/kloc-is it a dark human nature or a stupid tragedy to give birth to three children for a father and son at the age of 0/4?

Being in the media industry, I am used to all kinds of human tragedies and feel that my nerves have long been trained to be immune to all kinds of poisons.

However, a case recently tried in Zhumadian, Henan Province,

The discussion was not high, but it stirred almost all the negative emotions in my heart.

On the day of 20 19, such an absurd plot was really staged.

Give people the illusion of being in the wilderness.

Because it concerns the rights and interests of women and children, family magazines, as the subordinate media of Guangdong Women's Federation, must speak out.

I hope I can give you some strength.

/kloc-Xiao Mo (a pseudonym), a 0/4-year-old girl, has been missing for six years.

When her mother found out, she was already suffering from schizophrenia.

His eyes are glassy and he often giggles.

Not only that, she also magically gave birth to three children.

Even more ridiculous is that,

These three children were actually born to her and a father and son.

Zhumadian police confirmed through paternity test:

Xiao Mo's eldest son was born to her and Zheng Momin, an old man in his 60s. There is also a pair of twins, born with Zheng Moumin's son Zheng Mouniu.

101October 3 1 day, both parties went to court.

In the imagination of onlookers, Zheng ruined a little girl into such a field, and she was somewhat ashamed in the face of legal trial, right?

But the truth is, they won't accept it.

Even if the public prosecutor produces a series of evidence such as witness testimony, paternity test report and psychiatric test report.

Zheng Momin still insists that Xiao Mo's schizophrenia has nothing to do with them. Having sex is also Xiao Mo's initiative to seduce, which belongs to prostitution, not rape.

When it comes to civil compensation, he said:

"I won't lose a penny."

During the previous police investigation, Zheng Momin's wife was full of grievances and made such remarks:

"If we hadn't taken her in, the children might have died outside, helped them raise them for so many years, and now they bite us in turn."

At present, the case has not been formally pronounced.

How much is awarded and how much is lost is unknown.

But the only thing we know for sure is that Xiao Mo's collapsed life cannot be rebuilt.

Sort out the whole tragic story,

You'll find that something happened to Xiao Mo. It seems accidental, but it is inevitable.

Behind her is a defective family.

Just like a body with a collapsed immune system, it can't resist any virus attack.

Shortly after Xiao Mo was born, her father disappeared.

My mother Li Ailing has no education and can't read. She took two children to make a living abroad.

Because she was so poor, Li Ailing couldn't help being lured away. 20 1 1, she was sentenced to prison.

Xiao Mo, 13 years old, soon dropped out of school to work, and lived alone with his brother Fan Li.

Due to lack of discipline, Xiao Mo, who was in a rebellious period, was addicted to the Internet.

Go to the internet cafe for the night every once in a while, and ask your brother for it if you have no money.

Some seemingly ordinary afternoon. When Li Fangang returned to the rented house from work, Xiao Mo reached out and asked him for money.

This time, he was angry.

Under the quarrel, Fan Li slapped Xiao Mo. Xiao Mo ran out of the house crying.

Fan Li didn't know at that time. He fanned his sister into a magical cave.

With a weak sense of law, he didn't know how to call the police, and he didn't dare to tell his mother in prison about his sister's disappearance.

Every time he went to prison, he lied that Xiao Mo had gone to work in the south.

In the summer of 20 16, when Li Ailing was released from prison, she finally learned that her daughter had been missing for four years.

She got a job posting leaflets, hoping to find the trace of her daughter by walking around the street.

Last January, it was an unusually cold snowy day.

At the entrance of Bandung Community, which is 0/00 meters away from her rental house/KLOC-,when she posted the leaflet on the wall, she suddenly felt someone looking at her from behind.

Looking back, Li Ailing saw the girl whose hair exploded.

In winter, she wore a thin pink coat, so dirty that the neckline of her sweater was open, like a beggar.

For a few seconds, the girl's eyes went straight and looked like she was insane.

With her mother's sensitivity to her daughter, Li Ailing is now convinced that she is Xiao Mo.

Called my daughter's name twice, but the other party didn't respond.

Li Ling was in a hurry, grabbed her by the collar and put her face in front of her.

"Don't you know me?"

