Ceng Shiqiang's wisdom quotations ~ notes.

One can change one's own destiny, but only you, your heart and your ideas can change.

Everyone has a blind spot, and this blind spot is the point where you can't see clearly. You should be able to face yourself bravely and find out your shortcomings. Remember, your weakness is the lesson of your life.

Everyone should remember four words: enough. At all times, we should have "Zhi Zhi Wisdom", define our own position and don't push our luck.

People sometimes need someone to wake them up. It's not a question of who is smart or not, but that you can't see clearly your own things and see clearly other people's things.

Why do you have to convince others? What makes you convince others? Who wants to be persuaded by you? The word "persuasion" should completely disappear from our minds. We are not qualified to convince anyone, and few people are really willing to accept our persuasion. We can only say, "You can refer to what I have done."

The biggest problem of modern people is "I know, I know, I just can't do it". Don't use this sentence as an excuse. People who really understand will definitely do it. Only the person who does it is qualified to say that he knows. Anything that is difficult or impossible to do is not completely known.

A person should be honest, but not too honest; One should be serious, but not too serious.

Life is a phased adjustment. After a while, we will encounter a bottleneck, and that bottleneck is the turning point, or inflection point. If you can't turn over, you will stumble. You have to figure out how to turn it smoothly and effectively. This is called adjustment.

Every China was born a dragon, a son and grandson of a dragon, but after death, it is the difference between a dragon and a worm.

China society has no secrets. People in China are most interested in the spread of secrets around the world, and everyone in China has someone to talk to.

China people's national character is four words: be flexible. When we are United, we are the most United in the world, and when we are not United, we are the least United in the world.

What kind of face you look like in this life is matched according to what you want to do in this life. You go for plastic surgery and finally forget the task, then your life will be in vain. Visiting fortune-teller is used to adjust oneself.

Everything should rise slowly in an arc. The best thing in the world is a curve, not a straight line.

In the business world, nothing that can be implemented is unfathomable.

Which part of our body degenerates first? As soon as people with ears are born, their ears begin to degenerate. As we grow older, we will become more and more deaf to what others say, so the older we get, the more stubborn we become.

In any era, there is absolutely nothing wrong with diligence, modesty, comity and frugality, so we must stick to it.

What the ancestors and saints of the Chinese nation said was right. It is because we misread and didn't understand that we made a mistake. This is my most valuable experience in 40 years.

"To preserve our sanity" is not a fear of death. If a person doesn't care about his body and can't even protect himself, how can he protect others?

"Being cautious and independent" means being yourself and going your own way. Instead of what we generally understand, one should be careful. This kind of "independence" is what makes you different and different. But if your characteristics are always incompatible with others, you need to adjust them well.

Everyone should hold the mood of "being a monk for a day and bumping into a bell for a day", and don't think it's bad. You should do your duty.

"Innovation and change" will kill our children and grandchildren, because it will make the next generation feel that the new is good and the old is not good, and it will further make them form the habit of liking the new and hating the old.

In the past, it was not wrong to say that "opening books is beneficial" because people in the past were very cautious and responsible in writing books. But it's different now. Remember, everything that passes by will leave traces, and everything that you hear will leave traces. If it is not good, it will definitely hurt you.

"Teaching while teaching" is actually the responsibility of parents.

Everyone only drinks two glasses of wine, one bitter wine and one sweet wine, depending on how you drink. You drink something sweet first, and then you suffer. Therefore, we would rather suffer a little when we are young. So parents should not be afraid of their children suffering. Remember, parents can't follow their children all their lives.

From ancient times to the present, there is no saint who is not unwilling to go to nature, never mature to mature, and there is no natural saint. Therefore, parents must teach their children, and they will be reluctant to part with it. People are lazy and like to relax. Leave him alone, he lives happily all day, and it is difficult to make great achievements.

Doing something is the real love for children.

People can't grow up carefree.

Young people have just stepped into society. I advocate that you can change things. But not more than five years. After five years, you will probably know what to do in this life, and then go on unswervingly. It is right to change at first, that is called adjustment. But if it keeps changing, it means that you have no position at all, and you are still immature.

Filial piety is fundamental. If a person does not honor his parents, nothing else can be said.

I don't quite agree with the word "filial piety". Your father made you do bad things. Do you still have to obey him and listen to him? If you know the Book of Changes, it will make sense to stand in an unfavorable position. Don't follow blindly, it's terrible to follow blindly. You must be vigilant and have independent and sober judgment.

Anyone who tries hard to be a boss lacks "Chinese style" literacy.

Leaders only need to review themselves on one thing, that is, it is your responsibility to choose the right people and whether you arrange them in the right place.

A boss has only two things to do: one is to make the venue bigger so that everyone has the hope of promotion; Second, let everyone with you have food.

As a leader, we must combine kindness with kindness, and we can't be good until the end. If we get well, we will become bad people, and we must not be bad to the end. If we are not good, we will be hard-hearted and certainly unpopular.

Being a leader is the most taboo. I always want to give myself all the credit, which is the taboo of users.

People who are good at management often die of management. Why? Because he sees management as too omnipotent. In fact, management is just a tool, and the real key is the moral character of managers.

"We only have two things to learn in Germany. As for fame and fortune, it is determined by fate and can't be the Lord at all. " There are many obstacles. What should I do if I can't move? The only way is to calm down and think about what you did wrong, what you didn't do enough, and how to adjust. Only Xiu De can turn things around.

"Life can be changed, and you can only rely on yourself." Change with what? Use learning to correct, but only if learning is correct. Many of us have some problems, and Zeng Guofan once had them, but the key is that he changed it himself later, which is terrible. The greatest thing for a person is not to say "I am gifted, what good inheritance do I have", but to say "I will make myself better and better no matter what". This is the greatest practice.

"Success in life is when you are humiliated and frustrated", which is actually an opportunity for you to grow up quickly. Don't complain, don't complain. "Everything is extremely difficult. If you can fight and endure it, you will become a hero. "

"Now that we know this, we must work hard to move forward, sweep away all idle thinking, entertainment and language, concentrate on it, calm down and make sure that others come out. This is progress." Find a way to understand where your shortcomings are, and then bravely turn yourself into a new person. This is the kung fu of progress.

How can you lose your family? "People who completely abolish etiquette are defeated, derailed brothers are defeated, adulterous women are defeated, and arrogant children are defeated." "Pride is evil, laziness is bad, and both are ways to lose a family."

"Life just for restless, ruined for decades. Why do you make friends like this? It's just a good name. I hope others will say that they are good. " Waste time and energy for a pseudonym. Nowadays, it is meaningless for many people to pursue sudden popularity.

"Anyone who does something must pay full attention to it and persevere from beginning to end. You can't change your mind, think like this, sitting on this mountain and watching that mountain, people are not the same, and you will accomplish nothing in this life. " This is his own determination, and then slowly change his fate.