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How to deal with the disagreement between father and son, how to get along with father and son.

First, mother, rubbing the tension between father and son means that you need your mother to be around and coordinate, otherwise it will only make the relationship between the two sides worse and worse. After all, father and son are relatives, even if the relationship is poor, sometimes they still have to communicate. Then, mother, in a direct way, can play the role of bridge. Besides, a mother can call her son home from time to time, or at least see him more. Generally speaking, the relationship between the two sides is poor. In the hearts of both sides, we must remember that at most, it is the bad place of the other side or the place that makes us angry. So, at the right time, if you can tell them each other's good, let them know each other's good. It can also ease the relationship appropriately. Third, untie the knot. If something happens and both sides have a knot and are unwilling to make up, then the most important solution is to untie the knot, or stop obsessing about it. Then the relationship between the two sides will naturally ease. If necessary, a third party will have to come forward to alleviate it. Fourth, put yourself in the other's shoes. In fact, many times there are quarrels between the two sides just because they disagree. Or the father doesn't allow it, or doesn't agree with his son's practice, then what is needed at this time is to be able to put yourself in the other person's shoes and understand the other person's thoughts. In this case, there will be no quarrel, and the parties have not considered each other's ideas and the people standing on the side. You can also use this to show off that both sides respect each other. Generally speaking, the father is an elder. As a son, you should respect and obey your father. Many families must think so. If you think that your father's words, your son must obey and not disobey. But in fact, your father should also respect his son, understand his thoughts, respect and practice, instead of blindly letting the other side obey you, which will be disobeyed by his son sooner or later. Aunt came to her son to understand the truth, but if we can change the way of education, the right thing should encourage the wrong thing, punish it or educate it, then the child will not be so disgusted with his father. 7. Relax the requirements. There are many differences between the two sides. Yuan wants his son to become a talented person because his father has high demands on his son, but in fact, his father needs to determine the requirements according to his son's actual situation. For example, if your son is not good at one aspect, but you don't ask him to study hard and make achievements in this aspect, it is definitely inappropriate, so relax the requirements and give