How rough is Lu Xiaoman's love?

Speaking of Lu Xiaoman, except talented women, most people will think of some disgraceful comments, right? Spending money, smoking opium, chaotic private life.

But think about it carefully, she seems to live only for herself all her life, and she has never wronged herself in both emotional and material life. I didn't leave any children or money, and this time on earth only belonged to me, so that in the end, my bones wandered for 23 years before I found their belonging.

Hu Shi once said: Lu Xiaoman is a must-see scenery. But sometimes, the scenery is not necessarily beautiful.

The Lujia family has a daughter who has grown up: How excellent Lu Xiaoman was in his early years.

Lu Xiaoman lived in Shanghai when he was a child. At the age of six, she went to Beijing with her parents, studied in the primary school affiliated to Beijing Women's Normal University at that time, and later went to Beijing Sacred Heart School. Her family also hired a foreign language teacher specially for her. It was because of her good education that Lu Xiaoman became an intellectual young woman in the new era.

16 years old, she is proficient in piano, chess, painting and calligraphy, and is proficient in two foreign languages, English and French. At that time, Lu Xiaoman always made people think of infinite praise, but she laughed at herself and said, I don't know anything myself.

She was born in a famous family, and her father Lu Ding was a juren in the late Qing Dynasty. She graduated from Waseda University in Japan. Mother Wu Manhua is also a noble family. When Lu Xiaoman was born, she seemed to be trying her best to give her everything: peerless beauty, noble birth, outstanding talent and brilliant temperament.

Prior to this, the Lujia family died eight children in a row. The only child just let Lu Xiaoman catch up, and the whole family regarded it as a treasure. The moon in the sky can't wait to pick it for her.

There is also a little story. Lu Xiaoman's talent came from her father's slap. At the age of nine, Lu Xiaoman loved to play and was stubborn. His father slapped him in a rage. From then on, Lu Xiaoman studied hard behind closed doors, and within a few years he became proficient in all kinds of foreign language poems.

At the age of seventeen or eighteen, because he was proficient in English and French, he became an interpreter in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and he knew all the top dignitaries in various countries like the back of his hand. He also attended the dance of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and his graceful dancing was even more fascinating.

Lujia is therefore a minor celebrity in Beijing. Suddenly, Lu Xiaoman was old enough to get married. All the people who came to Lujia to propose marriage stepped on the threshold.

How terrible a long-distance relationship is, so Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng divorced.

1922, Lu Xiaoman married Wang Geng, a young talent at that time.

In our opinion, Wang Geng is not as famous as Xu Zhimo, but this Wang Geng is by no means an idle generation. 19 15 after receiving a bachelor's degree in literature from Princeton University, he transferred to the United States Military Academy at West Point to study military affairs.

He is at the same level as the famous American Eisenhower. During the Republic of China, I was able to study military affairs at West Point Military Academy. If there is a good chance after returning to China, he will never stop being a marshal. After all, Eisenhower became the commander-in-chief of the European Allied Forces and the 34th president of the United States.

Born in Princeton and West Point Military Academy, there seems to be no one else in China in the early 20th century. After graduating from prestigious schools, they are ambitious, talented and have a bright future. At that time, the two men were a perfect match.

However, Wang Geng's mind is all about his career, and the amorous feelings of Wang Geng have no idea about Lu Xiaoman's love vision. He works six days a week, and Lu Xiaoman thinks he is inconsiderate, which makes Lu Xiaoman very disappointed. In particular, Wang Geng once insulted Lu Xiaoman in public, which made spoiled Lu Xiaoman very angry and set the stage for their divorce.

Soon Wang Geng went to Harbin as the police chief, and Lu Xiaoman didn't go with her husband. As a result, Lu Xiaoman cheated on Xu Zhimo and fell in love with Xu Zhimo.

When he heard about Xu and Lu, he wrote a letter to his wife. If you miss the love between husband and wife, please come south with me at once. If you belong to another place, you will never be stopped. I hope you can live happily. ?

According to the truth, this Wang Geng is a liberal arts student and should know some customs. After the wedding, he abandoned his wife and left home. It's strange that his wife didn't run away with others. After all, is this one? Was the ceremony broken? In the Republic of China, anything can happen.

Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo, why were they not favored from the beginning?

During Wang Geng's employment in other places, the newlyweds Lu Xiaoman felt lonely after their marriage. She used to be a celebrity, but now she is alone, so she naturally has some ideas.

Never, never. When Wang Geng was working, he asked his good friend Xu Zhimo to take care of Lu Xiaoman. At that time, Xu Zhimo's love life was at a low ebb. Lin, whom he pursued hard, married Liang Sicheng, and he himself became a passer-by.

