What does it mean to say that someone is in charge when you are old _ What does it mean to say that you will be lonely when you are old?

As the saying goes, people in their forties don't care about two things, and people in their fifties don't care about two people. What does that mean?

"If you are over forty, don't worry about two things." The first thing you say is that you can't do it. People reach middle age at the age of forty. At this time, their physical strength is declining, and they have no energy when they were young. Moreover, there are old people and little people in the world, and everyone has a hard time.

At this time, if friends around you come to ask for help, you should measure your ability and actual situation before deciding whether to help. Don't play fat in the face. In the end, you and your family will suffer.

The second thing is not to worry about boring things. There is a saying that one thing is not as good as another. Everyone will encounter many things in life, and some people just like to mind their own business. When you see something, you should always take care of it and talk about it. But sometimes a few words can get you into trouble.

There are still some things that should not be too entangled. As long as it doesn't matter, let it go. If you care too much, you will have a very painful life.

"If you are over fifty, don't worry about two people." The first kind of person refers to the villain. Villains are those who are ungrateful and mercenary. I believe that every family has an immobile relative. These relatives usually disappear, and when something goes wrong, they start asking for help from door to door.

Kindly reaching out to help these little people may not be rewarded. Be careful that they will bite you in turn one day, so leave it alone.

The second kind of people are jealous people. There is a saying that jealousy is like a poisonous snake, it will swim slowly in your mind and chew up all your bones.

These jealous people are smiling at you on the surface, but they don't know what tricks are playing behind your back. It's always hypocritical to people, and it's no good making friends with people.