Couples can't meet the day before marriage?

In the traditional wedding customs in ancient China, there is a superstition that the groom meets the bride before the wedding ceremony, which can be traced back to the arranged marriage period of parents' orders and matchmakers' words. Weddings in that period were more related to political and economic factors. Newcomers' weddings are more often to achieve a certain purpose of their parents' generation. In this case, marriage leads to bad feelings between husband and wife.

There is also a saying that the groom can't meet the bride before the wedding, because both parents don't want the newlyweds to be dissatisfied with each other's appearance after meeting before the wedding, which will cause trouble and embarrassment to both sides.

Some people follow this tradition in modern times, but there is another explanation, that is, out of respect for traditional wedding customs.

In fact, due to the busy work of modern people, it is almost impossible for unmarried men and women not to meet for a few days before marriage. Because the preparation before the wedding will make the couple doubly busy, because they have to prepare what they need for the wedding, discuss the wedding preparations, rehearse the wedding scene and so on. It is almost impossible not to meet for a few days before the wedding. Therefore, modern newcomers don't need to pay too much attention to this statement, which has no influence on their marriage.