What are the wedding customs in Dongguan?

First, grab the bride in Dongguan

According to the traditional wedding custom in Dongguan, the groom invites relatives and friends to hold a wedding reception the day before the wedding. Relatives bring three sacrifices, powder pills, incense sticks and other offerings to the ancestral hall, and the groom will go down to the ancestral hall to worship his ancestors surrounded by several people with the highest seniority. At the same time, before the bride came out that night, there were ceremonies of "decapitation" and "decapitation pills". On the eve of the wedding, the head plays an important role. The bride should be combed by a recognized lucky elder, three times at a time, and while combing, she said, "One comb to the end (I wish the husband and wife consistent), two combs to the white-haired Qi Mei (I wish the husband and wife Mei Qi a case) and three combs to the children and grandchildren (I wish the husband and wife a bright future). Eat cooked' Shangtouwan' after combing your hair. I wish you and your wife a long life after marriage, full of children and grandchildren, round and round, and never part. "

Everything is ready, we must "grab the bride" (that is, grab the bride). According to the custom in Dongguan, bride snatching is arranged in the middle of the night. A Zhi said that the elders said that if a Dongguan girl got married for the first time, it would be at midnight. Because if the bride bumps into a pregnant woman on the road, it will be unlucky, and the pregnant woman will not come out in the middle of the night, which is safer.

It's time. A group of people drove to the bride's house to meet her. Usually go to the bride's house, and the bride's sisters don't open the door. If you want to open the door, the general quotation is 9999, and then the brothers bargain with them, but they can't get through. Then the two brothers opened the doors and windows, smashed them and rushed in, and then the groom opened the door. When you enter the bride's room, you must look for their hidden red shoes. When you find them, the groom can take the bride away. When you leave, the groom must take a red umbrella. When you get on the bus, you usually set off firecrackers at the crossroads. On the way, brothers can intercept floats and demand benefits from the bride and groom. This is the custom of robbing relatives in Dongguan.

In the whole wedding ceremony, robbing the bride is undoubtedly the most brilliant stroke. From "opening the door for profit" to "looking for red shoes", the man and the woman take the initiative to fight, which can be either "literary drama" or "coercion". "I remember a wedding many years ago. The man and the woman are both scholarly families, so the topic of robbing marriage invites the man to improvise couplets to discuss the background and significance of some poems, just like a literary society. "

Snatching marriage, also known as snatching relatives, snatching marriage and so on. It is a popular marriage custom in some areas and ethnic groups in the old society. For example, on the wedding day, the young man gathered his companions, held a knife, hid the copper coins in a bag, and went to the place where he had made an appointment with the bride in advance to hide them. After the bride appeared, "ambush" appeared everywhere and "robbed" the bride. The bride shouted "save", and her family and friends heard the sound of chasing her, accompanied by neighbors. Whoever robbed relatives threw away the copper coins, and the chasing party picked up the money and ran away. This example can give a glimpse of the general characteristics of marriage robbery, which is to add some interest to the wedding by creating a slapstick atmosphere. This is the origin of stealing marriage.

Second,

Dongguan locals also follow this custom. When the bride gets married, she must wear clogs to the man's house, worship the world, and then change shoes.

General wedding itinerary:

1. Eat jiaozi: Before getting married, the groom will eat jiaozi with his parents, brothers and girlfriends in the boudoir to show his farewell. Mother fed jiaozi to her daughter, and the bride cried.

2. lovable: after seeing the woman's family, the groom should hold a bouquet in the room for the bride to be married. At this time, the bride's girlfriend should deliberately stop the groom, but

It is a condition for the groom to agree, usually a red envelope gift.

