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Unscramble the thought of _ _ _ _ _ _ _ sowing habits and fate, and gain a wonderful life.

Opening introduction

There is a proverb that clearly explains the essence of vitality:

Sow the seeds of thoughts and you will reap the words; Sow the seeds of words, and you will reap the deeds; Sow the seeds of behavior and you get used to it; Sow the seeds of habit, and you will gain individuality; Sow the seeds of individuality, and you will reap the fate.

This mode of shaping fate through thought is actually the process of creating life. Always pay attention to the creative seeds planted in the garden of consciousness, because these seeds will germinate your future life experience.

0 1. Be your own master

When the calf saw the cow sweating under the whip of the farmer, it felt very sad. He asked, "Mom, the world is so big, why should we suffer here?"

Sweating profusely, the cow replied helplessly, "son, we can't help it." Since we have eaten other people's food, we have been forced to do so for generations! "

Truth: Habit is your master from the beginning. If you are enslaved by it for a long time, you will be "involuntarily" and become its slave. On the contrary, if the habit is enslaved by you, you will become the master of the habit. If you have good habits, you will have a happy and beautiful life.

02. Jump out of the tired ditch

A little frog is tired of the fact that there is less and less water in the small river ditch where he lives all the year round. He has no food. The little frog kept jumping every day, trying to escape from this place, while its companion lazily curled up in the muddy puddle all day. He said, "isn't he still hungry now?" What's your hurry? "Finally, one day, Xiaoqing frog jumped over and jumped to a big pond nearby, where there was a lot of delicious food. He can swim freely.

The little frog croaked his partner, "Come here, this is heaven!" " But his companion said, "I'm used to it here." I have lived here since I was a child. I am too lazy to move! " "

Soon, the water in the ditch dried up and the little frog's companion starved to death.

Universal principle

Only by daring to break one's own inherent circle can one change one's destiny and have a broader development space. Those who stick to the rules and don't want to deviate from their usual track will always be narrow-minded and will never make a breakthrough.

03. Be careful of scorpions around you.

One day, a frog was sitting by the river. A scorpion passed by and said to him, "Mr. Frog, I want to cross the river, but I can't swim." Can you be merciful and let me sit on your back and take me across the river? "

The frog said, "But you are a scorpion. Scorpions like to sting frogs best. "

The scorpion said, "Why should I sting you? My purpose is to go to the other side of the river. "

"All right!" The frog said, "As long as you don't sting me, I will accompany you across the river."

However, when they reached the middle of the river, the scorpion stung the frog involuntarily. The frog struggled painfully and asked, "Why did you stab me?" Now, neither of us can live. "

Scorpion said, "I can't help it, because I am a scorpion, and scorpions just like to sting frogs." I really can't control myself. "

Universal principle

To yourself, your evil thoughts and actions are your scorpions. Watch out for scorpions stinging you. For others, you should be careful of the scorpions around you. No matter how he promises you, he will still drag you down with his bad habits.

Don't let cockroaches kill you.

A man brought a cockroach to his new home. He will soon find that the whole clean house has become their world. Their reproductive capacity is amazing. But their harm goes far beyond this. What's really scary is that cockroaches like dirty things best, and they go wherever they are dirty. No matter how clean the place is, as long as they climb over it, it will become a place where bacteria breed.

This man tried to kill them by some means, such as cockroach house, cockroach medicine and other modern scientific weapons, but he found that cockroaches have obviously entered modernization. No matter what means, they are always getting stronger and stronger, and there is no end. Their advantages are everywhere. As long as they have a little hiding place, they can settle down and breed, and then go out to spread viruses and filth. So his clothes, his suitcase, his cupboard and his bed are all there.

Finally, the man found that the only way to kill them was to throw away all the clothes, all the boxes, all the cabinets and beds.

Universal principle

Like that cockroach, your bad habit is like a chronic disease. It may not attract your attention at first, but just because you don't pay attention doesn't mean it doesn't exist. If you find out later, you will lose more.

05. Don't struggle like an elephant.

The elephant was born in a circus, and its parents are also old circus actors.

Elephants are very naughty and always want to run around. The staff tied a thin chain to its leg and tied the other end to an iron bar.

Elephants are not used to this chain. He worked hard to earn, but he couldn't get rid of it. But he has to move inside the chain.

A few days later, the elephant tried to break free from the chain again, but it didn't succeed, so he had to be unhappy and tell the truth.

Time and time again, the elephant can't get rid of this chain. Slowly, it stopped trying. Accustomed to shackles, it is the same for parents, as if it should be like this.

The elephant grew up day by day. With its strength at this time, it is a breeze to break the small chain, but it never thought of doing so. It thinks the chain is unbreakable to it. This strong psychological suggestion has long been deeply embedded in its memory.

From generation to generation, the elephants in the circus are chained by a tangible small chain and an invisible big chain and move in a fixed small range.

Universal principle

Times are constantly changing. What you can't do at the beginning may be easy today, and what you can do at the beginning may be difficult to do today. In any case, the key is not to keep an unchanging concept _ _ _ in mind, so that good habits can be adhered to and bad habits can become good habits.

