Ancient poems about wedding reception

1. describes the scene of ancient marriage. On the wedding day, the bride and groom held a ceremony to pay tribute to the bride. The two bridesmaids appeared as "Zan" and "Zan" respectively. The procedure to satisfy the bride's consciousness is as follows:

Zan: The groom is standing in front of the sedan chair.

Tong Zan: Lift the sedan chair and the couple will get up.

Praise: the groom bows (handing over the bride)

Zan: The bride and groom went straight to the front of the drawing room.

Zan: The bride and groom are in place.

Tong Zan: The bride and groom go on a pilgrimage.

Zan: Bow down and burn incense.

Tong Zan: Kneel down, kowtow, kowtow again, kowtow three times,

Then there are the three common worships in TV series: one worships heaven and earth, the other worships Gao Tang, and the husband and wife enter the bridal chamber after two worships.

2. Sentences describing ancient marriages are urgent and clear. The marriages of young Han people in ancient China were arranged by their parents, most of them were engaged in early years, and some even called what was in their stomachs marriage, that is, their parents established a marriage relationship for their children before they were born.

No marriage with the same surname: that is, men and women with the same surname do not marry each other, which began in the early Western Zhou Dynasty and was a rule left over from the Zhou people's practice of intermarriage. In the Spring and Autumn Period, people further realized that intermarriage with the same surname would cause abnormal infertility of offspring, but intermarriage with the same surname still occurred from time to time among nobles.

After the Warring States Period, the surname Shi, regardless of the surname after the Han Dynasty, is often unavoidable. In the Tang Dynasty, intermarriage with the same surname followed the ancient system and was prohibited.

There was a Tang law in the Song and Yuan Dynasties, and the same surname was reserved for marriage. The Ming and Qing dynasties had a large territory and a large population, and it was already a society based on region, replacing the clan based on blood.

Therefore, the Ming law regulations and the Qing law regulations are divided into two parts: the same surname and the same clan. On the surface, it is forbidden for two people to get married. In fact, people with the same surname and different clans can get married. Calligraphy in the late Qing Dynasty merged unmarried relatives with unmarried surnames, and only intermarriage within the same clan was prohibited.

Please ask the matchmaker to propose marriage at the woman's house before engagement. When engaged, the man gives the woman some property as a "gift", and when married, the woman also brings a lot of property to the man's family, which is called "dowry".

On the wedding day, the groom will get on the limousine or sedan chair and go to the woman's house to "marry the bride". There is a band in front of a limousine or sedan chair. After the bride is welcomed into the man's house, she should worship heaven and earth and her parents.

After the ceremony, the newlyweds entered the bridal chamber. At this time, the man gave a banquet to entertain relatives and friends who came to congratulate him.

Some places also have the habit of making trouble in the bridal chamber and listening to the wall. Check date: marriage customs of Han nationality.

Also known as the reporting date. Popular in most parts of China.

Talking about marriage in rural areas: a step towards marriage. When young men and women get to know each other, tell their parents and ask the media to communicate. The man gives the bride a bride price and then sets a wedding date.

In the past, fortune tellers always ranked the "eight characters" first, and the fate was consistent. In some places, parents meet to get engaged.

For example, in quanzhou county, after the two sides reached an agreement, the matchmaker sent wine, meat and clothes to the woman on behalf of the man, accompanied his parents and uncles to meet at the man's house on the agreed date, and the man gave a banquet. The young man poured wine in a pot, first to the woman's uncle and then to his uncle, and then toasted in turn.

The two sides agreed on the wedding date and the engagement was completed. Later, men and women gave the woman heavy gifts and bride price, the woman prepared dowry, the man prepared furniture, and the wedding was held as scheduled.

If the woman urges marriage, she will make a pair of glutinous rice cakes (commonly known as "reunion cakes") and send them to the man's house. The man got the message, treated him warmly and invited his neighbors to go with him. Generally speaking, it is respected for the woman to take the initiative to advance the wedding date.

He Lang Song: The marriage custom of Han nationality popular in Xing 'an area of northeast Guangxi. After visiting the church and dinner, relatives and friends gathered around the groom in the main hall and sang "Song of Welcoming Lang".

Impromptu congratulations, but also joking and humorous words. Friends and relatives sing a song and the groom drinks a glass of wine.

