10% of the events themselves are 90% of their own reactions

"Life 10% is made up of what happens to you, and 90% is determined by your reaction to it!"

I watched a talk show last night, and the talk show continued to develop. Whether on TV or online media, Zheng Zhihua sees the essence through phenomena with a unique and keen perspective and shares his feelings with the audience in a perceptual and rational way.

Festinger, an American social psychologist, has a well-known rule called Festinger's Law: 65,438+00% of life is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90% is determined by your reaction to what happens.

In other words, 10% of things in life are beyond our control, while the other 90% are beyond our control.

Festinger got up one morning to wash, and put his beloved high-end watch beside the sink. His wife was afraid that it would get wet, so she put it on the dining table. When my son got up and went to the table to get bread, he accidentally bumped into the ground and broke his watch.

Fearing about his watch, Festinger scolded his son and then scolded his wife with a black face. The wife was unconvinced and said that she was afraid that the water would get her watch wet. Festinger said, my watch is very expensive! It is waterproof. How can you be afraid of water? ! !

As a result, the two men launched a fierce battle. Festinger was so angry that he didn't eat breakfast and drove directly to work in the company. When I arrived at the company, I found that I didn't bring my briefcase. I need to sign a contract for a very important meeting today. The electronic manuscript is not good. I have to use paper books and documents.

So I had no choice but to go home and get it, so I drove back to get it. When I got home, I found that I didn't have my key. At this time, no one is at home. The children go to school and the wife goes to work. I have no choice but to call my wife for the key. My wife is still in a bad mood at this time, but she can't go back to help him solve things.

His wife knocked over the fruit stand on the road when she hurried home. The stall owner held her back and made her lose money. She had to pay a sum of money to solve it.

After some tossing, he finally got home. Festinger came in, got his briefcase and went back to the company. By this time, he was already late, and so was the meeting. He was 15 minutes late and was criticized by the leader. Festinger was in a terrible mood. Before leaving work, I had a quarrel with my colleagues because of a trivial matter.

My wife didn't get the attendance award because she left early. My son took part in a baseball game at school. He could have won the championship, but he was eliminated in the first game because he was in a bad mood and didn't play well.

In this list, the broken table is 10%, and the other 90% is the latter series.

It is because the parties did not manage the 90% that this day became a "troublesome day".

Imagine if 10% happened that day and it was solved in another way. For example, he comforted his son and said, "Son, it doesn't matter. If it's broken, just fix it. Don't blame yourself too much. " In this way, the son is happy, the wife is happy, and he is in a good mood, so the following things will not happen.

It can be seen that you can't control the first 10%, and the remaining 90% can be decided by your own mentality and behavior.

In our real life, we often hear people complain: How can I be so unlucky? Why do all the bad things happen to me? Should I go to tell my fortune? Is it a change of fate?

What is life? From the perspective of divination, a person's personality affects his behavior and his thinking, and after integration, it becomes your destiny.

Life is a kind of reasoning, just like you. I probably know what will happen. Let's push it in many ways. The faces are the same. Judging from your name and birthdates, westerners will use constellations to push. People in China can use things like Wei Zi, and then use the so-called Book of Changes for divination. All kinds of fortune-telling methods are just looking for something, that is, finding your so-called magnetic context.

What is a magnetic phase pulse? Is your magnetic field. You are born with a magnetic field, which will be placed in a big environment in the future. What might happen in your life and living environment? The basic principle of fortune telling is this.

Do you find it mysterious? However, eggs are fused and wool is mysterious.

Don't you think it's mysterious? However, Mata is mysterious.

Because it's called unknown, people are curious. People will think, hey, what will happen to me in five years? I invested in this business. Will I succeed? I am in love. Will he always be with me? When shall I get married? When will I have a child? When will I become rich? Everyone will be curious about the future, which is why many people will go to fortune telling because of this curiosity that kills people.

So, is fortune telling accurate? In my opinion, most of them are accurate and few are inaccurate.

You have to think about a question, why do you want to tell fortune? Why do many people like fortune telling?

