What does it mean for a boy to say to himself that he is undertaker?

"Mourning" has many meanings in China's long language and culture. In terms of "people's personality and social skills", it includes: introverted, unhappy and boring; A gray outlook on life, something that is hard to let go, or a bad side; Attitude is not open-minded, not positive, not optimistic (even if you encounter good things, you will not laugh); In interpersonal communication, I am not good at talking and talking (for example, I often hurt people unconsciously), lacking a sense of humor, being unreasonable, and not good at empathy (ignoring or hurting others when considering my own interests in advance). . . Based on these, analyze and summarize the boys' personality, behavior characteristics and habits, and see what is consistent, that is, the meaning of "mourning". . . According to the description of the question, maybe you mean "the other party said he was' mourning'"? If so, then reflect on what qualities you have that meet the above requirements, and then deliberately correct them. . . Usually, the most intuitive feeling of a bereaved person is that the expression on his/her face is ugly, frowning or serious (as if he/she is always in trouble, or he/she finds others annoying). This kind of "mourning", no matter what kind, will affect one's social circle in short, resulting in fewer friends, more misunderstanding by others and less help, which is not conducive to the development of work and the happiness of family life. Generally speaking, people will stay away from people who have lost their footing (that is, they have a certain background strength or ability/talent, but people really don't want to associate with them, so they avoid it) or "ignore them" (that is, people will look down on/despise the people who have lost their footing.