An affectionate seed like Xu Zhimo becomes inseparable when she meets an affectionate woman like Lu Xiaoman.

Interestingly, when Lu Xiaoman was most lonely, he wanted to be accompanied by Wang Geng, but Wang Geng said, I don't have time. Ask Shima to play with you! ?

Xu Zhimo is naturally romantic and affectionate. Lu Xiaoman, who likes an affair, is undoubtedly happy. Poetry and painting together, knowing each other, four eyes touching, calcium carbide fire; A star flies, and the two laugh.

In this way, the spark of love between the two people grew stronger and stronger.

Lu Xiaoman divorced Wang Geng on 1925, and Xu zhimo and Lu Xiaoman got married in Beijing on 192610.3.

Because this love is too bloody, Xu Zhimo is love rat, Lu Xiaoman is love rat, and together they are scum!

When they got married, both parents probably felt embarrassed, so they didn't attend.

Even Liang Qichao, Hu Shi and others agreed after repeated invitations. Liang Qichao, the witness of the wedding ceremony, even said sarcastically: I hope this is your last wedding.

Why are there many contradictions between Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo after marriage?

Sometimes, the marriage that others don't like is not someone else's problem, but may be their own reason. How can the love of dregs have several happy endings? Sure enough, the two met with various contradictions shortly after their marriage.

When they first got married, it was not bad. In the old house in Xu Zhimo's hometown, they work at sunrise and rest at sunset, living an idyllic seclusion.

Unfortunately, the conflict did not last long. Because Xu Zhimo's father didn't like Xiaoman's luxurious lifestyle, he decisively cut off their financial resources, which made their life short soon. The two can only make a living by Xu Zhimo's manuscript fee and lecture fee.

Later, they moved to Shanghai, and Lu Xiaoman fell in love with the nightlife of Shanghai Shili Yangchang and made a group of new friends.

However, Lu Xiaoman, who once lived a luxurious life, did not change his mind. She still always dresses up, goes to high-end places and lives a luxurious life.

While enjoying in Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo was too tired as a bee, writing part-time, and was too busy to make ends meet. Coupled with personality differences and many different lifestyles and habits, the married life of the couple is not as poetic as expected, but contradictions continue to appear.

193 1 year 1 year 1 year 65438+9 years, they broke out again. She refused to listen to advice and threw a pipe at him. He was so angry that he left. Xu Zhimo flew to Beiping and wanted to visit Lin.

Results Affected by heavy fog, the plane crashed into a mountain and exploded in Dangjiazhuang area of Jinan, causing death. The death of Xu Zhimo caused a shock in all walks of life, and Shen Congwen, Jin, Liang Sicheng and other friends went to pay their respects.

Lu Xiaoman fainted at once when he learned the bad news. She cried for the last time in the mourning hall. When she woke up, she still couldn't control herself and was heartbroken. She always felt that she indirectly killed Xu Zhimo.

Why was Lu Xiaoman buried 23 years after his death?

After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman has been living with the married man Weng Duanwu. He takes care of Lu Xiaoman's expenses, not only materially but also spiritually. And paid Lu Xiaoman to continue studying painting.

They also have a lot of sex life. They liked drama and made friends until Weng died on the Dragon Boat Festival.

1On April 3rd, 965, Lu Xiaoman, aged 63, died of illness. Lu Xiaoman had offered to be buried with Xu Zhimo before his death.

However, this request was rejected by Xu Zhimo's son Xu Jikai. The reason given is that although Lu Xiaoman is Xu Zhimo's wife, she has never been recognized by the Xu family, and their relationship almost broke down before Xu Zhimo's death.

More importantly, after the death of Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman has been living with the married man Weng Duanwu. So Xu Jikai felt that Lu Xiaoman was not qualified to be buried with Xu Zhimo.

Lu Xiaoman lived half his life in his later years? Lover? Weng Dragon Boat Festival also passed, and Lu Xiaoman had a bad life because he had been ill and smoked opium.

When she died and was buried, she was still wearing an old cotton-padded jacket with holes. When Zhao Qingge saw it, he couldn't bear to see it, so he gave her a new set of silk clothes and trousers to wear. Only in this way can she be decent.

After cremation, Lu Xiaoman's ashes have been unclaimed, because she left no children in her life.

Until 1988, Lu Xiaoman's cousins thought that there was no cemetery for Aunt Lu Xiaoman after her death, so they built a memorial tomb for her in Suzhou Dongshan Overseas Chinese Cemetery.

The photo on the tombstone is actually a photo of Lu Xiaoman when he was a student. In a word, Lu Xiaoman was finally buried.

Just, on this day, Lu Xiaoman waited for 23 years.