06. Close the door behind you.

Former British Prime Minister Lloyd George has the habit of closing the door behind him.

One day, George and his friends were walking in the yard. Whenever they pass a door, George always closes it behind him. "Do you need to close these doors?" My friend is puzzled.

"Oh, of course," George said to his friend with a smile. "I have been closing the door behind me all my life. You know, it's necessary. When you close the door, you forget everything, whether it's a wonderful achievement or an annoying mistake, and then you can start over. "

Universal principle

Remember to close the door behind you, learn to forget all the mistakes in the past, don't indulge in troubles and regrets, and move on. Then you will find that we are reborn every day and every day is the beginning of our new life.

07. It is better to get rid of it than to kill it.

A rooster gets up in the morning to announce the dawn. At dawn, it was proposed by the owner and killed.

The other rooster gets up in the morning until dawn. At dawn, it was proposed by its owner to kill it. The other rooster gets up in the morning until dawn. At dawn, it was proposed by its owner to kill it.

The neighbor was puzzled and asked, "These cocks are on time at dawn every day. Why did you kill them? "

The man said, "I have the habit of getting up late in the morning, but they call early."

The neighbor said, "It's not their fault. It is the duty of the rooster to announce the dawn. "

The man said, "I don't care about this." What I need is a rooster that mates with hens, not a rooster that announces dawn. "

The neighbor said, "But the rooster keeps crowing. Can't you solve the problem in another way? "

"It's hard," said the man. "I tried to cut their throats, and then I tried to tie their mouths, but it was too much trouble, but it was very easy to kill them."

"Then why don't you change your sleeping habits?" The neighbor asked doubtfully.

"How can I change my living habits?" The man said, "I have had this habit for decades." How can I change a few cocks? Besides, I am the host, and they should meet my needs. When their behavior conflicts with mine, they can only suffer, but how can it be me? "

So the man kept the habit of killing chickens.

Universal principle

Often a little concession can solve the contradiction at present, but it will cost a great sacrifice and even life in the future. In the journey of life, there will always be contradictions of one kind or another. It is indeed a question worth pondering.

09. Break the idol and pick up your gold.

The poor man offered an idol. He prayed for God's blessing and became poorer and poorer.

Later, in a rage, he grabbed the statue and threw it on the wall. The head of the statue was broken and a lot of gold flowed out of the skull. The man picked up the gold and said loudly, "I think you are hateful and stupid." When I respect you, you don't give me any benefits. " I smashed you, but you gave me so many good things. "

Universal principle

In our life, we have made many statues consciously or unconsciously. We are getting used to looking up and being faithful believers. We don't know that every statue may actually contain gold. You can only get it if you break it. Everyone should have enough courage to break that statue and pick up his own gold.

10. Who says a dollar is nothing?

John rockefeller, the oil magnate, was one of the three richest Americans in the19th century. Rockefeller was 98 years old. He earned at least $ 10 billion in his life and donated 750 million. But he is very frugal in spending money.

Once, he wanted to go home by bus after work, but borrowed a dollar from his secretary and said, "You must remind me to return it, lest I forget."

The secretary said, "Please don't mind, a dollar is nothing." Rockefeller said solemnly, "How can you say it's nothing? It takes ten years to earn a dollar by putting a dollar in the bank! "

The billionaire's view on money is: I will not be a slave to money, but also use money as a slave.

Universal principle

In the accumulation of wealth, pay attention to dripping water wears away the stone. Everyone knows that many a mickle makes a mickle, but few people can do it, but john rockefeller did it. Do you know that?/You know what? This is the magic of habit.

1 1. Beat the big iron ball of life

At the end of his sales career, a world-class salesperson attracted more than 5,000 elites from the insurance industry to attend the meeting. When many people asked him the secret of sales promotion, he smiled and said it was needless to say.

At this time, the lights dimmed and four big men appeared from one side of the venue. Together, they carried an iron frame with a big iron ball hanging on it. When the people at the scene were puzzled, the iron shelf was carried to the podium.

The sales master stepped onto the stage and knocked on the big iron ball with a small hammer. The iron ball didn't move. After five seconds, he knocked again, but it didn't move, so he knocked every five seconds. So wait, the iron ball still didn't move. The audience began to stir, and some people left the scene one after another, but the sales master knocked on the iron ball quietly, and more and more people left, leaving little.

Finally, the big iron ball began to shake slowly. After more than 40 minutes, the violently shaking iron ball can't stop even if anyone tries hard.

Finally, facing the remaining hundreds of people, the master introduced his successful experience in his life: success means doing simple things repeatedly. With this perseverance, you can make a little progress every day, and when success comes, you can't stop it.

Universal principle

Simple action repetition, simple words repetition. This is the secret of success. To put it bluntly, success is actually very easy, that is, to form a successful habit first. The most terrible power in the world is habit, and the most precious wealth in the world is habit.

