Look at graduation photo, and you will know something about fate.

Chapter One: Look at the fate of graduation photo.

Chapter 2: From today, be a happy person.

Chapter 3: 20 things not to worry about in life

Every June, what students like best is to take photos of graduation photo. Even when people reach middle age, there are still many people who are willing to look at previous photos to recall their young days. Do you know that you can peek at this secret in graduation photo? Everyone's smile actually reflects their future destiny!

Look at the fate of graduation photo.

Go to graduation photo. Did you laugh? This smile is very important and may indicate your marital status and longevity. The smile in the photo can reflect the stable personality and potential emotional state, and can also infect the people around you and affect your work and life atmosphere. Whether this research is reliable or not, smiling in graduation photo will be a good memory for many years.

Every graduation season, graduates will expose graduation photo's hats and skirts on the Internet. A few years later, if you browse these photos again and talk about the gossip of your classmates, you may be surprised to find that some people are divorced and some people die young.

Anything could happen. Do you want to guess their life and predict their future through the photos on the Internet now? This is not impossible.

Two recent psychological studies tell us that the information of marriage and longevity may have been hidden in people's smiles in photos!

To what extent does a smile indicate marital status?

MatthewHertenstein, a professor of psychology at Debao University, collected yearbook photos of 306 psychology alumni and 349 alumni from other departments. Two trained experimenters (after training, their scores are close and the error is small) score the exercise intensity of orbicularis oculi muscle and zygomatic muscle in each photo, and then add the exercise intensity scores of the two muscles as the intensity of smile.

The researchers also learned about their later marital status through email. Comparing the intensity of smiles in photos, it is found that the intensity of smiles can predict the future marital status to some extent. The fewer people in the photo laugh, the higher the possibility of divorce, and the more people laugh, the lower the possibility of divorce. Both men and women have this trend.

How many smiles can predict life span?

Ernest Abel and Michael Kruger of Wayne State University conducted another study. They collected the registered photos taken by Major League Baseball players from 1952, and selected 230 photos staring at the camera, which was doubled.

Senior writers and four adults were invited to sort 230 photos out of order according to the movements of muscles around the mouth, eyes and orbicularis oculi.

As a result, as of June 1 day, 2009, the greater the smile intensity, the longer the life span. In fact, there are many factors that affect life expectancy, especially professional athletes. Therefore, the researchers ruled out some factors that can be examined, such as birth year, body mass index (BMI), working years, marital status, college entrance and so on. The result is that the smile intensity effect of Cox proportional risk regression model (a model used in medical statistics to investigate the influence of survival-related factors on life span) is still very significant, that is to say, life span can indeed be predicted by smile intensity.

Could it be that these people's smiles are more attractive, so their scores are higher and their lives are smoother? In order to eliminate the influence of face attraction in photos, the experimenter conducted a tracking study. They re-evaluated the attractiveness score of the photos, but found that the attractiveness score could not predict the life span.

Why can the smile in the photo predict the future?

From the results of two experiments, the more people smile in the photos, the less likely they are to get divorced and the longer they live. On the other hand, people who smile less are more likely to get divorced and live shorter lives, because smiles in photos can better reflect stable personality characteristics and potential emotional state.

Some researchers have also explained this phenomenon from the theory of gene-environment interaction. People have been looking for an environment compatible with genes all their lives. People with positive emotion genes may find an environment conducive to a happy marriage and even find a partner who already has positive emotions.

If explained from the social function of emotions, basic emotional states, such as happiness and sadness, will produce different automatic response modes, which will affect our behavior, physiology and cognitive processing, and ultimately affect major life events in life, such as marriage and longevity.

Expressions have symbolic value. Smiling can convey a friendly message. People who love to laugh in photos may love to laugh more in real life, so the friendly information conveyed in the smile helps to maintain a stable and intimate relationship.

