Steps to pick up girls

One: I like a woman, and then I went over and said, "I see you are very friendly." I like to make friends with a friendly girl like you. "

A woman readily agrees, because she can't refuse a person who praises her friendliness.

After a brief introduction, PUA began to introduce herself, indicating that DHV said there was a company nearby. Women are curious about what I do.

I replied: I dropped out of school a long time ago and began to pursue this ideal. Now I finally want to realize it and start my own company ... I will change the subject and continue DHV.

Talk about ideals, pursuits and opinions. And show that they have no interest in women at all, but simply think that women are considerate, friendly and want to make friends.

This woman became interested in PUA, and she thought: This is a man with his own personality, courage to pursue, rich experience and delicate feelings. I really want to make friends with him.

Besides, she asked herself: He is not interested in me at all. Am I not beautiful?

Second: Sensing that she was interested in herself, he began to attack.

I said that I was not interested in her, and I accidentally held her hand and hugged her shoulder when crossing the road.

It happened that when they made these actions, they also showed a kind of worry.

The girl not only has no feeling of disgust, but also thinks this man is very sweet.

After coming back, the woman recalled what happened during the day. She feels like a dream when she is with you. She was surprised to find that she seemed to be in love with him ... she seemed to be looking forward to seeing him next time.

Third, let the woman owe her a favor through games and other means, and then let the woman take the initiative to invite him to dinner. The two met again.

There was no difficulty in holding hands and hugging shoulders this time. I kissed the girl at the right time.

After a day of shopping and playing, both of them were in high spirits, but they were also very tired.

I said I couldn't walk any further. There was a hotel nearby, so I went up to have a rest. I just agreed to leave after the rest.

Then the girl was pulled up by half strong and half soft.

The above three steps, according to the understanding of the green vine, are like this.

Know and attract girls-invitation, body language upgrade-seduce girls, resist at the last minute, push them down.

These are the three processes that Xiaohai thought of to pick up girls.

Ok, next, I will start to break down the above three steps in detail.

One: Meet and attract girls.

To know and attract girls, we must first realize that we can start a topic through chatting, show ourselves and attract girls.

This is the most important step. I divided this first big step into two small steps.

1: acquaintance.

There are many ways to get to know each other, such as friends near the network, such as real street riding and so on.

When chatting with friends near the network, the opening remarks are generally like this.

①: Push and pull method. Praise her first, and then put forward opinions and opinions.

You are very beautiful. I saw a star at first sight, but when I looked closely, I found a little flaw ... (This method includes pushing and pulling. Make her happy first, and then tell her instantly that there is a small flaw to attract her attention, and continue the dialogue through this small flaw. )

②: Cold reading method. Giving pertinent advice by looking at faces is a bit like a fortune teller.

Judging from your smile and cold eyes, you should be a girl who is not very confident. There is a big problem with this method. It is easy for people with insufficient foundation to start a topic and rush into her heart, so that she will be prepared for you. You can pretend to be a fortune teller or something. )

③: Natural communication method. (recommended! ! ! ! )

Why does your hair look a little dry? (The tone is casual and natural, which seems to be concerned and suppressed, without any malice. Go straight to the topic, and then continue the conversation through the topic. This method works well and is a simplified version of the first push-pull method, but be careful not to be too stiff, otherwise it will become a fault. )

4. Random method.

Today's weather is very good. In a word, there is no purpose, just like chatting with ordinary friends. If the other person answers you, you can go on. No, that's it. The response rate near QQ is 50% to 60%, and the response rate of Momo is low. )

There are roughly three ways to build a street.

①: Direct opening remarks.

Hello, I want to see you. (Simple and clear, efficient, suitable for any occasion)

②: Indirect opening remarks.

For example, the target is reading a book. You can walk over and look at it and say, "Is this book Carnegie's? Why did you suddenly think of reading this kind of psychology? " You need strong experience, and it's a bit difficult to be inexperienced. )

③: Random method.

The target is sitting there, and you can walk over and say to yourself, it's really bad today, and it's going to rain again. It's disgusting. (This method is very likely that the other party will not reply, but if it does, it will be easy to catch up. Not recommended)

2. Expand the topic and show yourself in the conversation, so as to attract each other.

Did you find the problem? Chatting with friends nearby, there is nothing to talk about after five or ten sentences? Well, it's time for you to cut off the topic and start showing yourself. (Of course, some experts can easily start a multi-topic chat, which is not so conspicuous, but they also use the method of cutting the topic, so you must learn from it in the future. )

The second small step is divided into several detailed steps, which I will explain in detail next.

①: Cut off the topic and move on to the next topic.

For example, my cat is so wonderful that it is drinking water!

