Do you take care of yourself or do your parents help you after the baby is born?

Do you take care of your child after birth or do your parents help you? I think it should be decided according to the actual situation at home. If you have time, of course, you should bring it yourself. After all, the companionship of parents is the greatest happiness of children's childhood. If you don't have time to bring it yourself, you'll have to ask your parents for help. That's all right. Parents are experienced with their children. But in any case, you just can't show that you have time, or you have to leave your children with your parents, then this is not a competent parent.

Let's look at the difference between parents' belt and their own belt.

Bring your own

Personally, I also tend to take care of children by myself, because it is good for the growth of children, especially for their personality. The child's character is cultivated from an early age and will play an auxiliary role in all aspects in the future.

The eldest daughter was brought up by her grandparents when she was a child, and she had a bad temper. She cries when she is slightly unhappy, and then she has to make her happy. I still had this strange temper until I was a teenager, so that I, a mother, could not scold her casually. I brought my second daughter by myself. She has a good temper and is easy to accept my advice. Even if I hit her, she can stop crying soon.

Everyone with children is lively and cheerful, and there will be no ideas when playing with classmates. Children's generous and cheerful personality is easily accepted by classmates and praised by adults.

Parents band

Old people take care of their children for fear that they will be hungry, so they are willing to meet any requirements of their children. Children like to eat snacks, and old people don't look at time or health; What toys children want, the elderly will basically buy them; If the children don't eat, the old man will chase them. When a child loses his temper, the old man will coax him and even give him whatever he wants.

Therefore, the children brought out by the old people are eccentric, which will have a certain impact on their future growth. The most important thing is that the children brought out by the elderly will find it difficult to correct their mistakes after their parents accept them.

Of course, not all old people take care of their children like this. Mothers should choose according to the actual situation.