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Newborns live in an incubator. Is it worthwhile to spend 6.5438+0.7 million yuan in exchange for a life?

My wife's amniotic fluid broke 35+5, and the doll was born prematurely. The doctor told me that the doll was premature and her lungs were stunted. I need an injection. I'll go downstairs and pay. The doctor told me that the doll's lungs were bleeding and she had to be intubated immediately. For the first time in my life, 120 actually belongs to my daughter. Looking at my daughter in the incubator, as a father, I really can't do anything. After the transfer, the doctor told me several times that the doll was in critical condition and needed various drugs and antibiotics. The doctor had to give blood to the doll. Although I don't understand it very well, the doctor needs my signature to give the doll medicine and blood transfusion, so I understand what harm these may do to her. Fortunately, after half a month, my daughter survived and spent more than 70 thousand. At the moment I left the hospital, I hugged her and felt that no matter how much it cost, it was worth it. Children's health is really more important than money. Money can be earned, and the doll has only one chance to be a doll, so no matter how much money, I will save her.

Newborns live in an incubator. Is it worthwhile to spend 6.5438+0.7 million yuan in exchange for a life?

This is true. Lazy mom knows a couple. Because both husband and wife had some problems, they got married and had a child about ten years later. In the early stage of pregnancy, they need an injection every half month, each injection 1500 yuan. Maybe 1500 yuan is not much for everyone, but it was equivalent to one month's salary at that time.

It never rains but it pours. The woman had a caesarean section at the 30th week of pregnancy due to pregnancy-induced hypertension. When the baby was born, it weighed two kilograms and was put into an incubator as soon as it came out of the operating room. The woman has other symptoms and can't breastfeed. Babies always drink premature milk powder, which is much more expensive than normal milk powder, and it is not a small expense.

In this small family, the hostess will spend a sum of money here, but the baby doesn't know yet, because the baby's lungs haven't developed well, and I don't know when to live in the incubator. Before pregnancy, my family was poor because I had been seeing a doctor. Now, in the face of such a huge medical bill, the man didn't even frown, but just carried it down.

Finally, the baby stayed in the hospital for more than a month and spent a total of more than 100 thousand. At that time, they were able to buy a good house locally, but they didn't hesitate, because in their view, children were more worth having.

It is really difficult for some families to choose between 1.7 million babies. I believe that no matter who they are, they will feel sorry for their children and are unwilling to face this situation, but the choice of others does not mean their own choice.

Specific analysis of the specific situation, everyone's ability is different, the choice will be different.

If I have to spend 300,000 yuan on a healthy child at a time, I will not hesitate. My son now spends nearly100000 in three weeks, and his growth is slow. Rehabilitation is a bottomless pit. The key is that the child has suffered. No matter what, I still haven't considered whether it is worth it. He is my child. He came to me. It is worthwhile for me to pay for him before he is eighteen. He's my baby! It's the meat that fell from me! I earned all the money I spent on him. My mother-in-law said that your child was born to collect debts and won't let you save a penny. I really don't like to hear it. I'm willing to earn it myself. As long as my children are safe and healthy, I am willing to let me throw money in the street!

Don't say it's worth it! ! It seems that you have never been a parent! ! A few years ago, my son was born and had some trouble! ! I entered the ICU as soon as I was born, and spent more than 20 thousand in less than 10 hour. At that time, my salary was still more than 2000! ! In addition, the doctor said that it is not clear whether the lack of oxygen at birth will affect the later stage! ! Besides, it's not over yet! The later cost may also be high! ! I thought about giving up at that time! ! Then I went back and told my family! ! My family woke me up with a word: I said that no matter how much money I spent, I would save a life! ! Since then, every time I go to see the children, I don't look at the cost! ! Until the child lived for more than a month, the discharge fee was more than 80,000! ! Give him everything in the future! ! I'm almost seven years old now! ! Good health! ! Now that I think about it, I regret having that idea! ! I gave up my son when I was wrong! ! So don't tell your child about money, just tell him about fortune telling! ! Now I play with my son like a friend! ! Now the second child is ready to come! !

I really don't understand the original intention of the landlord's question. It's life, not things. Of course it's life-saving!

A colleague in our unit gave birth to a little girl prematurely. It seems that she weighs only three kilograms and needs to live in an incubator for a month. At that time, her mouth was so small that she could not even eat a bottle. At that time, the doctor suggested giving up! Their economy is not rich, and all aspects of economic pressure are suddenly great and hesitant. Later, the little doll's aunt came and she put her hand in. The little girl doll clutched her aunt's finger tightly, and her aunt cried and scolded them: "This is life! How can you give up? ! "

Later, both of them tried their best. Without breast milk, they can't eat those high-grade milk powder and bottles, and they also feed their children tube by tube with needles.

Children are weak and sick from childhood, and they have to get sick several times a year. There is no need to elaborate on the difficulty of raising. Later, she grew into a big girl. The two sighed, but fortunately they didn't give up at that time. Otherwise, how insomnia you will have in your life!

Therefore, in the face of a life, of course, we must save it!