Sing till midnight and send the groom into the bridal chamber. The female singer waited behind closed doors, and the men and women sang "Open the Door Song" in pairs before opening the door.

Singing noisily after entering the door, from "a toast to the groom" to "ten cups", the groom drinks from 1 to 10 cups in turn (male singers can drink instead of winners). Then sing "Sex Wine" and the couple have a drink together.

Finally, the singer closed the door and sang the song of closing the door to end the wedding. Sitting in the Red Hall: The marriage custom of the Han nationality is popular in quanzhou county, northeast Guangxi. Young men and women worship their ancestors in their own homes and receive instructions from their elders on the eve of marriage.

The bride wears red ornaments and is accompanied by her classmates. She sat in the main room, singing "Weeping Wedding Song" softly, remembering her parents' kindness and expressing sisterhood. Sisters told the bride to be filial to the elderly and live in harmony with her brothers and sisters, and praised the groom for his handsome and hardworking.

When the bride expresses her unhappy thoughts, the sisters comfort her in many ways. Singing late into the night, Yiyi said goodbye and presented gifts.

The groom is also accompanied by his classmates sitting in his main hall, and is taught by his elders to be diligent and keep the house and obey the rules. After the teaching, the old man retired, and the boys joked and chased the groom, and the joy didn't end until late at night.

Seeking the Key: The marriage custom of Han nationality is popular in quanzhou county, northeast Guangxi. The bride's wedding key is in the hands of any of her siblings or nephews.

Before meeting the bride, the groom sends a package to the bride-to-be and asks for the key, so that after meeting the bride, he can open the box and show Gu Mi's money, symbolizing a bumper harvest after marriage and a rich family. There were too few relatives to see me off, and the groom added many times.

Farewell Lang took the parcel, and the groom got the key and went to see the bride happily. Housekeeping: one of the marriage customs of Han nationality, is an important procedure of rural marriage negotiation.

Also called housekeeping rounds. Popular in most counties and townships in Guangxi.

At that time, accompanied by more than 10 relatives and friends, the woman and two girls called "accompanying aunts" went to that house (some women didn't go). The man gave a banquet to entertain.

The matchmaker introduced the two parties to get married. When the woman's relatives and friends ask for gifts, the man will generally promise to give the guests "money" at that time.

The next day, the two sides negotiated through the matchmaker. In some places, it is also allowed to enter the inner room of the man who is proposing marriage to check the real situation and then propose marriage through the matchmaker.

Stealing relatives in the dark room: the marriage custom of the Han nationality is popular in the county of Guidong. In the downtown mountainous area, after the bride cried and got married for two days and two nights, she hid in a dark room with her girlfriends early in the morning on the day of crossing the door.

After the men and women arrived, the bride's brother (or cousin) and the young men in the pro-prestige broke into the house. The female companion threw sand and waved bamboo branches to resist.

The robber tried to drag his girlfriend out of the door to eliminate interference. If you defeat two robbers, it will increase to four people even 10 or more until the bride is forced out.

Then two (or four) women in the man's wedding team take turns to carry the bride to Lang's house. In the competition of stealing marriage, the man wiped the cigarette and ink for the woman, and the woman tore the man's clothes, which turned the legacy of ancient stealing marriage into a farce for young men and women.

Courtesy: Marriage customs of Han nationality are popular in most counties and towns in Guangxi. An important procedure in the wedding.

Usually, the groom's uncle will light a pair of wedding candles on the altar and say some blessing words to express congratulations and prayers. For example, in the county of Guidong, colorful words are often used: "The dragon lantern shines alone, the flower hall shines high, the husband and wife live together, and the luck is in pairs", "Holding a bonus in hand, congratulations on the nephew's marriage to the bride, and the husband and wife and Tian Ming live a long life, and the husband and wife are harmonious for a hundred years."

After the speech, the bride and groom worship the heavens and the earth and their ancestors and get married. Huimen: Marriage Custom of Han Nationality in Ancient China.

That is, on the third, sixth, seventh, ninth, tenth or full moon after marriage, the son-in-law goes back to her mother's house with the bride to pay New Year greetings to her parents and relatives. The ceremony of becoming a husband from kissing is now complete.

This custom originated in ancient times and is generally called "mothering" when going home after marriage.

