How to understand a quarrel between a couple in Bazhong, Sichuan, where the husband wants to throw the child into the river?

This can only show that the father didn't really regard the child as a member of his family at all, and felt that the child was cold-blooded and it was a big deal to regenerate.

This kind of family does exist. They don't value their children, especially those who have many children in remote areas. There may be some people here who don't understand, thinking that family conditions are so poor, why do you have so many children? Can you afford to raise so many children? But their families want to take advantage of having more children to get subsidies from the village. But I think there are so many children receiving subsidies, but there is little living expenses left, which is unprofitable. Therefore, I personally don't understand why the poorer people want to have more children, and the more they have, while people in big cities don't want to have children, so they usually have one if they want to have children.

Of course, I can understand that families in big cities have fewer children. After all, they want to do their best to raise a child. Therefore, if there are more children, they may not be so considerate. If you have, you can take care of it wholeheartedly. But some children in big cities are really spoiled by their parents, because parents only have one child and then give all their love to this child, which has reached the level of doting. Usually, they are not allowed to do any housework, just to make them study better. As soon as their grades improve, they will agree to their requirements, regardless of whether this requirement conforms to their childhood status, so many children gradually become arrogant and lawless in this process.

Therefore, it is not qualified to spoil children too much, regardless of their parents. Now that the child is born, we should do a good job in raising and educating. After all, it is a civilized society ruled by law, which is reasonable. It doesn't mean to feed your mouth and raise a child.