I am from the northeast and married to the south. My husband's family is very poor He is old 7, and I can't get along with his father.

It's simple. Talk to your husband calmly. His parents are parents and yours are parents. The palms of your hands and the backs of your hands are full of meat and should not be shared with each other. Maybe your husband is a little careless, but I didn't think of this truth. Talk to him, see what he really thinks, and then make a decision and plan. If he is really selfish enough to only care about his parents, then you should think about it.