Master Xing Yun: Blessed people often have these three kinds of free and easy mentality.

In life, whether a person pursues material enjoyment, fame and fortune, family happiness and spiritual satisfaction, he is actually seeking happiness.

This has also led many people to sigh that their lives have not been blessed when they lose something in misfortune, and then sigh and become depressed. People with this kind of thinking often fall into a misunderstanding about happiness.

Master Xingyun, a famous Buddhist communicator, once had such an opinion on blessing: "People who are impetuous and cheeky can accomplish nothing;" If you are peaceful, you will be blessed. "

The blessings in life do not fall from the sky, but come from one's own actions. Blessed people usually have three signs. See if you have it.

Master Xingyun said: "People can't feel at ease because they refuse to test their hearts."

A disciple once asked the Buddha if he could express his teaching method in one sentence. The Buddha's answer is: "Nothing can be persistent."

But many people in life are always obsessed with fame and fortune, with emotions, and with all kinds of things that can't be obtained. Because I have a strong possessive desire for everything in my life, I have a mentality of suffering from loss.

When you can't get what you want, you are miserable. When you have it, you are afraid of losing it. You are suspicious. When you lose it, you can't open it or put it down.

A person always lives in his own obsession, immersed in the misfortune of the past, and in the long run, he will have fear of the future, and naturally there will be no good in life.

In this regard, Master Xingyun reminded people: "If you look at your heart, you will find that letting go of your persistent heart and cherishing the present is the real liberation."

Everything is impermanent, everything is constantly changing, the body is changing, the feeling will change, and the mood will change. Nothing is eternal, so is beauty, and so is pain.

If a person can accept impermanence and cherish the present, he can keep an open mind to the changes in the world. Can face the pain and surprise in life, can find every beautiful moment in life, can feel happiness and happiness.

Therefore, no matter how busy you are in life, you should take some time to check your heart. Let him go because of the past, and let him go because of those who should, and let go of unnecessary burdens.

Stay the same, don't be surprised, cherish the people in front of you and grasp the things in front of you, so as to seize the opportunity of life and get the blessing of life.

Master Xing Yun said: "People who walk in the world will certainly endure a lot of ridicule and slander. In this case, we must learn from embarrassment. "

In order to make everyone understand this sentence better, Master Xingyun told such a story:

A young man consulted Historical Records and said, "Master, I never make trouble, but there are always people who ridicule and slander me, which makes my heart very painful and should be so relieved."

Shi Ji asked the young monk to get a wooden bucket and a ladle, handed the leaves to the young man and said, "Don't make trouble, benefactor, just like this clean leaf in my hand." Said and threw the leaves into the bucket.

Then he bent down to scoop water from the stream into the bucket and said, "This is a slanderous benefactor, trying to sink you." As the water in the bucket gets deeper and deeper, the leaves are still easy to float on the water.

Shi Ji pointed to Net Leaf and said, "Slander can't sink Net Leaf. Gossip did not sink it to the bottom of the water, but gradually floated up and stepped away from the bottom of the water. "

People's words are awesome, and ridicule is something that everyone will experience, and it is also an insurmountable hurdle in life.

Many people, like this young man, will become very painful in the face of ridicule, so they have no strength or mood to do other things.

As the old saying goes, "rumors stop with wise men." Most people who listen to rumors are ignorant and have no independent thinking ability.

A wise man will never make random rumors, and of course he will not easily listen to rumors and be at his mercy. Because the Qing people are self-cleaning, as long as they have a clear conscience, they can be like this clean leaf and not be sunk.

Therefore, life should not be disturbed by slander, but should laugh it off and focus on improving one's self-cultivation and ability. Only by doing what you should do with undivided attention can we get along with the world better, grow constantly, and slowly reap the blessings.

Master Xing Yun said: "Suffering is the reality of the world. Everyone must learn to regard suffering as strength and suffering as the driving force of struggle. "

Nine times out of ten, people who are unhappy in life, suffering is everyone's situation, and no one can escape. Study is hard, work is hard, and exercise is hard.

If a person is timid because of a little suffering, life is doomed to be full of misfortune and it is difficult to achieve anything.

I have heard such a story:

A rich man met a thief at home and lost a lot of gold, silver and jewels. His friend advised him not to be sad. But he smiled and said, why should I be sad? I am very happy. I'm glad that the thief only stole something outside my body and didn't take my life away.

This kind of person is someone who knows how to take pleasure in suffering. They are open-minded and tolerant, and will not worry about a little material gain or loss, so they often feel happy and laugh a lot in life.

The so-called happiness, in fact, there is no absolute definition, just inner feelings. Therefore, whether you are happy or not depends not on how much you have gained, but on what you think in your heart.

If a person is afraid when he encounters a little setback, he will be troubled. Can his life be happy? On the contrary, if a person can be open-minded, look down on the troubles in life and always feel satisfied, then life is naturally full of joy.

Therefore, happiness comes not from material things, but from one's own heart. I am not afraid of all kinds of hardships, and I can live a sweet and happy life in bitter days.

There is an old saying: "There is no door to happiness or misfortune, and people call it themselves." Whether a person is happy or not depends on his words and deeds, so there are signs from his words and deeds that life is rewarded.

Only those who can be content with the status quo, not afraid of ridicule and all kinds of hardships can face the misfortunes of life calmly and have fun in suffering. Do what you should do, don't be distracted, so that you can grow naturally and make your life chic and blessed.

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