The family wants to get married before the husband and children, and the fiancee wants to get married and have children first. What should I do? Very distressed, very distressed

It's normal to get married first and have children. Only once in a lifetime. Oh, doesn't that girl want to get married beautifully? If you get married after giving birth, it is not a marriage. It should be the child's full moon wine. Besides, a woman's appearance after giving birth may change, which I think is reasonable for your girlfriend. As for your mother's idea, you may want to get married after having children, which can really save a sum of money. As an adult, you should have your own opinions. Parents' opinions are for reference only and do not represent anything.

Don't believe too much what the fortune teller says. It's not a feudal society now. Your own destiny is in your own hands. No fortune teller has given you life. Right?

In short, my opinion is to look at the date when you get married and have a baby (the baby is only pregnant for more than two months, and there is still a long time before you are born). As a woman, you need to understand this as a man, provided that you two really want to be together.