What is gratitude?

It can be used to describe the feelings between men and women that one party owes to the other. You care about him, but he ignores you completely. If a man is often philandering, it also means that he is in debt everywhere. If you are with someone because you are moved, you should know that it is not love, but sympathy. More like paying off a debt.

Love is not an object that can be exchanged equally, and feelings are not an object that can be used to repay each other. If you feel that he has paid too much, I am sorry, you can politely refuse, or you can keep it in mind and repay each other in the future. But never repay each other with feelings. Because in exchange for feelings, both of them will get hurt in the end.

If what you want is a love, then you should remember that the person you choose must be someone you like from the heart, not someone who thinks he is very nice and you "should" be with others. Only the person you really like can erase the "love spark" in a relationship. People who have no feelings just live together.

People who really like each other have emotional communication with each other. Being together as a reward is only the efforts of one party and the acceptance of the other party. This is not love.