Do you think "formal marriage" is fair?

What we need to find out is not the unfairness of marriage, but why marriage is formed. Did both parties know before marriage?

First of all, I don't hate gay men, and I have no different views on such people. On the contrary, I have been immersed in corruption for several years, but I think they are very loving. I'm just talking about some disgusting exceptions. The most disgusting thing now is that many men are gay, but they are hidden and don't want to get married, but their parents are very tight and there is no way. When their parents gave him a blind date, they casually promised a girl to get married. In this way, the damage to girls after marriage is particularly great. I read a report before that a girl married a boy and found out that he was gay after marriage. She lives in pain every day and wants a divorce, but she can't. The first husband disagreed, and the second husband was super nice to her in front of outsiders. Others say that she married a good husband. If she is divorced, she doesn't know how to tell others. This is particularly harmful to women's psychology. Of course, for men, if they can't give women the normal marriage they want, they will go elsewhere to make up for it, but even if they make up for it, there will definitely be psychological harm in their hearts.

Of course, the example I cited above also includes that female homosexuals find a completely ignorant other half to marry, which is very harmful to both sides psychologically and unfair to the other side.

There is also a form of marriage, in which two people are gay, inform each other before marriage, and agree on non-interference or a series of other agreed rules after marriage, and both parties abide by each other. Then this form of marriage is very fair, and both sides have their place. This kind of marriage has solved a big trouble for parents to blow off their marriage and solved the strange vision of society. It can be said that it is a way that is beneficial to both sides.

Therefore, marriage depends on the wishes of both parties, and both parties agree that it is no problem and fair; If you hide your desire to get married before marriage, it is unfair to the other party, and the harm to two people is a lifelong thing. Please think it over.