Have you ever found that most people who go to fortune-telling will have a bad life? People who like fortune telling usually encounter problems and bottlenecks in life. He is confused and frustrated, so he will do the math. And I hope to change my fortune through fortune telling.

Generally, lucky people seldom go to fortune telling. In this case, since your life is not good, if your fortune-telling is accurate, your life is not good either, and it is difficult to change it. Then why did you go to fortune telling? So if you don't allow it, what you say will never be the same as what actually happened, so why do you go to fortune telling?

So fortune telling is boring. I don't think people need to do this. People want to know about life.

So what is fate? Why do some people often make mistakes? Will suffer some setbacks? And some people don't.

The essence of life is magnetic field. Everyone has his own magnetic field properties, and everyone's body contains "golden wood fire, water and earth".

This is an element in the five elements, with different proportions. It is impossible for everyone to have three elements, which is impossible.

It's just the ratio of more to less. When your magnetic field is put into the environment and collides with the magnetic fields of relatives, bosses, friends and enemies, the result is your fate.

Another point is that the magnetic field is divided into different sizes. When it happens in your life, some people have a particularly strong magnetic field. This person may not be good-looking or weird, but when he (she) appears, he (she) feels that the magnetic field is very strong, and everyone next to him listens to her. This is the size of the magnetic field.

The law of the jungle in this world, so is fate. If you have a strong magnetic field and you go to a place with a weak magnetic field, you can contain that place. Such people can change the environment. The magnetic field is weak. On the contrary, when the magnetic field is strong, it will be eaten by the environment. If your magnetic field is equal to the magnetic field of the environment, then you are finished, your career is finished, your body is finished, and everything is finished. This is the so-called "law of the jungle".

Therefore, how your personality comes and how your reaction comes is related to your magnetic field.

We often say that this person has a good temper and a fire; This person has a gentle temper and carries water;

So your response is the response of the magnetic field. Your personality is already in your magnetic field and has been naturally given to you. Someone asked me, can I change it the day after tomorrow?

Yes, it can be changed the day after tomorrow.

Let me give you an example. We know the universe, right? There is a terrible thing in the universe called a black hole. Have you ever heard of black holes? Black hole, black hole. So what does a black hole mean? Maybe experts will tell you what black holes are like from an academic point of view. You don't understand them at all, and the more you listen, the more blurred you become.

Today, I will tell you what a black hole is and make a simple analysis. You can do it yourself at home. You take a piece of canvas, cut a circle and tighten it. Isn't canvas elastic? If you put the shot put on the canvas, will it sink? Then put the ping-pong ball around the shot put, and it will turn around the shot put, just like the earth turns around the moon.

The weight in the universe is so great that you can't imagine. If the object is small, but its weight exceeds the weight supported by the canvas, then it will pull the canvas down and produce a circular vortex, just like a funnel, with infinite mass and infinite volume, which will pull all the gravity and interface waves. This is called a black hole.

By the same token, by the same token, if you have a big magnetic field, you will eat, so fate is such a thing. If your energy is small and your magnetic field is small, you will be eaten by the magnetic field and you will be controlled by fate. You can't overcome it yourself.

Why did you go to fortune telling? Just because your magnetic field is weak and you can't beat it in a strong magnetic field environment, how can your life be good? You are influenced by others, you can't control the external environment, you can't control others.

So how to change your destiny? I don't know, but I know I can correct it myself. Some people choose to change their names and decide a person by the magnetic field of their names.

Fate is actually a kind of statistics.

Different magnetic fields affect different lives. When you are free, you can learn about numerology, your five elements and your personality, which are much more accurate than the ordinary Chinese zodiac, because this is the protection and wisdom of China people. When you know this, you can adjust yourself. The five elements cannot be changed, but can only be adjusted and corrected.

If you change and correct small details, it will gradually accumulate into huge energy and change your whole destiny. It is impossible to shift 360 degrees, at least 120 degrees, at least 120 degrees, at least 80 degrees. This is destiny.

If you can change your laziness and bad personality, then your fate will be in your own hands, not in the mouth of a fortune teller. You can correct your destiny, but you can't change it, but your destiny is your own, and you can create it yourself.