The girl looked up at Li Ailing trembling. It was a long time before she came to her senses and shouted "Mom".

Li Ling threw the girl into her arms, tears streaming down her face.

"Go, go home with your mother."

She held her daughter's hand, but Xiao Mo struggled to leave.

"There are children, there are children," she said trembling.

Ai Ling heart thumped, called the police.

Xiao Mo's sufferings and pains in the past six years have finally surfaced bit by bit.

On the day he left home, Xiao Mo met a 60-year-old man, Zheng Momin, in the street.

Seeing that she was good-looking, the other party dragged her on a tricycle and took her home.

After locking the door, Zheng Momin gave Xiao Mo a pack of instant noodles and a chicken leg, and then began to take off her clothes.

Zheng Momin's wife watched.

In the description, sometimes Zheng's son Zheng Mouniu got into her quilt, and sometimes his father Zheng Moumin pressed her up.

Sometimes, father and son sleep with her.

In addition to sexual assault, the Zheng family also restricted personal freedom in all directions. I found out that she had the idea of running away and was beaten without saying anything.

In this context, it became the fertility machine of the Zheng family.

Her oldest child was born in a small clinic, and two younger children were in the bathroom. The old woman delivered the baby in a basin.

After giving birth to three children, Xiao Mo regained the freedom to go out. Finally reunited with my mother.

"Son, it's time to play. The old man spoiled her, took a beating and suffered indignities, and tortured her like this. She shouldn't bear it. "

In the interview, Li Ailing's voice trembled and she wanted to cry.

Where does she want to live during the two years of searching for her relatives? Her daughter is nearby.

Under the guidance of the police, we saw the whole picture of the Zheng family.

The crowded room smelled of leftovers and toilets.

Clothes and quilts are piled up like mountains, telephone numbers are written on the lime wall, plastic bags filled with medicine bottles are hung behind the door, and children's toys are scattered in the room.

This is a typical sample of poor families, showing chaos and disorder everywhere.

But it goes far beyond poverty.

Just like the endless hell bred by the deepest darkness, it devours all general ethical standards.

At the same time, it drained the vitality of Xiao Mo.

The little girl who used to be lively and cheerful and had a lot of ideas turned into a cold, fragmented psycho who could not talk deeply.

Youth has withered in the mud before it can bloom.

When I first learned what happened to Xiao Mo, I felt shocked, sad, angry and sympathetic.

When these intense emotions ebb, I am more trapped in a kind of "powerlessness" that is difficult to dissipate.

For those suffocating absurdities and magic.

After finding her daughter, she went to the police station several times, hoping that the police would file a criminal case against Zheng Jia.

Illegal detention, beating, sexual relations with minors, forced delivery. Which one is not a sign of sin?

However, the first choice of local police station is actually: civil mediation.

What is this, not mud?

But the dramatic reality is that Li Ailing gave in.

She even agreed to marry her daughter to Zheng Momin's son.

According to this document:

Zheng Momin issued a letter of guarantee to Li Ailing, which mentioned that Xiao Mo and his son were treated equally and could not be insulted, abused or beaten; Ensure that after Xiao Mo and his son get married, the life of the man's parents is different; If you beat Xiao Mo after marriage, both parties will divorce unconditionally.

It is easy for a mother to get away with violence against her daughter.

What I learned from it is not indifference and selfishness, but helplessness and compromise to reality.

In Li Ailing's view, she is a precarious released prisoner, and her daughter is a psychopath who gave birth to three children.

Two riddled lives are superimposed together, and no one can shelter anyone.

Marrying your daughter may be the only way to stop loss.

At least she will have a nest for the rest of her life, with food and clothing. Those three children may be able to rely on them in their later years.

For the desperate, dignity is too high-end configuration.

Because just living has made them do their best.

If things stop here, Zheng can not only escape all punishment, but also get a daughter-in-law for nothing.

Later, I learned that one of the three children,-,was born with old man Zheng.

20 18, 1 1, the police arrested the old man Zheng Momin for rape.

So there is the absurd scene mentioned above:

Facing schizophrenic Xiao Mo, battered Li Ailing and the harsh facts of paternity test.

From beginning to end, Jia Zheng regarded himself as Xiao Mo's food and clothing parents and was indignant at the kindness of the mother and daughter.