Emotions are contagious. Look at the person who laughs in the photo, and people will laugh unconsciously. Then, if you often look at photos of your partner smiling and laugh unconsciously, your relationship with your partner will naturally improve.

It seems that the smile in the photo is meaningful! Don't be cool when taking pictures, and show a smile of "happy marriage, health and longevity"!

Starting today, be a happy person.

From today, to be a happy person, please learn to smile brightly first.

No matter who you are, you will encounter many setbacks in your life, but in any case, you should be good at creating a happy environment with a smile and never put on a cold face. As long as you learn to smile often, you will find that you live better than others.

I like to be accompanied by a bright smiling face, but I exclude those who are deeply depressed and unhappy. Unhappy people see that Yun Lan is not smart every day; Listen to the wind whimper and the rain rustle. Even a beautiful sunset will turn into blood and tears. Such a person, even if a great happiness is in front of him, will pick out the "bitter" bones. Therefore, we should open the window of our hearts from time to time and let the happy sunshine shine on every corner of our hearts. When our hearts are occupied by happiness, it is possible to find a happy figure.

Starting today, be a happy person. Please learn to find happiness.

Sometimes happiness is like a naughty child. He will blindfold you when he comes. Sometimes happiness is like a shy girl who always likes to hide her face behind a thin veil. When she floats by and looks at the vague back, we will be disappointed and say, "Well, is it happiness?"

When it comes to "happiness", beautiful pictures will always float in the depths of memory.

When I was a child, my mother quietly stuffed a candy in her hand; When writing, my mother accompanied me silently with the sole in front of the oil lamp; My mother's gentle voice comforted me in her arms.

During the festival, greeting cards filled with blessings and thoughts, warm messages from mobile phones; Kites flying high in the sky when I was a child, fireworks blooming in the New Year; After leaving my best friend, a series of yellowed letters shuttled through the years; My little sister called from thousands of miles away.

Mention "happiness" and some pictures will emerge in the depths of memory.

Get together with your parents, brothers and sisters and talk softly about your parents' shortcomings; When carrying my sick mother-in-law to bask in the sun, she clung to my dependence with both hands.

Perhaps, you will ask: Is this your happiness?

Yes, with the passage of time, the happiness you can hold in your hand is only so insignificant.

I have always believed that happiness is not a great sadness and joy, but only exists in the impressionable mind. Ordinary people, naturally there will be no earth-shattering joys and sorrows. However, happiness is like a small flower swaying in the wind, accompanying me along the way. As long as I appreciate it with my heart, I can let that faint fragrance penetrate into my mind.

Happiness is like starlight hidden behind clouds, which needs us to touch, explore and feel the fleeting warmth. When you break through the fog, see the love and being loved in your heart, and see the innermost peace and happiness, you will bloom quietly like a flower.

Tomorrow will be a new starting point, my friend. Starting today, let's be a happy person together!

20 things not to worry about in life

1. Loss-loss is a blessing.

Not all cheapness is lucky, not all luck is lucky, and not all pain is unbearable. Loss is often a treasure in the heart. If you don't know how to suffer, you can't understand life perfectly; If you don't know how to suffer losses, there will be no magnificent career.

2. Diploma-Diploma is not equal to ability.

People with high academic qualifications do have good employment capital, but having a diploma does not mean everything. Having a diploma does not mean that a person is capable. What determines a person's future is not the diploma, but the ability.

3. Disease-being strong can overcome everything.

Only when a person has optimistic and strong qualities can he better grasp his own destiny. Because optimism and strength are the helmsman to master the course of life and the propeller of the ship of destiny.

4. Unreasonable criticism-no one will kick the dog to death.

Being criticized is an unpleasant thing, especially when it is unreasonably criticized. Some people are angry, some people are sad and depressed, and some people become rational and positive.

5, the difference between the length-appearance can not represent everything.

There is nothing wrong with a person being different in length. Everyone should be true to himself. In this world, what a person is finally recognized by others is strength rather than appearance.