12. Success begins with taking off your shoes.

Forty years ago, Gagarin, an astronaut from the former Soviet Union, traveled in space 108 minutes on the "Orient" spacecraft, becoming the first astronaut in the world. It was an accident that made Gagarin stand out among more than 20 astronauts.

It turned out that a week before the candidate was decided, the chief designer Rolev found that Gagarin was the only one who took off his shoes and entered the cockpit wearing only socks. It was this detail that made Gagarin win Rolev's favor at once. He felt that the 27-year-old young man knew the rules so much and cherished his dedicated spaceship, so the chief designer decided to let Gagarin carry out the flight.

Universal principle

Success begins with taking off your shoes. Although taking off shoes is a trivial matter, it can reflect a person's quality and professionalism, which is the key to cultivating good habits. If you want to succeed, you must first cultivate good habits.

15. Be careful to throw away the "wishing stone".

There was a young man who wanted to get rich and almost went crazy. Whenever he hears where there is money, he tries his best to find it. One day, he heard that there was a white-haired old man in the nearby mountain. If you are destined to meet him, give him whatever he wants, and he will certainly not return empty-handed. So, the young man packed his bags overnight and chased him to the mountain.

He waited there for five days and finally met the legendary old man. He asked the old man for jewels. The old man told him, "Every morning before the sun rises, you go to the beach outside the village to find a wishing stone. The other stones are cold, but that wishing stone is different. If you hold it in your hand, you will feel warm and glowing. Once you find that wishing stone, everything you pray for can come true. "

The young man thanked the old man and hurried back to the village.

Every morning, the young man looks for stones on the beach. Whenever he finds something that is not warm or shiny, he throws it into the sea. Day after day, month after month, the young people searched on the beach for half a year, but never found the warm and shiny wishing stone.

One day, as usual, he picked up stones on the beach. As soon as he found out that it was not a wishing stone, he threw it into the sea. One, two, three.

Suddenly, "Wow …" The young man began to cry, because he just threw the wishing stone into the sea, only to find that it was warm and glowing!

Universal principle

Like those poor young people, we gave up many opportunities for discovery because of habit. When we turn a blind eye to everything, we not only lose our thoughts, but also lose many opportunities for success.

16. Make 30,000 rivets respectively.

A young man came to the factory as a lathe worker for the first time, and the master asked him to "lathe" 30 thousand rivets every day. A week later, exhausted, he found his master and said he wanted to go home.

The master asked him, "Can you finish a car in one second?" The young man nodded, which is not difficult to do.

The master gave him a watch and said, "Well, from now on. You just need to drive a car every second, and don't worry about anything else, see how many cars you can drive. " The young man worked slowly as the master said. At the end of the day, he not only successfully completed the task, but also was not tired.

The master smiled and said to him, "Do you know why? That's why you cast a shadow over yourself from the beginning, thinking that 30 thousand is such a big number. If you do it separately, isn't it seven or eight hours? " The young man suddenly realized.

Universal principle

Doing it separately sounds simple, but it actually contains infinite wisdom of success. When we are overwhelmed by trivial matters, don't be afraid, reach out and sort things out, gently, like clearing the fast floating ice on the water. At this time, the successful sun will naturally shine brightly into your heart.

17. Don't get used to poverty.

A person has never been too proud, so he goes to consult a fortune teller, also known as a fortune teller.

The fortune teller calculated from left to right, and finally told him, "You must have been down and out before you were 40 years old, and your life was very unsatisfactory, right?"

The man was greatly surprised and thought that the fortune teller was simply a fairy: "Master, you are really amazing! I have never been smooth sailing, and my fate is very bumpy. I will be 40 years old in a few days. What about after 40? " He is full of expectation, waiting for the fortune teller's answer.

"After the age of 40? You are still poor after 40 years old. " The man asked the fortune teller doubtfully, "Why?"

"Because you are used to it." The fortune teller said.

Universal principle

What are you used to, but you won't change? Can someone else help you save you? If you want others to help you, you must have the courage to change yourself; If you want to save yourself, you must form good habits.

2 1. Pick up the horseshoe in life.

Father and son crossed the desert together. After a long journey, they were tired and thirsty, and every step was extremely difficult. At this time, my father saw a horseshoe shining in the yellow sand under the sunlight-it was the heritage of the desert pioneers.

The father said to his son, pick it up, it will be useful. My son looked at the endless desert with a pair of dismissive eyes-what's the use? The son shook his head. So my father didn't say anything, just bent down to pick up the horseshoe and moved on.

Finally, they arrived at a castle. My father traded horseshoes for 200 sour grapes. When they were thirsty again in the desert, their father took out sour grapes and ate them while walking. At the same time, he ate one himself and threw one on the ground-every time his son ate one, he bent down to pick it up.

Universal principle

You only need to bend a horseshoe once, but now your son has to bend 100 times. A trivial matter you think is often the golden key to solve your difficulties and embarrassment at a critical moment. A little thing that I disdain to do, once I miss the opportunity, I have to make a hundred times of efforts.