In life, you must drink three bowls of water-

Some people understand that it is lucky, but no one understands that it is normal.

I always remember what a wise friend once said to me:

"Life must drink three bowls of water. The first bowl, cold water poured by others; The second bowl, your own sweat; The third bowl, tears that are not understood. "

The hardships of life are fixed, and no one can escape.

Only by drinking these three bowls of water can we taste bitterness and helplessness and overcome all the difficulties in the world.

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Cold water poured by others

When Mr. Wan Bangru graduated from Wujun Middle School, he said to him earnestly:

"Even if you encounter unpleasant words, try to find out what is reasonable."

Behind all the growth, there are not only flowers and applause, but also cold water.

Leah, a regional sales manager, once shared his story of entering the workplace.

When he just graduated, he went to work at 7: 00 every morning, got off work at 10 in the evening and worked overtime until 1 am.

Although he has worked hard, he is still greeted by the boss's overwhelming scolding:

Faced with pots of cold water, he complained bitterly and was depressed.

But slowly he found that the day when he was chased and scolded by his boss was the fastest time for his growth.

He began to walk out of his comfort zone and kept asking himself, "Is there a better solution to this matter?"

Being criticized for being outspoken, he took the initiative to chat with three people every day and corrected his communication problems little by little.

It is said that he can't buy flowers. In order to pick a beautiful bunch of flowers, he can go to all the flower shops around the store.

Before each visit to customers, he will also carefully prepare some small gifts to surprise customers.

After constantly breaking through himself, he was quickly promoted from an ordinary salesman to a store manager, and was even elected as the host of the reception by the head office to host the reception dinner for foreign guests.

Later, he recalled this experience and said:

"Someone is willing to teach you his years of experience little by little when you have no background or experience, standardize your behavior and force you to grow up. This is very lucky."

Ren once said, don't be afraid of criticism, but thank those who criticize us. They are helping us to make progress.

Life is a practice of fighting monsters and upgrading.

If you can bravely accept the cold water, take every setback as an opportunity to hone yourself.

There is nothing in this world that you can't get rid of.

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My own sweat

I watched a very exciting video a while ago.

A stuntman filmed a fall scene, jumped from the third floor, didn't hang Weiya, and almost fell off the protective air cushion, which made people feel scared.

Afterwards, he said frankly in an interview: "I am also afraid, but I have no choice but not to be eliminated."

In the world of adults, it is easy to live, and it is easy to live, but life is not easy.

Fate will set many checkpoints on the road of life.

If you don't sweat and grind your teeth for one thing, your life will become more and more difficult.

Only by doing your best and taking pains can you make your own way.

According to media blogger @ Xiaohe Yu Ting, a classmate named Huizi lost his job last year.

Keiko used to work in an agricultural company, and her work was easy and stable.

However, after the company went bankrupt due to poor management, he bought an engineering vehicle with a loan and prepared to go to the construction site to work.

Because I was used to being lazy before, a few days after I arrived at the construction site, I shouted that it was too bitter.

The workers advised him to live a hard life together: "This industry is like this. I suffered a little in the early stage. When the site business is familiar, there will be more projects and the income will be considerable. "

However, Keiko didn't listen, so she turned around and got a job as a security guard.

After two or three years, I lost my job again.

Looking back, the workmates who advised him at the beginning already had their own engineering team.

Whenever Keiko talks about it, she regrets it: "If you are willing to suffer and endure it, maybe you will be bitter with sweet now."

As the writer Wu Xiaobo said:

Life is easy without it. The real heroism is that you still choose to face the difficulties after knowing how hard life is.

You have to endure until spring blossoms; You have to wait until the light comes on.

Believe that the sweat that flows will turn into a river and flow through you.

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Tears that are not understood.

I agree with Luo Xiang, a professor at China University of Political Science and Law:

"Misunderstanding is the normal state of life, but understanding is a rare exception."

Kazuo inamori is a world-famous industrialist. When talking about kazuo inamori, Ji Xianlin said that he was a genius in business and an anecdote in philosophy.

When he was young, he was engaged in research and development in a company on the verge of bankruptcy.

In order to solve the product problems, he often worked overtime until late at night, and then he simply moved the bed to the office.

Many colleagues don't think highly of him and even laugh at him fooling around.

Facing the gossip of people around him, kazuo inamori was unmoved and absorbed in his studies.

Finally, a world-leading invention-new ceramics was invented, which brought a large number of orders to the company that was about to close down.

In order to complete the order contract as soon as possible, the company decided to pay overtime to employees to promote them to work overtime.

Hearing the arrangement of overtime work, kazuo inamori strongly opposed it, but the top management didn't listen to his suggestion.

Soon, the problem appeared.

Because of the overtime money, all employees will slow down their work during the day and work overtime at night.

Seeing that the company was going to be dragged down by this situation, kazuo inamori proposed "no overtime work", and all employees unanimously opposed it.

In the case of making public anger, he still insisted on not giving in: "It is the most important thing to make new products succeed in the market, and overtime pay can't be distributed indiscriminately!"

He set an example, even if he had to work overtime, he wouldn't take a penny.

With his efforts, the employees gradually accepted his suggestions, although they didn't understand his decision.

Recalling the hardships along the way, kazuo inamori said:

It is lucky that some people understand the adult world, but it is normal that no one understands it.

Instead of trying to explain yourself to others, let time respond to everything.

There is such a passage in One Hundred Years of Solitude:

"We often walk in the eternal journey of life, running in bumps, nirvana in setbacks, sadness all over, and pain everywhere. We are tired, but we can't stop; We are bitter, but we can't avoid it. "

Ten thousand kinds of sufferings in the world have never befallen anyone alone, nor have they been lenient.

Life is never a scam. Don't wander the streets and sigh at night.

Try to drink these three bowls of water before you can go all out.

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