Does the fortune teller tell the baby's fortune _ Does the fortune teller tell the baby's fortune?

Have you ever calculated your child's life and then verified it? Ma Bao: Just listen, don't take it seriously.

Guide: Have you calculated your child's life and then verified it? Ma Bao: Just listen, don't take it seriously.

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Almost everyone used to find someone to make a fortune.

Date of birth, name, school, college entrance examination, etc. The baby's weight should be counted;

Someone at home has gone out, so you must find out which day is more auspicious.

Building a house, moving, holding a wedding and holding a funeral are all included.

Why count? It is mainly the uncertainty about the future, which will make people panic. The fortune teller's words are reassuring, and people feel that they have a future development direction and their hearts are more practical.

Not long ago, a topic appeared on the Internet: "What was the fortune teller's past life like?"

In the netizen's answer, it is not difficult to see that parents still say a lot to their children:

A netizen said that they said I was a fairy tale from a previous life, and I was also a fairy tale.

As a result, 10000 netizens liked this netizen's information, and 10000 fairies came to an end.

But there are other options. A netizen said that it is said that he was a pig in his last life and this pig was reincarnated.

This netizen's information has also been praised thousands of times. It's a reincarnation of several pigs.

It sounds crazy, but some people still think it's true:

A netizen said that he made a fortune when he was a child and was called lazy. He has been lazy all his life, but his life is good. He can't do great things or make big mistakes.

The netizen thought about his current situation and immediately felt: this is too accurate, he is such a person!

Some people are incorrect:

Some netizens said that a fortune teller told me when I was a child: I got married at the age of 20 and was born at the age of 25. This relationship is harmonious, but I have a doctorate. I'm 35 years old and I don't have a boyfriend! Is this "the fate of knowledge change"?

I think the fortune teller told the child very accurately, which is nothing more than the following two items:

(1) Criticism is vague.

In fact, in most cases, the so-called fortune telling is based on the current situation of most people, saying some ambiguous words, which at first glance makes people feel "accurate", but on second thought, they think, "Who can't wear this?"

Especially now, this scanning method is to input some information about yourself, and then do a lot of analysis on yourself, such as "capable, but not self-motivated", "lively and cheerful on the surface, but very lonely inside" and "it seems that you can play with anyone, but no one really knows yourself" ...

In fact, the answer before you is to write fuzzy data into the back-end database and then send it to you randomly.

Books like The Answer to Life were particularly popular in the past.

(2) affecting major decisions

Just like a friend who didn't do well in the college entrance examination, his parents also tried: this is the best.

So my friend gave up the exam again, but later regretted it countless times. Instead, he responded to the fortune teller's words: "I didn't have a smooth life in the first half of my life."

Many parents like counting their children.

A relative went to make a fortune for the newborn baby. The fortune teller said that children will be naughty and prone to crime in the future. As a result, relatives treat their children as "prisoners" and beat and scold them at every move.

As a result, it is really difficult for children to discipline when they grow up. After entering junior high school, he was discouraged from fighting with others.

But in fact, the fortune teller's conclusion is this truth. Listening to parents and educating children is the truth. They will get the result, and their children are difficult to discipline and fight.

In fact, it is not what people say is correct, accurate and incorrect, but what you really want in your heart.

When educating children, it is best to let them master their own destiny instead of "handing over" their future destiny.

As mentioned above, fortune telling is only for peace of mind and peace of mind.

However, because we are used to discipline, being told how to go in the future, and even being told how to raise children, we "arrange" our children like this.

So our children have become like us, eager for others to tell them about their future life, future life, how to choose marriage and how to live a happy life.

But it is the child whose parents want to tell fortune, and the future of the child is in their own hands. Even if parents are only teachers, companions and suggestion boxes for children's growth, fortune tellers' words are "empty and arbitrary judgments".

Children's future can only be realized by hard work and diligence. No matter how brilliant or mediocre life is, it is the child's own decision and judgment. Such a life is a life worth living.

Therefore, in the process of raising a baby, the most important thing for parents is not to tell their children how to grow up, how to live and how to learn, but to change some attachment concepts of their children and make them more independent. Grow into a more confident person.