Do you need to get married before you get married?

In ancient times, before men and women got married, the matchmaker exchanged Geng Tie. The so-called Geng Tie is the birthdates of both men and women, and then the parents of both sides go to fortune tellers to check the horoscope, and then they will continue to talk about marriage. If the constellations don't match, they won't get married, no matter how suitable they are. Now, of course, because the younger generation's ideas are different from those in ancient times, so their ideas are different. The specific principles of eight-character marriage are as follows:

Marriage problem is one of the important factors that seriously affect health. "Happy families are all similar, but unhappy families are different!" . A happy marriage is the special secret core of a happy family; As we all know, a happy marriage can make people live a long and healthy life. This shows how important a happy marriage is. Marriage is an ancient custom. In ancient times, both men and women needed to exchange Geng posts before marriage to see if the eight characters were consistent, and then put forward reasonable suggestions on the inconsistencies. Eight-character marriage should be carried out from the following aspects.

1, both men and women are not suitable for punishing each other, because the year is the root, the month is the seedling, the day is the flower, and the time is the fruit. Nianzhu is the soul and foundation of a person, so it is not suitable for both sides to punish each other when they meet Nianzhu, and it is easy to have great disasters after marriage.

It is inappropriate for men and women to punish each other, because the day is a flower, not a husband-and-wife palace. It is inappropriate for husband and wife to punish each other, and the relationship between husband and wife is not easy to be harmonious after marriage.

Neither male nor female should be punished for the four-poster zodiac, because the year is the parents' palace, the month is the brothers and sisters' palace, the day is the husband and wife's palace, and the time is the children's palace. The four pillars interact with each other, which is not good for both parents, six parents, family and children.

4. If the male life is full of yang, it must match the female life, the male life matches the female life, and the female life is the same, so as to coordinate yin and yang.

Both men and women should not be punished, because the life palace is the destination of life. As the saying goes: God has no temple and no home, people have no house and no home, and the hall of life has no owner. The palace of life is like a person's residence, which shows its importance. If the living houses of the two sides compete with each other, the family foundation and emotional foundation after marriage will not be easy to be stable, and it is easy to have a sense of crisis and lack of security.

6. It is inappropriate for men and women to be punished for loving God in the eight characters, because loving God is a medicine to cure an eight-character character. If the love of God is restrained by the other party, it will be difficult for the husband and wife to unite as one after marriage, which will easily lead to contradictions and opinions. One goes east, one goes west, one goes to Beijing and one goes to Tianjin. So it's easy to part ways.

7. The three-dimensional palace for men and women should be combined, which is also called divination marriage or three-dimensional marriage for men and women. The three-dimensional marriage between men and women is represented by eight directions of gossip, namely, dry, Kun, Kan, divorce, earthquake, root, ten-day and intercourse, and then the respective houses of the two parties are matched, and the matching results are blessing, anger, heavenly medicine, returning to the soul and wandering.

Marriage needs to be combined with the whole process of marriage, combined with the comprehensive analysis of the lifelong Universiade of both parties and give reasonable suggestions that are beneficial to the marriage of both parties. You can't combine or not combine from only one aspect.