How to avoid love rat, Zhihu?

First of all, the cliff of domestic violence is love rat.

After the domestic violence, I cried and said to you, I am sorry.

Do you think he really realized that he was wrong?

I won't.

Next time you get emotional, he will still hit you.

Where there is a beginning, there is no end.

As a result, you may be beaten to pieces.

As a result, you may be assimilated.

The most terrible thing about domestic violence is that it will assimilate you, make you more and more accustomed to domestic violence and gradually become a capable person.

Even in the end, you left this domestic violence love rat. If you meet the next one and start over, you are likely to become a domestic violence girl.

Invisible osmosis will make you like him and become the person you hate the most. This is the biggest punishment.

Second, people who like to slap their mouths.

Specifically, people who like to beat themselves and pinch their necks when quarreling with you.

A reader backstage said that her ex-boyfriend was like this.

After chatting with other girls, the ex-boyfriend knelt down for mercy and then hit his head against the wall.

All kinds of self-harm, the reader finally forgave.

Later, when encountering more problems, boys never solve their problems, but constantly hurt themselves and even threaten readers.

This self-destructive person can't even love himself. How can he really love you?

Even threatening you with this kind of self-harm behavior makes you feel distressed.

With 1 time, there will be a second time, a third time, and even, finally, I will hit you harder.

Third, strong desire for control.

To tell the truth, controlling is a curable disease.

If you want to control others and prevent them from having their own consciousness, you must follow your own ideas.

Finally, I put the banner of love on my behavior. I'm doing this for your own good.

That's disgusting

Fourth, crazy talk hurts people and hurts self-esteem.

There is a man who likes to say that I can live with you. No one would want you without me. Look at your smelly temper.

There is not much difference between verbal violence and personal attacks.

It's okay to quarrel, but it's not a human problem.

Those who rise to personal attacks and even think that you are worthless without him, stay away while it is early.

Fifth, people with a history of cheating.

I remember someone saying, don't be with many people who are in love.

Personally, I don't particularly agree with this view.

If we say that many times, people fall in love with the kind of bad people, do not love each other, and can start over after a frank breakup. These are all fine.

This person is unreliable, not by the number of times he falls in love, but by whether he does something wrong every time he falls in love.

Like cheating.

The derailed person is hopeless, and so is love, because after a period of time, if love is gone, it will still be derailed.