is not necessarily a good thing. What about cause and effect? Just like my persistent belief, when someone asks you for help, if you can help, as long as you can, try your best to help (except money, which is really difficult to handle, and I am sad because of this. Up to now, there are still people who cheat and don't pay me back, so I won't chase them. People make up, this will be said later). Within your ability, even if it is a little troublesome, it is hard. Give me a hand. Everyone is out of town, and sometimes we need help from each other. But if you refuse because you are too lazy and too troublesome, it's actually nothing. Only this reason has been planted. If you need help in the future, you may be rejected. This is fruit. Only when the needle sticks to yourself can you really feel the pain. When others are in a hurry, you feel nothing. When you are in a hurry, you know what it feels like to have no recourse. How uncomfortable it is.

Now speaking of owing money, I think so. People meet because they owe each other money. If the other party doesn't pay me back, and people can't make up for it, he won't give it to me. God will supply me in other ways. If it's God's turn, I'll give you a big one. What if God doesn't provide for you? It means you have nothing to lose, or what you owed him in your last life, you have to pay it back. Because people only look at problems from their own perspective, so many problems will only say that there are gains and losses, but the world is relatively fair. Simply put, if a friend owes you money and doesn't pay it back, God will let the money or more come to you in other forms. Your friend seems to have got ill-gotten gains, but in other ways, he is sure to break even more. We just don't know, because all this is silent.

Now back to the trough, in fact, if there is a reliable gentleman, you can ask him for advice. However, it is really not recommended that you often go to fortune telling. Really not recommended! ! Because everyone with a little ability wants to eat this meal now, but this gentleman has different abilities and uneven personality. Don't see the result is nonsense, harm others and harm yourself. Isn't it delayed to be instructed by mistake to go in the opposite direction? In fact, I think if you don't have a reliable teacher's advice, you might as well ask for help yourself. First, do more good deeds, whether consciously or unconsciously, whether it is convenient or not, and do as many good deeds as possible. The second is to listen to people's advice, which seems simple, huh? But it's not simple at all. I've seen too much. You advised him not to listen, and then he regretted complaining, not one or two, too much.