3. Farewell: The bride has to say goodbye to her parents, and the groom only needs to bow and salute.

4. Going out: The bride should be escorted to the limousine by a female elder with a bamboo plaque or a black umbrella, because the bride can't see the sun overhead. In addition,

Fang hopes to live a happy life like this female elder. (Note: Prepare a bamboo plaque and paste a happy word on it)

5. Gift car: Bamboo plaque can be placed on the back cover of the gift car.

6. Worship fans: Before the bride gets on the limousine, an auspicious little boy holds a fan (put it on a tea tray) for the bride, and the bride returns a red envelope to show her gratitude. (Note:

Prepare a fan and bring two small red envelopes)

7. Never say goodbye: Never say goodbye to a woman's family when everyone leaves her home.

8. Throw a fan: After the car starts, the bride should throw the fan out of the window to show that she will not bring her bad temper to her husband's family. The little boy will pick up a fan for the woman.

The Fang family and the woman's family returned red envelopes to thank them.

9. Firecrackers: The limousine leaves the woman's house to set off firecrackers.

10. Touch oranges: A limousine will be delivered to the man's house, and a child with two oranges will welcome the couple. The bride will gently touch the oranges and give them red.

Thank you.

1 1. Guide the bride: When the bride gets off the bus, a lucky elder of the man will hold a bamboo plaque on her head and help her into the hall.

12. Avoid stepping on the threshold, but cross it.

13. Step on the tile across the brazier: After the bride enters the hall, she should step on the tile across the brazier.

14. Entering the bridal chamber: The newlyweds took the groom's trousers in advance and sat on the bench together, saying that they both wanted to have a boy in the future. Men are not allowed.

People enter the bridal chamber. (Choose the time to enter the bridal chamber)

15. Don't bring a new bed: on the wedding day, no one can bring a new bed, and the bride can't lie down, so as not to be sick in bed all the year round. In addition, Ann

After bed to the eve of the wedding, you should find an underage boy to sleep in bed with the groom.

16. set off firecrackers and go to the wedding reception: the limousine leaves the bridal chamber and sets off firecrackers.

17. Enter the hotel lounge (honeymoon suite) and friends come to see the bride.

The wedding has begun (playing music)

The guests are seated.

The host is seated.

Introduce people to their seats.

The witness is seated.

Male and female guests attract the bride and groom to enter the venue slowly (playing music). The entrance to the main table needs a red carpet, and four flower girl need to drag their wedding dresses to create.

Atmosphere. Specially-assigned person scatters stamens, salutes the couple, and projects and casts carbon monoxide clouds at the same time.

The witness read the marriage certificate.

The bride and groom exchange ornaments and the groom kisses the bride.

Witness's speech

Introducer's speech

Congratulatory message from guests

Congratulation of the officiating person

The bride and groom thanked each other and bowed to the guests.

Champagne is opened, the couple cuts the cake, and everyone drinks a glass. Let's raise our glasses!

19. The bride changes clothes 20. Here's to all the tables

2 1. seeing them off: After the wedding reception, the newlyweds will stand at the door to see them off. They must carry tea trays full of cigarettes and sweets.

22. Making trouble in the bridal chamber: Friends and relatives accompanying the couple to make trouble in the bridal chamber will make the couple unforgettable.

Difficulties in picking up the bride:

It's as simple as picking up a bride. In addition to asking for a red envelope, the groom should bravely face the test of his sisters and prove that he is an eagle-eyed wife and bride. Groom, come on!

Love me, love my dog. Difficulty coefficient: ★★★ Danger degree: ★

If I love you, I will naturally love everything about you, including all your relatives and friends. Show the groom the photos of the bride and her relatives and see if he can recognize them. How many relatives!

Don't forget the difficulty coefficient: ★★★★ Danger degree: ★★★

Brother groom, you must give the bride full marks. Pour a can of 355ml coke into a cup that can only hold 400ml water, then let the groom take the cup, run the stairs from the bride's family to the downstairs, and then run back to the door, asking him to have at least 350ml coke in the cup. Guess how much coke he has left?

Difficulty coefficient: ★★★★★★ Danger degree: ★

Do you and your partner have a romantic relationship? No one can know. But for the sake of your beloved, the groom will do it himself, even if he inserts the thread into the pinhole of nine needles on styrofoam in three minutes at one go, he will be willing to help you.

