What if I have a bad relationship with my husband's family?

Mainly depends on your relationship with your wife! If you and your wife discuss everything with each other, and you respect her opinion, you should tell your wife your difficulties and put her in the other's shoes. If your family is willing, if she is willing, so are you. If your wife is reasonable or considerate of you, she will naturally help you, try to go back to your parents' house as little as possible, and just have a look during the Chinese New Year holiday. If your wife listens to her mother, it depends on how much you value your wife. Living is between you two. If you are rich, there is nothing to help. It can also be said that buying a house is an IOU. Now your brothers know the accounts. If you can only live alone, is your wife hungry for her children, herself and her husband? Anyway, it depends on your attitude towards your wife and your relationship.