The most unreliable thing is family.

Marriage is a major event in life, and one of the most difficult problems in marriage is the relationship with family. Many people will encounter contradictions with their parents after marriage, and these contradictions often affect the feelings between husband and wife. How to deal with the relationship between husband and wife and their mother's family is a problem that everyone needs to face.

First, there should be adequate communication before marriage.

Marriage is a matter for two people, but in the traditional culture of China, marriage is the marriage of two families. Therefore, before marriage, both husband and wife should fully understand each other's family background, family values, living habits and so on. At the same time, we should also understand the expectations and attitudes of the other family members towards marriage. Only through full communication can we avoid conflicts due to family background and other issues after marriage.

Second, we should remain independent after marriage.

After marriage, both husband and wife should remain independent and don't rely too much on their parents. If there is a contradiction between husband and wife, they should first solve it through their own efforts, rather than relying too much on their parents and families. At the same time, it is also necessary to avoid the interference of husband and wife's family in husband and wife's life. Only by maintaining independence can we establish a healthy relationship between husband and wife.

Third, arrange your own time reasonably after marriage.

After marriage, both husband and wife should arrange their time reasonably and spend as much time as possible together. At the same time, we should also arrange the time with our parents reasonably to avoid excessive dependence on our parents. Only by arranging time reasonably can a healthy relationship between husband and wife be established.

Fourth, a good communication mechanism should be established after marriage.

After marriage, couples should establish a good communication mechanism to avoid conflicts as much as possible. At the same time, we should avoid expanding contradictions and try to solve problems through communication. Only by establishing a good communication mechanism can a healthy relationship between husband and wife be established.

5. Respect your family after marriage.

After marriage, both husband and wife should respect their parents' family and try to avoid conflicts with their parents. At the same time, we should also respect parents' opinions and suggestions and avoid relying too much on parents. Only by respecting the mother's family can a healthy relationship be established.

Conclusion of intransitive verbs

Marriage is a major event in life, and one of the most difficult problems in marriage is the relationship with family. How to deal with the relationship between husband and wife and their mother's family is a problem that everyone needs to face. Through the above suggestions, we can help couples to establish a healthy relationship and avoid conflicts caused by parents' family problems. The most unreliable thing is the maiden's family, but as long as husband and wife understand each other and support each other, they can establish a healthy relationship.