Zibo folk custom

Marriage: the marriage of a man and a woman depends on the orders of parents and the words of the media. Men and women can't meet. Everything is the words of parents' matchmakers, and I can't help it. From engagement to marriage, there are many manners, especially for the rich. The marriage procedure of wealthy families is: marriage proposal and engagement: pay attention to the right match, and the matchmaker calls it marriage proposal. The two sides agreed to get married, and the man asked his husband to tell his fortune and measure his birthday? Eight characters? Get engaged at a game or party. The engagement procedure is to send a book (also known as Cambodia) and the man uses a seal? Forever? 、? Will you marry Qin Jin? Is the word "Dragon Wind and Red Cambodia" written on the date of birth of men and women? Eight characters? And then what? Gong Ken "and other words, in duplicate (both sides backup), with clothes, jewelry, red leggings and other items, given to the woman by the matchmaker, the woman received, so what? Follow your orders? Reply, press back to the pen and ink inkstone, shoes, hats and socks. The marriage is officially confirmed. Delivery date: when men and women reach the age of marriage, the man entrusts the person to choose the wedding date and writes a red post to the woman. The two sides prepare for marriage according to auspicious days.

Make-up: Two days before the wedding, the man sent a pair of carp, a rooster, a pair of pig legs, mugwort leaves, onions and other gifts to his wife's house in a box. Makeup? . Stick a red couplet on the box:? Before the wedding, I won the lottery and borrowed a goose to make up. .

Bridal gift: On the morning of the wedding day (a few days ago), the bride's family sends the dowry (dowry) to the man's family, and the man gives the money to the caterer. The number of houses varies from rich to poor. Generally speaking, there are tables, chairs, cabinets, boxes, washbasins, bedding, clothes, and some embroidered pillows, some as many as twenty or thirty pairs, which are distributed to the elders of the husband's family.

Marriage: On an auspicious morning, the bride goes to the man's house in a sedan chair. Front flag, umbrella, drummer, beating, weighing? See relatives off? . In the east of yue zhuang, the groom takes a blue sedan chair to the woman's house first. After the ceremony, the blue sedan chair is in front and the sedan chair is behind. Wedding ceremony? . There are two sedan chairs? See the guests off? Most of them are the brothers of the bride. The bride is wearing a red coat and skirt. Damon has a red head (cloth), a bronze mirror or green money, and a sticky cake wrapped in a red bag. Car to the door, two women? A guest? Open the curtains and help the bride get off. When entering the door, drums, firecrackers, red carpets or red mats are everywhere, with the groom in front and the bride behind. Put braziers on both sides of the entrance and saddles on the threshold, which means prosperity and peace. The newlyweds worship heaven and earth in front of the incense table, the wedding banquet begins and the bride enters the bridal chamber. The traveler took off the bride's red head and gave her mother-in-law a hug, meaning to have grandchildren early. In the evening, the younger generation went into the bridal chamber to have fun and asked the new couple for candy. Noisy . The next morning, the bride kowtowed to her in-laws, and the next morning, she offered sacrifices to her ancestral grave. On the third day, the bride went back to her family and said? Back to the door? .

Funeral: In the old society, wooden coffins were used for burial. The patient's family dressed him in a shroud before his death and washed his face and cut his hair after his death. Burn it on a hearse? Down the horse? , for? Pour rice? , light the ever-burning lamp. Children in Dai Xiao, go to the Earth Temple? Splash soup? 、? Close the money? 65438+ 0 times in the morning and evening. The eldest son stood on a stool with a bamboo pole and shouted to the west? Master (or mother), go to the west? , what's your name? Direction? . Neighbors help with the funeral, relatives and friends bring offerings to mourn, or do you give kindness (money) to close relatives? Tea? Son-in-law? Mingjing? .

Birthday: Every birthday of the elderly, the children's close relatives celebrate their birthday and offer wine, meat and cakes in various colors to show filial piety.

Warm pot: when the new house is completed and moved to a new house, friends and relatives bring gifts to congratulate.

Go to porridge and go to dinner: when a woman gives birth to a child, she gives birth to a boy on the sixth day and a girl or 12 on the ninth day. Her parents will send eggs, brown sugar, rice, noodles and other items.

Tim Dunn: The monk's daughter separated and set up another door. The family brought food, cookers, dining tables and so on. In order to help Ann cook and live independently.