My grandson stayed in the incubator for a month, a total of 31 weeks. I went to Peking University People's Hospital many times because the incubator took oxygen. He is five years old and lives in an incubator for three thousand a day. When he went to Beijing, the climate was 10-20 thousand. When he was in Peking University People's Hospital, he saw that some children were treating one or two million families, and his father was afraid of losing both people and money. My husband insists on buying a house to ensure that children get medical treatment. Now there is nothing wrong with his children except sensory disturbance. I am doing sensory training for my children recently. It costs more than 1000 yuan at a time. As long as the children are healthy, money is earned by people. For the sake of children, I think money is not important. It's no use having money. Although I am not rich, my grandfather and I add up to 7,000 yuan a month, but I also save some myself, so I won't miss the opportunity to create health for my children. I'm not that serious about money.

My second child was an identical twin accidentally conceived one and a half years after the first cesarean section. When I was pregnant in May, I was diagnosed with the second stage of twin blood transfusion. I immediately went to Hong Kong for an operation and spent tens of thousands of dollars to save both my babies. When I was pregnant for 6 months 10 days, I went home to play with my eldest daughter, and my contractions were frequent, which led to premature delivery (so far I feel guilty). My two babies were just over a kilo when they were born. My brother was hospitalized for more than 80 days. My brother was hospitalized for 90 days because of incomplete catheter, flatulence and slow weight gain. After going home to breastfeed, I recovered quickly. Now, both brothers have raised more than ten kilograms of fat boys, and their intellectual response is normal. It is best to lie in the incubator for a long time to do sports rehabilitation. Although the two hospitalized children paid 200,000 yuan at their own expense after going to medical insurance, it costs nearly 5,000 to 6,000 yuan a month to eat hydrolyzed milk powder in addition to breast milk. Plus Dabao's tuition, there is an aunt's expense at home, which is more than 10 thousand a month. It's really hard for her father to work alone to support his family, but at least we have tried our best. Before the two babies were born, the doctor in the pediatric intensive care unit asked me if I needed insurance. I was insured without hesitation, thinking that I would do my best. The doctor didn't say it was hopeless, but I still wanted to save it. The two babies were unlucky from pregnancy to birth, but they were both lucky. Finally, they were blessed, healthy and safe! ! ! May the strong premature baby have a bright future!

The child's life is more important to me than anything else. I have a hard time getting pregnant. The first abortion stopped, and anticardiolipin syndrome was detected for the second time. I have been protecting the fetus since I was pregnant. Four injections of heparin alone cost more than 200 pieces and 6000 pieces of globulin every day. I used it without hesitation. I'm only five months pregnant now, and I've spent100000, but my family didn't hesitate and thought it was worth it. Don't say170,000, even if it is 270,000 or 370,000, I will protect my children. Besides, when you live in the hospital, you will know how difficult it is to have a baby now. Some people have been biochemical after five or six test tubes, and some people have been pregnant for five times and terminated their pregnancy every time. They can't stay if they want, and their tears have dried up. For us mothers, it is simply unreasonable to ask if we want to spend 170000 to have a baby. Isn't your child worth the money? I haven't got a high salary for a year. Even if you work in a factory, you can save hundreds of thousands at most in three years. Unless you are crazy, you choose to give up your child.

People who say it's not worth it must have no children of their own. When there is a little life for you, you will feel that everything in the world is for this little guy.

It took me 10 years to have a son with my husband. I didn't feel like a mother at all before I had children. I should go with the flow and always worry that having children will affect the quality of life. I know that when I am pregnant, I don't play KTV, eat or drink. I will never eat outside, drink boiled water or drink, let alone go out to play at night. The feeling of being a mother came at once. . Especially after my son was born, I once thought this little thing was mine. Except my husband and I, my mother-in-law is jealous of her baby, and I think the baby will be taken away. . It's much better now. It's a good thing to feel that the baby is loved and cared for by many people!

Therefore, it is impossible to exchange money for a child's life. When you really have children, it's all worth it.

This has something to do with the current medical system. I've experienced it myself. If the family conditions are poor, the fourth-grade children don't know where they are now. In 2009, a child was born prematurely in Longgang, Shenzhen, and no one in the family was in Shenzhen. The hospital said that this premature baby would have brain problems. We are also afraid of this matter, and we all promised not to have surgery this afternoon. My wife has been crying since she found out. A friend who works in the government called and waited for him to come. When she came, she called the hospital director. The hospital director's speech is not as scary as before, and it is basically about the later expenses. The chief doctor's original words are that I am also a premature baby, and there are many premature babies, that is, in the late stage. My wife has no insurance, which means she paid for it herself, but she has no money. After all, it's seven months, and the family says she needs it as long as the doctor says so. Then he was transferred to children's hospital, weighing 3.9 kg at birth, and then he swiped his card for five or six thousand every two or three days, fearing that the money was not enough. Later, she was discharged from the hospital, and the hospital returned more than 10 thousand cash. Actually, I only used more than 40 thousand. Because the medicine used is less than drinking water.