The couple downstairs in my house are quarreling again, which is really noisy (the chat topic suddenly stopped after the opening remarks, so we need to cut to the theme and have an interesting topic. You can collect it yourself, or you can suddenly find something and say it directly. Pay attention to the topic that must be interesting or to her heart. )

②: Show your point of view, show your high value, and interact with her at the beginning of the topic.

I got this cat from Persia. Do you think Persian cats are so wonderful?

My cat is really a monster. You think it's your reincarnation? Do you like drinking too?

Well, two people finally got together, but now they are quarrelling over money. I feel that sometimes feelings are really fragile in front of money In this age of money, do you still believe in feelings?

Expressing one's views can be teasing, talking to her humorously, or touching her heart. But pay attention to the interaction between the two, pay attention to my last question, and send her this curious question that she has to answer ...)

③: Deepen the high value and completely attract her.

I have dropped out of school now, and I have been struggling in the society for seven or eight years, and I have been fighting for my ideals.

Today, a group of employees are bothering me about what to eat at night. Can't they make a decision on such a small matter?

I think it is sad that a person has no dreams. Even though I am bitter now, I have seen that I am not far from success.

At least I don't regret doing so. In retrospect, I don't want to regret it

Similar to the second point, express your views and show your determination, confidence, ability, leadership and so on. It is best to resonate with her heart, so as to better interact and attract ...)

3. Waste testing and screening to improve her appeal.

If you can do the above two things, I believe that the girl has been attracted to you and she is interested in you.

At this time, she will test whether you are wasting (of course, it may be before the third point above).

Women like to test whether the man in front of them has real value and strong mentality by constantly failing him, and evaluate whether a man is worth being a boyfriend or a sexual partner. If you pass the failed test, congratulations, you can basically capture her. She will like you more and more.

After passing the failed test, you should take the lead, start screening her, make her feel that you are not available, and then love you more.

①: Waste testing

I have got a boyfriend.

Come to me (at first)

I don't like boys like you.

Do you like me?

Methods of waste disposal test:

I just want to make friends with you. How do you feel that our chat has gone bad in an instant (pushing her, suppressing her, lifting her defensive cover, indicating that she is not interested. )

Why ... are you harassing me? I am not a casual person (passing the test by teasing and asking questions)

Oh? Then you must not have a good boyfriend, because your eyes are so bad.

How did I find out that you like me? Just throw the question to her.

②: Screening

When it comes to screening, in fact, it is simply a waste test for men to women.

I find you like me.

I don't like your hair

In fact, some things, you are not so good.

Don't care how girls reply to you, because you are screening them. To put it bluntly, just tell her that she has many shortcomings and that you don't like her ... just the other way around.

Two: invitation and body language upgrade

If you can do the first two points, then I think girls already like you and even fall in love with you.

At this time, all you have to do is invite, meet her, communicate face to face and upgrade your body language.

What shall we talk to her about? We invited her. If you don't invite me, it's all a blind answer. If you don't upgrade your body language, then everything is a blind answer.

1: invitation

There are many ways to make an invitation letter, and I will summarize it in detail here.

Passive invitation: The woman says to the man: Really, I find you are very kind and considerate, and I really want to see you (just say yes and then confirm the location or something). Of course, girls are usually reserved. If you want to do this, it will be very difficult unless you are like Xiaohai. )

Casually vague invitation: "I have a dinner party in a few days. Come along." (The time is uncertain and there is no purpose, so it is easier for the other party to agree. )

Pay the invitation: "You still owe me a meal. I happen to be free today. Please dress up and invite me to dinner. " (This method is the best, so that girls feel indebted to you, and they can easily come out and let her pay for you, which is very beneficial to the follow-up. )

Remember one thing! Don't be too blunt when inviting and expose your needs too much. Be natural, be natural.

2. Physical upgrade

I think that girl must have a certain affection for you since she is willing to go out with you.

Good image, chat some interesting things online after meeting. Then follow your heart, show your humor and keep your attraction to her.

At first, you can stay a little farther away and give her enough sense of security. After a few minutes, you can approach her, such as wiping your body.

Then you can hug her shoulder and hold her hand when crossing the street. If she blames you, you can retort, "You are so stupid that you are afraid of being hit when crossing the street." . I made it for you. "

I also hold my hand and hold my shoulder ... and then I can go to some exciting or romantic places.

For example, there are ghost movies in the cinema, such as haunted houses and roller coasters, so that she can jump into your arms.

For example, the ferris wheel, such as boating, you can even sit in a beautiful place and chat with her. Watch her eyes. If she looks at you, look at each other for about three seconds, then you can kiss her.