Heartbeat recall difficulty coefficient: ★★★★★ Danger degree: ★★★★ (probably decided after autumn)

He can remember all the important anniversaries of you and him, such as the first meeting, the first kiss, the date of marriage proposal …? Use this day to test his memory.

Difficulty coefficient: ★★★★★ Danger degree: ★★★

I wonder how knowledgeable the groom is. Write an article full of difficult words, and then he did it? Read it out, which is in line with Love in a Fallen City.

Difficulty coefficient: ★★★★★★ Danger degree: ★★★★★

Life is a dish, bittersweet and salty. I believe that on this special day, the brave groom can drink five special drinks, namely lemon, honey, Chili oil, Huang Lian slices and refined salt.

Difficulty coefficient: ★★★★★★ Danger degree: ★

The groom is less than 30 years old. Why does he have white hair? It must have something to do with the IQ question raised by his sister.

Ideal object difficulty coefficient: ★★★★ Danger degree: ★★★

You are naturally beautiful, and of course you are the ideal person for the groom. Is there anyone else? According to the outline of your face, eyes, ears, mouth and nose, cut out the photos of you and your sisters and let the groom spell out your appearance.

Heart-to-heart difficulty coefficient: ★★★★★ Danger degree: ★★★

Sisters and brides print lipstick on paper so that the groom can find the bride's lip prints.

Difficulty coefficient: ★★ Danger degree: ★

In the building where the bride lives, there are nine painted heart-shaped patterns everywhere, the first one is posted in front of the bride's house, and the last one is posted in the bride's house. The groom must find eight hearts as soon as possible to win the bride's heart at home.

Create a new house type 28:

China has the custom of getting married. As the saying goes, "If you don't make trouble, it will make it worse." . Breaking up the new house can not only add to the festive atmosphere of the wedding, but also express sincere wishes to the new couple: I wish the bride and groom good luck and prosperity after marriage. Moreover, not only the newlyweds are happy, but also the relatives and friends who make trouble in the bridal chamber are happy to take the opportunity to make trouble, using all kinds of novel tricks to make the bride and groom "sit still and worry all over the city." However, there are also many people who want to have fun on their friends' wedding night, but suffer from the lack of fun and decent bridal chamber games. The following are the latest 28 styles of new houses we have collected all over the country. Everyone can find a trick that suits them very well and bring friends an unforgettable wedding night. Then let the bride and groom take over!

The first trick: On Kibo's wedding day, the bride is wearing thin clothes and making trouble in the bridal chamber. The guests can try their best to make the newlyweds play a boxing match with each other. If they lose a punch, they will lose their clothes or jewels until they can't do it anymore.

The second trick: high-heeled glasses encourage the bride to let the groom try to let him use high heels and drink three cups in a row to show his love for her.

The third measure: The Round Table Warrior lets the bride and groom sit on a table with stools and drink concentric wine.

The fourth measure: the apple of love, in order to show lasting love, requires the bride to peel the apple and feed it to the groom, but the apple peel is not allowed to be peeled off. If it is broken, the bride will be punished for kissing the groom for ten minutes.

The fifth trick: I want you to look good and let the groom guess what color the underwear of the bride's wedding night is. Right, the bride presents a treasure, as long as she shows a little, it means she is right. Wrong guess, let the groom run three times in the bridal chamber in his underwear (also naked).

The sixth trick: the passionate ice cube asks the groom to pick up the bride first. Then, two or three friends will pour the prepared ice cubes into the groom's arms, and then everyone will hug the couple together, so that the bride and groom can get enough cold and jump up and down to avoid being too enthusiastic when they have sex.

The seventh trick: ambush on all sides, try to sneak into the bridal chamber in advance, hide in an imperceptible corner or wardrobe, then turn the pre-recorded alarm whistle to the maximum and let it out at the right time to surprise the couple, while the hidden piles hiding everywhere make trouble in the bridal chamber for a while, and then wish the couple an "early birth".