6. Situation-only the actual situation, not good or bad.

Many things in life are relative, whether good or bad. It depends on what standard you use to measure him or what attitude you use to face him. The same is true of your personal situation. Whether it is good or bad, it is all in my heart.

7. Bear hardships-bear hardships without loss.

As the saying goes, to be a good person, you have to suffer. Most people who have never suffered can't stand the test.

8. Cry-not weakness but letting go.

Don't stubbornly regard crying as a sign of weakness. When you are tired, bitter and hurt, crying is a kind of spiritual medicine. After crying, you can be refreshed and face life. People need to be strong and need to be released.

9. Face-a casual and indifferent life is a kind of enjoyment.

A casual and indifferent life is a kind of enjoyment. A perfect life doesn't have to earn a lot of money, and it doesn't have to have great achievements. Simple and plain life, happy and comfortable life, is also a superior realm of life.

10. Waiting is a kind of happiness.

Waiting is a process, just like everything in winter is waiting for the spring to bloom. Waiting is a kind of happiness, which makes life full of the truest future. Learn to wait, and you will find that every moment in life is beautiful.

1 1. bow your head-learning to bow your head is a kind of wisdom to hold your head high and hold your chest high.

When you come out of the confusion, you will find that kind bowing is actually a rare state: bowing is also an ability, it is not inferiority or cowardice, it is an awakening change. Sometimes. Keep your head down, maybe our life will be more exciting.

12. house-housing can be changed, and emotions need to last forever.

What needs are permanent? What can it change? Nothing in the world is perfect and life is not perfect, but we should always focus on the overall situation and start with small things. Life is short, people should know what they want when they are alive.

13. Give up-letting go is happiness.

Giving up is a choice. Give up one burden and choose another comfort. Sometimes giving up is to have something better. As long as you have the wisdom to move forward, giving up or having it is a good thing for life.

14. Confusion-sometimes confusion is valuable.

Confusion is actually a state of mind. Learning to be confused before a person is small or not is a kind of wisdom to resolve contradictions. Only in this way can a person have a full understanding of major events and not be confused at all.

15. Competition-only competition can be strong.

Bad environment will only make the strong stronger and the weak weaker. Cherish your opponent, because of his existence, you will make continuous progress and become stronger. When facing other opponents, you will find that you have gained a lot from them.

16. Dilemma-It takes courage to get out of the dilemma.

Don't always think about a smooth life. A person's life has to go through countless ups and downs. Happiness and pain coexist, and prosperity and difficulties go hand in hand. When you are in good times, you are high-spirited, so you should face difficulties calmly. This is an active life.

17. Drifting-Drifting makes life richer.

Only wandering can make you feel comfortable and confident. In such a pluralistic and complex society, only wandering can make you stand on your own feet.

18. Poverty-inner poverty is real poverty.

Poverty is not terrible, but poverty and laziness are terrible.

19. Defect-Defect is another kind of beauty.

There is nothing perfect in the world, and there is no perfect person. A person with defects or shortcomings is not a useless person. Defects are only one aspect, and everyone can find their own advantages on the other. You, me, him and everyone can do it.

20. Small contradictions in life-don't speak or act angrily.

Don't talk or act when you are angry. Sometimes anger slips away on its own. Wait a little patiently, and you don't have to rush out, otherwise you will get more anger and pay a higher price.

Conclusion: In the final analysis, what you see from graduation photo is a person's mentality. People who live happily will naturally have smooth sailing, and people who are sad and entangled in a little thing will naturally have many bad endings! (The article was originally published in Health Care Guide, serial number: 2065438+April 2002, by Gao Ying, and the copyright belongs to the author; The purpose of reprinting is to convey more information, which does not mean that 360 Common Sense Network agrees with its views and is responsible for its authenticity. Please contact us as soon as possible if it involves content, copyright and other issues, and we will delete the content as soon as possible)