"Promising children are far away from their parents, and their parents are quite lonely." what do you think?

An elderly psychology teacher said: The safest time for parents is when we are in the womb, because we are here! And when we were born, our parents' worries began. Worried about bumping into, worrying about being hungry and freezing, especially when we go to study and work in other places, our parents' concern will be stronger.

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Parents' life is to feed, cultivate and take care of their children.

I didn't understand it before. Many years later, when people reach middle age and their hair is gray, it is also the time when my children are going to study in a distant place, and they suddenly feel a lot of heartache.

Every weekend, children come home and always see them. Accustomed to secretly care about her pressure, grades, mood, as well as her preferences, her growth. But in the face of the distance learning that will bring you unconsciously, I suddenly feel a lot of disappointment ......

Looking back, when we left our parents, weren't they the same? China's parents are used to putting their children first economically and their elders first ideologically. In other words, I like to humble myself, satisfy my children and wish them success. I don't want my children to suffer ... Let's just say that China's parents come first, regardless of their growth.

I have been away from home for 26 years since I went to college in other places. These 26 years have been our growth and progress, and also 26 years since I left my parents' sight, so my parents have been concerned for 26 years. I really don't know how to repay this heavy love. After all, people in other places can't go home often.

Can we be rewarded for honesty and integrity? Can we try to get good grades?

Both can be done, but no matter how well we live, no matter how great our achievements are, our parents care about us a lot and never stop! Come to think of it carefully, it has always been like this since childhood. ...

There are many children in my family, so the financial burden on my parents is naturally heavy. Therefore, in the earliest memory, my parents worked hard, did business in the wind and rain, were tired, and even quarreled. But in any case, three meals a day will always satisfy our growth. No matter how difficult it is at home, everyone always wears new clothes every Spring Festival. ......

I still remember coming home from school in winter, and my mother was waiting for us at the entrance of the village in thick cotton-padded clothes. ......

I still remember that it snowed heavily in the middle of the night. We got up normally and went to school by bike. I found a path extending from the door to the road in the distance. It turns out that my dad got up at five o'clock in the morning and asked his neighbors to sweep the snow. ......

I still remember when I was in college, my father called me and said that my mother was worried that I was cold and sent me more 10 yuan to buy autumn clothes and trousers. ...

I still remember a few times when my mother dreamed and called me the next day to ask me what was wrong. ...

I still remember countless phone calls telling me to drink less, stay up late less, pay attention to my health and drive safely. ......

I still remember calling to remind me to study hard, think more about others, put myself in the other's shoes, don't do to others what you don't want me to do to you, and go to work when you have difficulties, so that I can have honor.

More times, you get used to it. Parents' concern has become the most common part of our life, that is, we eat and drink water, more like we breathe. Parents' care and love are air, which is used to it, everywhere, seemingly dispensable, but never stops accompanying us to grow up. Parents' love has unconsciously penetrated into our bones, and we have become more and more like parents, giving love to our children. ......

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How many years have we left our parents' sight, how many years have our parents cared, and how many years have our parents been lonely? ......

After graduating from college, I worked hard for many years and grew up quickly, bringing some comfort and glory to my parents. One day, I went back to my hometown to see my parents and accidentally caught a glimpse of my mother and her gray hair. I was shocked: I didn't pay attention to my parents for many years, and my parents were not in my sight for many years. They are no longer the health I remember, their hair is getting grayer and grayer, and the wrinkles on their faces are getting deeper and deeper ... They have worked hard for the whole family all their lives, but their parents are as old as their uncle next door.

What makes me feel guilty is that I have been busy with my work for so many years and neglected my parents. I think my parents are getting older and weaker. I have never cared about them as much as my parents care about us.

When our eyes are wider and wider, our feet are farther and farther, our parents are weaker and weaker, and we are more and more lonely to return to our old house where we grew up and our home. Their world is getting smaller and smaller, so small that there is nothing but children. They just want their children to be safe, happy and healthy.

My old house is shabby and old. I could have sold it, but my parents have been trying to repair it. Once I asked my parents, I realized that our childhood memories were all because of the existence of the old house, so we couldn't buy them, so we had to leave them to ourselves.

I only care about their money and material things, but I never care about their feelings? What do they need? What can we do?

The old house is materially worthless, but it is extremely valuable, because our parents and memories are our home!

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Parents who have devoted their lives to their children are old. How can we repay them?

Looking back, because we have been far away from our parents' world (vision) for a long time ... and farther and farther, we pay more and more attention to our own world and get used to life without their nagging until we get used to it and forget it. Parents are also used to living without us, but they care more and more about their children. Although we are not young, we are still the only one in their parents' hearts! Or their children, or the most important thing in their hearts. This concern begins when we are born and ends when we are old. ...

Parents are always worried about their children ..... but as they get older, their children get farther and farther away. As far away as January, they can only make phone calls once or twice a year, which is too far to contact and express their concern for their children. This distance is not thousands of kilometers, nor is it the distance between the rich and the poor. It is that weaker and weaker parents can't express themselves, can't touch their children's world and can't communicate by phone as before. ...

Our eyes are getting more and more, but our parents' position in our hearts is getting less and less, and our parents' eyes are getting blurred, but we will always be the only one in our hearts.

I've been worried for days. What do parents need besides money and gifts?

Is this our company? Parents know that their children have their own careers and families outside, and they understand that we can't always be with them.

Is it our substance? Parents are simple all their lives and don't need too much material.

What do elderly parents need us to do? Not money, not children's knees every day.

In fact, what parents need is information about our safety and happiness, that is, we are in their sight, in their world (vision) ... In this way, parents are safe because they know our safety, not lonely because they know our information, and full of hope, positive optimism and openness because we have a bright future. ......

Therefore, in our lifetime, we should go home more, talk to our parents more, spend more time with our parents, and bring more beautiful and positive information to our parents, so that they can not only know and be familiar with our past, but also have our present and a bright future. ......