What's the origin of the saying "a girl with a mistress holding a golden brick"?

An auspicious word, from female university to female university, is all auspicious words. China has been talking about good luck since ancient times, so the top priority, like getting married, revolves around happiness and good luck. Attend other people's weddings and talk about other people's marriages. If you accidentally say something frustrating, it is likely that the two families will turn against each other and hold grudges for life. As a result, there are all kinds of auspicious words, which rhyme, catchy, pleasant to hear and easy to remember. Say what you hear, and make sure there will be no problems. For example, "full house of children and grandchildren" and "early birth of your son" and so on.

And if we have to explain that "the little girl holds the golden brick", it should be said that older women often know how to love men and how to accommodate and take care of their own men.

"Female junior, take the golden brick."

Among the people I contacted, there are several couples whose women are three years older than men, and their family economic conditions and husband and wife life are good. As the saying goes: female junior, holding the BRICS. So, are there any rules or factors? After personal thinking, the following views are obtained:

First, women are maternal. A man, working hard outside, shows fearless spirit. However, after all, people are human beings and have a fragile side. At this time, the role of women can not be ignored. Think about it. When a man comes home and feels concerned and dependent like a child, he will have the energy and passion to cope with his daytime career, won't he?

Second, no man will deliberately like a woman older than himself, and no woman will deliberately like a man younger than herself. Even when two people get married, the decision made by a woman is so reluctant. It is conceivable how difficult it is to combine two people. Think about it. When a man who knows each other falls in love with a woman or a woman older than himself, how much pressure does a man have to bear in pursuit? How much effort does it take? However, when a man thinks it's worth it, and this woman deserves his love all his life, he is not afraid. Men have the desire to conquer and possess. Therefore, if two people can finally be together, they will almost hone a man's perseverance, hard work and sense of responsibility.

Third, there must be an excellent woman behind a successful man. When this woman really becomes a man's woman, she will support him and give advice when he makes a decision, because when a woman is older than a man, a man will refer to some of her advice. On the contrary, it is not. Moreover, women will urge and remind their men that women's emotional thinking and men are complementary. Only with this hard-won feeling, men will listen to women's opinions carefully.

The role of women in men can not be ignored. She wants to be a man's wife, mother and sister. Perhaps this multi-role orientation can only be achieved through this form of family affection.

However, at this time, no matter what kind of women are around you, as a man, you still have to struggle to become a successful man. That's the most important thing.

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