My in-laws didn't give birth to me and raise me. Why should I do my duty as a daughter-in-law?

According to the laws of China, a daughter-in-law has no obligation to support her in-laws, nor does a daughter-in-law have the obligation to support her in-laws according to the general moral standards.

If we help each other, it is best for the daughter-in-law to give her in-laws some help when they need it, and the form is not limited. But from the perspective of mutual assistance, as a family, the in-laws should first take care of the younger generation, and this feeling cannot be transferred. No one can say that in-laws are kind to their husbands, then this kind of kindness will be transferred to the daughter-in-law, and this logic cannot be established. So if you

Even from the perspective of human nature, there is no reason for the daughter-in-law to bear the obligation to support her in-laws. Having a baby is for her own needs, not for other reasons. Besides, both men and women have parents, and I have never heard of the rule that a son-in-law should provide for the aged. Do your in-laws have any special reasons?

Of course, everyone has the freedom to choose their own lifestyle, and some wives are willing to raise their in-laws. That's ok, but this standard can't be used to demand everyone, and this issue has nothing to do with honor and disgrace and respecting the old and loving the young, but only involves personal family status. Moreover, this problem cannot be simply judged. The situation of each family is different and can only be analyzed in detail.

However, in feudal society, marrying a daughter-in-law requires giving a large bride price to her parents, which is equivalent to the husband's family repaying the kindness of the adopted daughter-in-law. After marriage, the daughter-in-law belongs to her husband's family.

Now some in-laws have no money to get married, and some son-in-law depends on his father-in-law. How can a husband's family qualify to marry a daughter-in-law according to the standards of feudal society? Moreover, in the past, women didn't have to go out to work, and the economy depended entirely on men and daughters-in-law. That's good. At least men and women do their jobs and do their best.

Many daughters-in-law nowadays don't bring their in-laws when they get married. They still have jobs and contribute to the family economy. They have to do housework when they get home from work, and then they have to have children and take care of them. Why should they be responsible for serving their in-laws? What does a person's existence mean?