However, everything should be measured, and don't rush to make sacrifices when looking for trouble, which is counterproductive. There is a saying: don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. In fact, I think there should be another sentence: don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. It is best that you can help people when they need help. If people don't need it, don't worry about send warm. You think you are a living Lei Feng, but you are actually making trouble for others. Then you might as well do it for nothing. Don't be too persistent in everything. It's too radical to get quick results and luck. Sometimes, your bad luck, good luck, twists and turns, and success are all fixed. In this life, there are actually many happy days and many hardships. If I were you, I would really rather suffer first than enjoy all the happiness when I am young, and then suffer when I am old. I don't see many such people. As you talk, there are more and more metaphysical aspects. Don't always hold those daydreams of getting lucky, winning the lottery, and falling pies in the sky. Why do you say that? For us ordinary people, life is average and we can't bear the life of being rich and expensive. You can't afford this wealth at all. Even if the money is given to you, it is hard to say that you have a life to spend. In fact, when you live to an old age, you will find that the greatest luck in this life is to live to an old age safely. This is not surprising. Some of them were young, some died of illness or sudden death in their prime, and some were old and sick, so they could not live safely to old age. If given another chance, he will be willing to exchange all his wealth for a healthy body. We healthy ordinary people just don't know when we will be blessed. In fact, you need to fight for a good life or a bad life. The only difference is that people with good lives can spell results, while those with bad lives can spell less or can't spell. "Then why are you fighting? Just stop arguing. Anyway, some things in life are necessary, so there is no need to force them. Let nature take its course! " Let nature take its course. That's not how it works. You have to do your best in the process, and the result is that you have to resign yourself to fate. You can't win sitting and lying down. This is ridiculous. When it's time to work hard, we must strive for it, and the result will be natural. Whether a person's life is good or not can be spelled out. Who doesn't know until the end? Who is the prophet? It is said that this year is not a good year, and both lucky and lucky people have developed? Look at that guy in Dalian. When the epidemic broke out and Wuhan was closed, he mistakenly landed in Wuhan, but look at him, so he hid? The daily salary is 500 yuan. I volunteer in a first-line hospital, reporting news and spreading the media. When people returned to Dalian, he was officially incorporated immediately. Don't say he is lucky, but he tells you that he will go to the hospital as a volunteer for a month when the epidemic is the worst, and will arrange work for you after returning and take care of you for life. Dare you go? What are you thinking about? Don't draw me a pie. I'm afraid I'll lose my life. The important thing is to keep my life as far away as possible. Is this a common idea? If the young man really landed in Wuhan and didn't work hard and find a place to hide, there wouldn't be such a result. Besides, we try to be persuaded. When we come to this world, what kind of family we have, what kind of parents and brothers we have, what kind of education we have experienced, and whether the cards in our hands are good or bad are really beyond our decision, but bad cards can also be turned over and good cards can also be broken. I met two people who "played a good hand to the powder". One is someone who owes me money. It's too sharp. I sow today, but I want to harvest tomorrow. If you can't get it, plant it in another pit immediately. That's him. I never see the situation clearly, and I always miss the opportunity to turn over because I am eager for success. He calculated his own life before, and the gentleman was right. He said that this man had a brain problem, and taught him a way, saying that you should use your own thinking and do the opposite. When you want to go to the west, you must go to the east. That gentleman talked to him for the longest time, and as a result, he didn't like what others said, so he didn't give him money and ran away when he had the chance. I am very angry with my husband. The things left behind were said to be given to Mr. Guajin for him, but Mr. Wang didn't want them. The other is a little boy I know who also came to work in Japan. How rich do you think his family is? No, it's just that he is too precious at home, so I don't get much money. Apple's mobile phone equipment is faster than changing socks. You can buy it if you lose it. Big heart? Actually, it's not long I didn't work well when I came to Japan. I always dislike this and that. I have been in Japan for a year and have done nothing serious. I have traveled almost all over Tokyo and its surrounding areas, but I don't know much about my skills. I have to go back after tossing, too far from home to see my friends. When I was in Japan, I spent thousands of dollars every three days to fly back to China to get together with my friends. I have been here for a year, and I have been working for less than half a year. I don't get more than 10 thousand a month's salary, and I have to go back and get three or four thousand yuan to live a life of 996. When I took the postgraduate entrance examination, I didn't get in and didn't insist. After coming to Japan, I didn't work hard, so I had to go back to the postgraduate entrance examination and be with my friends. Tossing around, in fact, nothing has changed except time, age, money and skills. I advised them, helped them plan and talked, but you really found that when a person goes his own way and doesn't listen to advice, there is nothing you can do. You can only watch him push hard in the opposite direction of the target. He always tells me past regrets, never listens to suggestions, always lives in past regrets, and there is no way to change them. I can only say that as a friend, I tried my best. I won't go into details. The more I talk, the more my life experiences, the more people I have met and the more things I have seen so far. I estimate that it is not difficult for me to write tens of thousands of words, and I am afraid that everyone will lose patience when watching. Then I might as well not talk about it, just pass the time to have a look. To put it bluntly, it is bad luck. If you still believe in fate and want to turn over. Don't point at Mr. Wang. Just two o'clock, do it yourself, it's really not much difference. The first thing is to do good things within your ability. No matter how hard life is, don't be evil. Don't do it because of small goodness, and don't do it because of small evils. The second is to listen to advice. It's not blind to listen to advice. People listen to everything they say. That's called being soft-hearted and having no idea. Listening to advice is to listen to the suggestions or voices of people around you when you have been unable to find the direction and move forward. When things can't be solved for a long time, let it go first, and then go out for a walk. As the old saying goes, it is not without reason that a big tree attracts the wind. These are all my experiences and I feel too much. Write them here, and leave some marks for yourself. After many years, there may be other ideas, so look at yourself and everyone at that time! We are all ordinary people, and it is normal to think that it is impossible to understand. But try to be a good person and be a kind person. Helping others is helping yourself, and you will certainly benefit from it.

Finally, I wish everyone really better and better, not only in life, but also hope you can do your best to achieve better yourself! Come on!

Most people who believe in fate are not people who have a smooth life, but people who are full of ups and downs. Successful people or people who have been going smoothly, they are all strong in life. Most of them are full of confidence in themselves, thinking that they have everything now because of their talent and persistence. They even think that man can conquer nature.

I have long known that this sentence is correct, it is a Buddhist sentence! Don't force it!

Life is sometimes like winning the lottery, that is, if you walk around and buy a bet of 10, you will also win the grand prize. Not yours. It's better to buy it every day.

The same is true of feelings. When you meet the right one, how to pursue it and how to do it are all your own in the end. When you encounter something wrong, it's still wrong for you to do everything you can, so you should seize the right opportunity and gamble once, winning and losing, and be clean. Don't give unintentional people a chance to trample on your feelings unless you humiliate yourself. As the ancients said, "One twist of a melon is not sweet", so the key is to protect yourself. Usually everyone pays attention to personal safety, so this feeling is not physical and mental safety. Whether men or women, women love money, men are lustful, and sometimes they all want what they want, but there is only one life and only one numerology.

To put it bluntly, the value you have earned is the most reassuring in your hand. Let go when it is time to let go, and let go when it is time to let go. Seize this time, strengthen yourself and increase your strength is king. 2 1 century, it is not the time to solve the problem of food and clothing. Don't let love affect your youth. Young people should strive for the greatest opportunity, not to be old. People who leave you will kill you. In the end, life will tend to be ordinary. Work hard and grow hard. Will create a better life. You always have to give to get something in return.

It's really in front of me like it's real.