The eighth trick: Love Balloons Put some balloons under the sheets so that the bride and groom can lie down together to show their loyalty and go to disaster together.

The ninth trick: the chocolate cheongsam is put into the bride's cheongsam by the female VIP. "Of course the bride is sitting", and then ask the groom to take all the chocolates, and no one is allowed. Otherwise, the groom needs to retrieve them one by one with his mouth.

The tenth trick: Crispy chocolate is squeezed out of the bride's chest by a female friend with chocolate juice, and then the groom licks it in public to show mutual affinity.

Eleventh measure: lock the bridal chamber. Lock the cave door in advance, hide the key somewhere or on a good friend, and then let the groom find it. Every time he can't find it, the bride wants her guests to kiss him once until he finds it.

Twelfth trick: the wrong love crystal deliberately put the borrowed baby on the bed, causing a short misunderstanding.

The thirteenth trick: the replay of courtship requires couples to perform the most authentic original scene when proposing in public.

Fourteenth trick: warn the runaway wife to hide the bride somewhere, and then the groom will look for it again until he finds it before being sent to the bridal chamber.

Fifteenth measure: the old love is endless, and the new love should disclose the number, appearance and history of the past male and female friends, otherwise they are not allowed to share the same bed.

Sixteenth trick: birthdates Let the groom guess the correct date of birth of the bride in the lunar calendar. If the answer is wrong, he will let the bride ride.

The seventeenth trick: speechless, buy "Seeing Jokes" published by Horn Press, and test new people with innovative riddles. If you can't answer, each male guest will kiss the bride for one minute.

The eighteenth trick: compare the game of "gestures" to test the tacit understanding between the two sides. The more embarrassing the question, the better. Like are you still virgins? Her measurements? Do you love me? I wear red today, go to bed at 20 o'clock, you are beautiful today and so on.

The nineteenth trick: the mole of love. It is said that the bride has a mole three centimeters above her navel. I wonder if it's true. Can you ask the groom to unveil the mystery for the bride?

The twentieth trick: yesterday, the new couple was asked to repeat the dating scene in front of everyone, including affectionate, cuddling, holding hands and other actions until the guests were satisfied.

The twenty-first trick: the seven-step poem takes the head-to-toe and various organs of the body as the topic, and the two take turns to form poems or words, such as chest: there is an answer; The examiner is a guest. If the guest is not satisfied with the answer, you can ask the other person to kiss the part!

Twenty-second trick: peppers released in advance are mixed with fireworks. When the bride and groom entered the bridal chamber, the gunshots were loud and the consequences were cleaned up.

Twenty-third trick: The new measure requires the groom to encircle the bride's figure with his hands, and only when it is not bad can he pass the customs. Anyone who makes a mistake will be punished for holding the bride in front of him and walking three times in the bridal chamber.

Twenty-fourth trick: spring mud flower protection In order to show the groom's love for the bride, the groom is required to wrap them in big scarves in public and put on simple household clothes for the bride. If you dress abnormally, the groom will be fined three drinks.

Twenty-fifth trick: the groom should give the bride wedding candy (soft candy) in his mouth, and eat 30 tablets a day. Of course, the groom can help the bride eat. If the groom doesn't eat, other men can take his place!

Twenty-sixth trick: Three-inch golden lotus lets the groom guess how long the bride's feet are. If he guessed wrong, he asked the groom to put on the bride's high heels and walk three times in the bridal chamber.

Twenty-seventh trick: there is love in spring. In order to show that the groom is powerful, he can manage the family in the future. Therefore, the groom is required to carry the bride into the bridal chamber and walk five times on the spring bed. Brides are not allowed to fall. If the groom is weak, another man can take his place.

Step 28: Prepare some cheerful love songs after the love songs. Guests will take the lead in singing, and then the groom or bride will relay. Where the singing is wrong or can't be sung, the bride will punish the male guests for kissing and the groom for three glasses of wine.