3. What are the ancient poems about weddings? 1, offer wine to the autumn club, and drum the wedding ceremony.

Source: Ten Poems on Autumn Night in Song Dynasty: The behavior of several people rhymes with the barking of dogs in lonely villages.

Interpretation: The diet is richer than the autumn festival, and musical instruments are played to welcome the wedding.

2. Flowers and candles move in Los Angeles, and new moths are painted in seven miles.

Source: Tang Yangshidao's first night marriage.

Interpretation: In Luoyang City, flowers and candles are moving, brides draw Emei makeup, and relatives and friends are beaming.

3. The red candle stopped in the bridal chamber last night, waiting for Tang Xiao to visit the bride.

Source: Try Zhang Ji's Water Department by Tang Zhu Qingyu.

Interpretation: Last night, the wedding candle was brightly lit all night, waiting for the morning to praise the in-laws.

4. Remember the first meeting in the bridal chamber. We've only been together a long time. When will there be a quiet moment, becoming parting? Spring is bleak, and I am crazy about flowers everywhere. I'm afraid of the beautiful scenery, so I'll go home with Yi.

Source: Song Dynasty Liu Yong's "Happy Morning and Night, Remember the First Meeting in the Wedding Room"

I remember the wedding scene when we first met, but I just thought we should be together forever. Who knows that a short tryst will become the last love before separation, and it happens to be in the twilight. Facing the floating catkins, I am afraid that this beautiful spring will all disappear with his departure.

5, the bridal chamber is deep, the screen is illuminated, and the mountains and rivers are heavy. Listen to the rain drop banana, dream red window, dragon smoke embroidery. A long letter of resignation, a struggling Phoenix, and an idle Jiaomiao fan.

Source: Du Mu's "Eight Six Sons in the Deep of the Bridal Chamber" in the Tang Dynasty

In the deep room where the queens live; The light shines on the screen with pictures, and the mountains on the screen are thick green, which is particularly antique and solemn. Hearing the sound of the cold night rain hitting the banana, I was shocked to break my good dream in the room.

I woke up to see the cigarettes of Panlong incense burner floating on the embroidered satin quilt. Losing the emperor's favor, I have lived in Changxin Palace for a long time, and the curtain is gloomy and cold; The original Chili museum was idle and useless, with the door closed and deserted.

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If you get married, you won't warm your bed.

It is too hasty to say goodbye at dusk.

Source: Du Fu's wedding farewell in Tang Dynasty

They got married and didn't even warm the mattress once. I got married in a hurry last night and said goodbye in a hurry this morning. Is this wedding too short, too short!

Ask the ancients to write poems about the bride's life. The new bride: Wang Jian

On the third day, instead of cooking for me,

Wash your hands and make bridal soup.

I decided not to be my mother-in-law,

But my husband's sister should smell like Fiat.

Wang Jian (about 767- 830) was a poet in the Tang Dynasty. At the beginning of the word Zhong, Xu Zhou (now Xuchang, Henan) was born. He used to be Sima in Shaanxi Province. Author of Wang Sima's collection of works.

This poem is one of three poems written by the poet "Bride".

Poets of past dynasties have written many poems about brides, and this one by Wang Jian is very interesting. Where is the beauty? There are three beauties:

First, the angle is novel. The poet did not write about the bride from the well-known angles such as dressing up skillfully, sitting in a sedan chair, worshiping heaven and earth, drinking wedding banquets and entering the bridal chamber. Instead, put the "breakthrough point" on the bride's first cooking on the third day after marriage, which can be described as a unique eye.

Second, there are pictures in poetry. A short poem of 20 words vividly depicts the scene of the bride cooking in the kitchen for the first time and letting her sister-in-law taste the food first. This is really a wonderful picture.

The third is rich in philosophy. The third and fourth sentences of this poem are very interesting. The bride has just arrived at her in-laws' house, and she doesn't know her mother-in-law's eating habits and tastes. She doesn't know whether she likes salty or light, so she needs to investigate. The most effective and convenient way to investigate is to let my sister-in-law taste it first, because her sister-in-law is most familiar with her mother's eating habits and tastes.

5. What sentences describe the ancient red wedding dress as red lotus, wearing red hands, wearing brocade and smiling shyly?