Sociologist Guma put forward a concept a few years ago: the degradation of the bottom.

Lack of resources and cramped living space will fundamentally distort a person's view of right and wrong and values.

This distortion can be said to be reflected incisively and vividly in the Zheng family.

Maybe he looked down on himself, so he simply abandoned all the moral constraints that made people become people and let himself degenerate to the initial stage.

In the eyes of this family, Xiao Mo, a young girl who was "picked up", was just a sex tool at a young age.

Raising her and keeping her alive is the greatest kindness they can think of.

No guilt or shame.

Their numbness and ignorance are a great mockery of a society ruled by law and fairness and justice.

According to the Beijing News, Xiao Mo and her mother have no financial resources. At present, we mainly live on subsistence allowances.

In her early twenties, she gave birth to three children and suffered from schizophrenia. What will happen if her mother is completely old?

Can those three children grow up smoothly in such an embarrassing environment? How to face the secular vision when you grow up?

These questions are so heavy that no one can give an answer.

Then why should I tell you in detail today?

Because we are close to evil.

Every reader, especially parents, can't avoid this question:

How to avoid the recurrence of Xiao Mo's tragedy?

Let me summarize the following three points for you:

1.

Before raising a child, make sure that you have enough ability to support him for life.

I believe that most parents bring their children into this world with love, but love alone is not enough for her to grow up safely.

You should invest enough time, energy and money to meet the needs of children.

Even without a good material foundation, at least create a stable and harmonious family environment to shelter her from the wind and rain.

Family is the first stop for children to travel around the world and feel the world.

When I was a child, my parents' absence meant that the child's safety line was open in Daimon Masaru, and she was naturally vulnerable to evil.

2.

Teach children to know animals covered with human skin and cultivate basic awareness of self-protection.

For example, when you go out, try not to talk to strangers. Observe the look and whereabouts of the people around you, find the other person abnormal, and stay away for the first time.

If you are forcibly taken away by gangsters, you must call for help from people around you and point out someone's characteristics, such as uncle in blue hat and aunt in red T-shirt, and help me.

If you don't point out a specific person, the audience will easily fall into collective silence. When you are appointed, if that person does not help you, he will have a psychological burden.

This woman knows the risks in this world. Blindly whitewash the child and cover up all the ugliness, and the child will naturally be happy.

But this kind of happiness is like a castle made of sand on the beach. A wave hit, instantly razed to the ground.

When I was studying, every time I talked to my dad on the phone, he would tell those tragic and worrying social news over and over again. Talk about the risks that may be encountered in various situations and the countermeasures.

I felt bored at that time, but in retrospect, I don't know how many accidents were avoided by these preventive measures.

3.

The more people have children, the less they should despair.

You said you took risks to give your children a better life. But if something goes wrong, your children will roll in the abyss.

Before adulthood, children and parents are a community of destiny. Your bad behavior, taking a wrong step, is tantamount to indirectly laying the groundwork for their tragedy.

Just like Li Ailing, if she didn't go astray at first, her life would be terrible, but at least her daughter's life wouldn't be derailed.

Parents can only protect their children for a few years. Please don't part with them under any circumstances.

It is said that the Internet has no memory, and people's eyes are always touched by the latest hot search.

But this time, I really don't want to see what happened in Xiao Mo slip away.

The case has not been formally pronounced. I hope everyone will forward this article and let more people pay attention to this matter.

I believe that the huge public opinion will make the relevant law enforcement departments really pay attention to this case.

The evil Zheng father and son, as well as Mrs. Zheng who collaborated with the enemy, must be severely punished.

This is a justice for young women, and it is also a justice for all women in China.

If you take the girls in the street casually in broad daylight and abuse them into mental illness, you can still get away with it. Who dares to have another daughter?

Who dares to tell her daughter that when you come to this world, you must look at the sun and walk in the street with your sweetheart?

Man can be humble as a worm, but not twisted as a maggot.

Give the article a "read". I believe that there is always a beam of light that can penetrate the darkness and comfort people.

References:

Girl/kloc-missing at the age of 0/4, with three sons, one father and one son.

The girl in Henan disappeared for six years, and a father and son gave birth to three sons. The suspect pleaded not guilty. The Beijing News

After the missing girl in Zhumadian, the daily map