What do you mean by "fun of teasing" and "fun of teasing"?

Life is alive, personnel are constantly changing, and weddings, funerals and weddings are one after another. If a person comes into this world, what is the earliest personnel? Must have been born. This is the beginning of all social life. Only at this moment of birth, people are destined to be people and grow into families to carry on the family line. This is a long-standing family culture in China.

Etiquette is mainly held in February, March and April, which is generally the spring when everything recovers and grows. It seems that businessmen have developed an idea that prayer and childbearing are linked with the natural law of the spring growth of all things in nature and induced. Oracle Bone Inscriptions also recorded that after Wang prayed for the child, he divined whether the princess was pregnant and the expected date of delivery after pregnancy. Within a month after the birth of a child, businessmen have already had the custom of naming the child.

"Nongzhang Nung Wa" praised The Book of Songs and Xiaoya Four Cadres. "When a person is born, he sleeps with his bed on his back, wears clothes on his back, and takes off his clothes on his back. ..... is the place where women are born, where they sleep, where they wear clothes and where they play with tiles. "

"Zhang" refers to a beautiful jade with an inclined acute angle at the top. In ancient times, it was a ritual vessel used by nobles for weddings, sacrifices and funerals. Playing music for his son "Zhang" not only hopes that he has jade-like character, but also hopes that he will become a noble and glorious ancestor. So later, I called having a boy "the joy of playing tricks"; "Tiles" are part of the RV. Playing with my daughter "Wa" is in the hope that she will be qualified for needlework in the future. Therefore, later generations called "Nongzhang" a son and "playing with tiles" a daughter.

In fact, ancient Chinese characters have their specific meanings. In these two auspicious words, "Zhang" refers to an ancient jade, while "tile" actually refers to a spindle. It is estimated that many people have misunderstood these two words.

The difference between "sleeping in Nongzhang" and "sleeping in tiles" still existed in disguise during the Republic of China. In his article, Mr. Lu Xun once exposed and criticized this patriarchal approach: as soon as his son was born, he regarded it as a treasure, put it on the bed, dressed him well, and played with a piece of jade (Zhang) in his hand; If you have a daughter, you can only throw it on the ground and give her a tile to play with. Of course, Nongzhang wants boys to behave like jade, and the purpose of making tiles is to give girls a skill in needlework. In addition, the system of "Zhang" is relatively short, which is also the possibility for children to play.

"Tiles" are not tiles on the house, but parts on the spinning wheel. Let the girl be born with spinning tools in the hope that she can spin, weave and do housework in the future. Giving birth to a girl is called teasing.

Zhang Hewa is used to refer to men and women, indicating that ancient society advocates male superiority and female inferiority.

So now you know the meaning of "Nongzhang" and "playing with tiles", so you can use these two words to bless your relatives and friends when their children are born. On the one hand, it can avoid the embarrassing situation of everyone saying the same greeting, on the other hand, it can also show that he is an educated person from the side.