Tali, what do you mean you're crying?

What you mentioned above: you, in fact, mean that you are helpless. It can also be understood as: there is no way to take you, it is hopeless.

For example, the son of Lao Wang's husband and wife, his academic performance is not consistent, and he makes trouble all day. Just after school at noon that day, neighbor Lao Li led his son to Lao Wang. As soon as he entered the door, he said, Look at your son hitting my child. Lao Wang saw that he had broken a child's head, so Lao Wang quickly put in a good word for others. When Lao Li left, Lao Wang said angrily to his son, You give me trouble.