Mr. Jiang Yang: Your problem mainly lies in reading too much and thinking too much.

May 25th is the second anniversary of Mr Jiang Yang's death.

Mr Jiang Yang is "the most virtuous wife and the most talented woman" in Qian Zhongshu's eyes. She is familiar with English and French, taught herself Spanish and translated Don Quixote. She is a philosopher, and she has the confidence to say, "I don't compete with anyone, and I don't care who I compete with"; She is a brave person in life, indifferent to ambition, quiet and far-reaching. "The human feelings of the world are more beautiful than the bright moon and the breeze; Can be read as a book, can be seen as a drama "is her calm and calm;" "Her words are unpretentious but far-reaching, and always bring us warmth and strength.

What Mr. Jiang Yang left us is her indifferent attitude towards things, and the reason why she can be indifferent to her ambitions, calm and calm, confident and capable of saying something to alert the world is because she is constantly growing, and what does it depend on? Read! Even though 105 is old, she is still studying.

She left us many aphorisms, one of which is: "Your problem mainly lies in reading too much and thinking too much."

In reality, we pursue money and fame too much, but at the same time we bring ourselves trouble. Worried about trivial matters in life and promotion in the workplace, these reasons are just that I don't have an open-minded attitude and strong professional ability to support it.

1.

Mr. Jiang Yang said that she changed from naughty to studious under the influence of her parents and teachers.

Children who grow up in a scholarly family often like reading, because in such a family, parents have the habit of reading, so that children will fall in love with reading.

Children follow their parents' example, learn their parents' appearance and imitate their behavior.

Huang Lei is knowledgeable and literary, and likes reading. From Journey to the West to martial arts novels, from Calvino to Keigo Higashino to Russian literature, there is nothing he doesn't like to read.

Under his influence, my daughter loves reading more. Mr. and Mrs. Huang Lei have also published too many pictures of reading.

Huang Lei herself said: "Now she has to finish reading a book (a very thin booklet) every day, and she will hold her arms before going to bed at night or after getting up in the morning."

He often studies with Duoduo, and when he was in the second grade of Duoduo, he also translated the work "Letter from Santa Dad" together.

Lin Qingxuan said: "A person's temperament hides the books she has read."

A lot of powder will be circled every time she appears, because she is elegant and quiet, and her temperament is extraordinary. This may be the precipitation brought by reading.

2.

On the Zhihu, someone asked, "I read a lot of books, and then I forgot most of them. What is the significance of reading? "

A netizen's answer vividly revealed the meaning of reading.

I ate a lot when I was a child, but now I can't remember what I ate. But what is certain is that some of them have grown into my bones and flesh. So will reading change people?

Nowadays, parents are consciously asking their children to read more books, but blindly asking them what books to read limits their interest and only allows them to read "useful books".

Bai Zeng said: "My son's first book was about martial arts, and I indulged him very much. I think the most important thing is to make him like reading since he was a child, not which book to read. "

It was precisely because he did not restrict his son's reading that his son later became interested in history because of martial arts, and his reading also extended outward.

Yu Dan said: "The hillside is full of flowers, which is beautiful. But in the eyes of cattle and sheep, it is just feed. Are there fewer flowers in the world now? In fact, cattle and sheep have more eyes. When we ask children to brush more questions, read more papers and read less leisure books, it is actually harmful to children. When a child grows up, loses sleep, is lovelorn and frustrated, it is impossible for him to solve the problem by brushing the questions. At that time, he may not have your company, and no one will feel bad. Only reading can help him, and only books will not betray him. Therefore, people should read useful books and more interesting books. "

In today's competitive learning, parents' eyes are focused on learning, and children are not allowed to read extracurricular books, which limits the breadth of children's reading. As Yu Dan said, let children brush more questions, read more newspapers and read less casual books. But in fact, it will eventually hurt the child.

When a child encounters setbacks and pains, he may not be accompanied by his parents, and no one can tell him. Maybe only reading can help him.

Like Lin, she had an unhappy childhood. Her mother was left out in the cold and separated from her father. She lives with her mother. Sometimes I go to play with my half-brother and sister, and when I come back, I will be severely scolded by my mother for a long time.

Lin Hui lived a depressed and dark life. At this time, it was the book that saved her. After learning to read with her aunt, she soaked into the library. Reading dispelled the darkness in her heart and turned her into a lotus, living rationally and aboveboard. ?

Lin Qingxuan said: "A person's temperament hides the books she has read."

If you can't give your child permanent shelter, you may be able to guide him to study and indulge him in reading, so that the contents of the book can become his knowledge and meat and be hidden in his temperament. Can withstand loneliness, but also can withstand fame and honor.