Guan Feng Xia Di: In the old days, rich women showed off their glory when they got married. It also refers to the dress of an official's wife.

From the fourth fold of Yuan's Xiaoxiang Rain: "I took off this golden flower and eight treasures phoenix crown, took off this colorful shoulder and gave it to Miss Zhang as a dressing table. I am willing to be the messenger to Mei. " Historical origin: Bai Juyi recited in the Tang Dynasty: "Rainbow skirts and summer clothes shake the crown step by step, and cymbals are full of beauty."

Every time I read here, I will think of those married women in ancient times, wearing feather crowns and robes. I envy them very much. On the happiest day of their lives, they can dress up like this, embroidered robes, flowers and big Hong Xiuxie, with a touch of wealth and joy, as if their hearts were filled with happiness. I think the crown robe is the clothes of empresses, the worship of heaven and earth is the gift of suburban emperors, and the life of China folk women is also king.

The origin of the bride's wearing a rockhopper gown has been stipulated since the Song Dynasty. Only married women with a certain level can wear it, but it is also a traditional dress for folk women when they get married. In the ancient society with strict dress system, how can folk women enjoy the honor of wearing a rockhopper gown when they get married, so that girls can dress so nobly when they get married and sit side by side with the imperial concubines and enjoy this supreme honor? According to legend, at the end of the Northern Song Dynasty, Jin Bing invaded south and took away Emperor Gongsun. Song Huizong's son Zhao Gou fled to the south of the Yangtze River.

When I arrived at Xidian Qianjin Village, I suddenly saw a ruined temple on the roadside, and a girl sat on the threshing floor in front of the temple. When the girl saw Kang Wang escape, she used her quick wits and told him to hide in the cereal basket and sit on it casually.

Nomads from the chase after the girl asked if anyone passed by, she unhurriedly pointed out that they fled to the south. Nomads from the letter, then go south.

As a result, Kang Wang escaped death. He is very grateful and likes this beautiful and witty little girl very much. He gave her a red handkerchief and told her his identity, saying, "Today next year, I will marry you. Then all you have to do is wave a red handkerchief on the ridge, and I will know you.

"After Kang Wang arrived in Hangzhou, he became emperor of the Southern Song Dynasty. As promised, he went to marry the girl. Unexpectedly, the girl was reluctant to leave her hometown and refused to enter the palace. However, fearing that the emperor's orders would be difficult to violate, he prepared many red handkerchiefs for his sisters to wave red handkerchiefs every day, which made the emperor unrecognizable and had to give up.

However, in order to repay the kindness of saving his life, Song Gaozong made an imperial edict: "Zhejiang women do their best to seal the king!" This worried the accompanying etiquette officer and said to the emperor, "How can this make the king win?" The emperor thought for a moment and said, "What's the difficulty? Let them wear a costume when they get married! " From then on, when the girls are brides, they all wear long gowns and red skirts, and at the same time, they don't forget to cover their faces with the red kerchief presented by Kang Wang. This custom has been passed down from generation to generation until now, and people of all ages know it.

6. The ancient bride described that on the wedding day, the bride usually wore bright red clothes to show good luck and celebration, and now there is the custom of wearing a long white dress.

When the bride left home, she cried as she walked, which showed that she thought of her family. The bride came to the groom's house and the wedding began.

In some places, the woman has to cross a brazier in the hospital in order to burn unlucky things and let the husband and wife live a rich life in the future. After the bride entered the room, one ceremony followed another.

The first is to worship the church: one worships heaven and earth, the other worships parents; The third is the worship of husband and wife. Then, cheers.

In the new house, the couple also cut some hair from each other and put it together as a token of their relationship. The climax of a wedding is a wedding banquet, also called a "wedding banquet".

So people call attending a wedding "drinking a wedding banquet". At the folk wedding banquet, attention is paid to ostentation and extravagance, because it is an aspect of expressing the grand degree of the wedding, so it is highly valued.

During the dinner, the bride will personally pour wine and take food for the guests and thank them for coming. The bridal chamber is also called "wedding room" and "wedding room". Making trouble in the wedding room is the last activity of the wedding, and most of the participants are unmarried young men and women.

People try their best to have fun, or give the couple problems, or do funny things, or let the couple perform programs to increase the happy atmosphere of the wedding and make the couple unforgettable.