The so-called good "water of life"

From ancient times to the present, many people believe that fate is determined by heaven, but there are also people after Zhang Boduan said that "my life is not in heaven" in the Northern Song Dynasty and Liu Guo said that "man can conquer heaven" in the Song Dynasty.

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I once read a story about two people who were born on the same day in the same month. Because they were born at the wrong time, their lives were calculated into heaven and earth. One is a champion, and the other is a beggar.

Well, since then, the person who won the first prize has never been enterprising and has been spoiled by his parents. He often bullied beggars and some weak neighbors, but because he neglected his studies, he got into bad habits and finally became a beggar. People who live a beggar's life, because they are often bullied by people who live a champion's life and their families, swear to work hard and win fame. In the end, he actually won the championship and became the champion lang.

Finally, the fortune teller calculated it for them again, shaking his head again and again, saying that fate is predestined, life comes first, and water brings luck. Whether a person's luck is good or not depends on his personality, which is probably a test given to everyone by God.

This is in our place, people call it water.

Some people always say that it is because their "living water" is not good that people who used to live worse than themselves live better than themselves later. But they never thought that those who live better than themselves have made great efforts behind the scenes that no one has seen.

No one can live happily and succeed casually. Those so-called good "water of life" have always been earned by others through hard work.

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In fact, apart from some accidents, many times some people's "water of life" is caused by their own reasons.

There is a man next door who has been in love with a girl for several years. When it was time to talk about marriage, his mother asked him if he had a girlfriend. He answered no because he was afraid that his mother would not agree with his love.

So his mother found him a blind date.

Later, he broke up with his girlfriend and married a girl his mother liked.

After marriage, because of disagreement with his wife and frequent quarrels, the family is always full of depressing atmosphere.

Not long after marriage, my wife became pregnant. In order not to affect his wife's mood, men go out to work.

10, my wife gave birth to a boy, but the relationship between husband and wife is still not good.

Two years later, the second child came out. The man never goes home and only gives him living expenses every month.

Later, my wife also left two children to go out to work, and the man will come back to see.

I don't know since when, husband and wife are like strangers.

This man said in front of others that this is his "water of life", and he was destined to bear such loneliness. In fact, he has such a marriage ending today, which is all his own making. No wonder it is "water of life".

If he had dared to tell his mother that he had a girlfriend, his mother would not have helped him find a wife. On the other hand, we can see that this person is actually selfish and cowardly. Fortunately, the girl he liked for several years didn't marry him.

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If some people's cowardice has created the unfortunate "water of life", then some people have lost to the "water of life" because they are too strong.

A girl in the town, independent and strong since childhood, worked hard.

After graduating from junior high school, her mother asked her to go home to help plow the fields because her family preferred sons to daughters.

Until the age of eighteen, girls were introduced to work in the city.

Not long after the girl arrived in the city, she fell in love with a mainlander.

I don't know who brought the girl's love home, so her mother took her brothers to the place where the girl worked and forced her home.

Since then, my mother has not allowed girls to go out to work, always saying that girls are too simple and easy to cheat.

Therefore, the girl has been helping to plow at home and occasionally doing some rough work with some construction workers.

Living with her back to the loess, the girl gradually changed from a weak girl to a village girl with rough skin.

A few years later, the girl was in her twenties, and her mother arranged a blind date for her.

But every time my mother dislikes others being poor or having many brothers in their family, just like that, the good girl drags on and on and hasn't married at the age of 30.

Later, the girl finally couldn't help but resist. Because she fell in love with a boy this time, two years younger than her and 28 years old. There are many brothers in the boy's family, but the girl's mother doesn't agree.

But girls like it. After meeting this boy, she is going to pack her bags and find a job near the boy's work, thinking that she can get to know this boy better.

However, the girl's mother was very angry and blocked the door to prevent the girl from going out. She also scolded that if the girl followed her out, she would never call her mother again and never come back.

Hearing this, the girl smiled instead of being angry.

With a sad face, she suddenly smiled and said to her mother, "Good, I've decided now. I'm not going anywhere. I decided to stay in this family until I am old, and let you give me a pension. "

Mother thought her daughter had figured it out, and time would dilute everything.

But what she didn't expect was that her daughter would never go on a blind date again and never mention going out to work with her again. Every day is muddling along, and it doesn't matter if you live.

In this way, the girl is almost forty years old this year and has become the "old girl" and "old aunt" in the villagers' mouths.

Therefore, the mother of an "old maid" always said that this was her "water of life", and she had such an ungrateful daughter that she had to accept her fate.

Is this really caused by her "life water"?

No, she is stronger than her own daughter.

She is the one who hurts her daughter the most in this world.

The so-called "water of life" actually means fate.

The so-called fate is a person's birth and luck. A high school teacher once said that a person can't decide his own birth, but he can decide his own luck.

At that time, I didn't understand what this meant. When I did, I was no longer a teenager.

Some people always envy others' good luck and always say that others' "water of life" is good. Everyone else's good luck and good "life water" are hidden in the details of ordinary life, in their own personality, and in the accumulation of time.